Hello xxx, How is everything with you today? I hope you are fine. I'm really happy to receive your letter. You still haven't sent me your picture. How can we continue?? I didn't even see your picture. This shows that you really care. Perhaps my last emailsdo not quite follow to your inquiries, but I just tried to tell you about myself. I believe you realize that it is not easy to open up to a new person. today I want to expand the general picture about me and my manner, so you can understand whether you are interested in me or you don't. I will try to tell you about my side to the today's world and engineering. I propose to focus the day so everyone, you and me, explain what we enjoy in this world, in the opposite direction. Therefore we can well understand what can be expected apart. I'm hoping you don't object ???? I don't know if you are interested or no, but my height is 172 cm, my weight at present is 55 kg. I adore animals too much, but did not dare having them at my apartment. Cause I spend too much of my time in the workplace, and pets need a lot of attention and care. I like to read books, basically classical and scientific literature, movies, I do like romantic comedies. My favorite color is green, and surely, as every young woman I like flowers, my favorite is lilies! I never even knew my father, he abandoned us in childhood, my mum said that. I do not know why, I never asked. Possibly he demonstrated his failing, or perhaps he found another woman whom he's in love with and is really happy. My mum had died couple of years ago of cancer. That was a rough period in my life. Hence, I commitd myself totally to my job and my education and progress. As you can see, there is little that keeps me in Ukraine, I've been dreaming of living and working in different country. But, since I haven't met a worthy man for whom I can change my life, I still live in Ukraine Firstly, I have a negative attitude towards all social media and mobile applications. It seems to me that of this human race is just degrading. After all, this is so sily and vulgar to write quick texts and receive an instant reply. Just to ask how are you? Or what're you doing?? This seems so trite. There is no signal of interest or attention in that young lady. It's quite another matter when you get a wide, interesting letter. It shows that your interlocutor spent his time and are respectful for you. While reading a letter, one can quickly understand the intelligence of the other person. Because, you have an entire afternoon to formulate your thoughts and willings. There's some time to think about what to reply! Hence I do read my email in the workplace. For that reason I'm not using smart phones, as to avoid becoming how these primitive people. It's my principal position. I will not change this! I am asking you to honour my decision. And also I won't go back to that question, under any pretext. I say this once. From now on, I will ignore all the requests. Obviously, like every girl, I dream of a family and children. I know that a relationship is always a hard work to both! This is a ongoing search for compromising. Now what is family and relationship to me??? I am sure that the family is happy and hearty as long as there is balancing in it. The man is the head of the family, he is relying and assurance for all the other. When a woman is sure in her man, she will hold on to the end and save the family. She's gonna be dedicated and tender and will do everything to make all members of the family pleased. I do not understand modern society. Men have totally ceased seeking a female! Where is the courting? Where are the deeds? Where are some gifts and kinds attention ??? Everybody's going to some kind of gender equality, it's a dead end, that will destroy all of humanity. When I studied in Europe, I even saw such a bad picture that in a cafe, everyone pays for himself !!! Men, in a majority, become weaker than women. Most men even abandon a woman alone with problems. Don't even try to do anything !!!! They say solve your problems yourself! Now it isn't the money, but about basic respect and manifestation of a man's character. Every woman appreciates when a man trying to do anything, tries all the options !!!! As soon as a man has said, I cannot, I don't want, decide it yourself – THIS IS OVER! All problems arise from that. All treason arise from this. It is natural selection. It's like in the wild, whenever the male expresses his faintness and cold shoulder, he right away looses respect. Likewise, as soon as a woman ignores that she is a wife, mother, mistress and homemaker, they instantly lose interest in her. And then they look for a replacing. I hope you are, agree with me! Or have you a opposite position on it ??? I'll be so curious to know! I would be delighted if you write to me every other day. I will try to do so,too. I mean you're always welcome to tell about your day! Or to tell about your position on some point or situation! It isn't a problem to devote 20-30 minutes a day. Take your mind off everything and just write a message! Today I've done a pretty big e-mail, I beg you to find patience in yourself and read this fully! And also respond what you think about the modern world! What is relationship for you ??? What turns you off in a woman ??? In general, write how you feel about a regular family and adequate relationships! I'll be waitng for your answering.
Your new friend from Ukraine, Tatiana