Posteingang: Thanks for your email,am very much glad to hear from you on here as well,you really sound so interesting and i really do like all that you have said about yourself as well,well i don't believe in numbers and also i don't see you as an old man too,well about us meeting in person will be so interesting and very good too,but i will really like us to take it slow so we could get to know more about each other..it seems we both are looking for the same thing too,well i also do have a littler about me which i will like you to know as well,Well before i will go on..i will like to tell you that No Game here because i have been hurt in love and i don't want this to happy again...Am Susana a 30year old African female,single, no kids, 5-6 ft tall, black hair and chocolate co-lour..I graduated from the university and now looking for a nice job to do,I generally try to live a some what healthy lifestyle,exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy,trust me,I love sweets and pastries,but try not to over do it.
I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well. I have several hobbies and wish I could find more time to pursue those such as swimming,fishing,dancing,and reading,and more, and would like someone to share that with,as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor,fairly easy-going,and I don't think that I'm too critical about things,but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work.
As I mentioned earlier,I like to do things with the other significant person in my life,but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well.I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship one man is enough trouble I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2,3,or 4 at the same time haha.
But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not well on how the relationship is not working..I do not expect a man to be a servant to me,spending all his time working and and cleaning I believe there is give and take in a relationship,and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry,cook,clean,and I have no problem doing that.
I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me.Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt,but if the same pattern keeps emerging,it's over.
I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me,or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses.Sorry if that sounds harsh,and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing,but I'm being upfront and honest about that,so you know where I stand from the beginning.With all due respect as well,I hope that you are upfront and honest with me,as well.I realize that I am 30 years old and that you are somewhat Older than me,if you would still like to correspond,that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other.
Well,I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical,harsh, or mean-sounding.I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt we're all human,we all make mistakes,but I also don't like being taken advantage of.I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning that way,nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt.
I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault,it's just that they're too different to be compatible. Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you.Until next time and I hope I didn't scare you off,Reply soon.
Susana ...!!!