Hello,

How are you and how is work? Hope all is well with you?. Its my very great pleasure to read from you and it really made my day when i read your mail and i like the way you answered my questions and i now know that you are really for real and i hope things will work out well between us.please send more pictures of you

This is more about me. I like watching stormy weather, going to educational lectures, beaches, watching movies, musical concerts and sometimes go for dinner and taste a little coffee. I am ambitious, imaginative, kind, sensitive, self-confident, generous to a fault, and loyal. I'm not a Vegan, I love to cook. I am also  interested in trading, technology, engineering, or working for myself. I believe I am intelligent and that i have the capacity to be a great friend and lover and open to possibilities with the right playmate because i grew up to love and to care for others.

Yeah, i am for real, because i don't think i have time for playing games around, because its very bad and sad when someone hurts another persons good feelings and i don't think i am here to do that and i won't like that to happen to me also............ Well to my understanding, relationship can mean two things:

1) It can mean that we have a connection, which I think exists because we have gotten to know each other better.

2) Relationship also means to be romantically and sexually involved and I think we are not at that level. So, I think at this point, given the few amount of time we have e-mailed each other, we definitely have a friendship formed based on some external and internal similarities that are developing into a relationship that will bring us a little closer with good intentions, and the potential exists for the relationship to evolve into something more significant and i pray and hope that what i am thinking is right because i won't like to be taken for granted.

I've been in several rapports where I was not fully appreciated and it hurts especially knowing that i have been dumped by a man before. In fact, many times I felt I was taken advantage of and that hurts. I'd like to meet someone who recognizes the little things I do for him and knows how to be appreciative. For instance, if I were to make breakfast in bed or draw a bath for my man, he could thank me by giving me a hug or a kiss.Or perhaps sending me a card for no particular occasion just to tell me 'thank you.' I'm very appreciative of what people do for me and i reward them in my own little ways.  To me, it's the little things that mean a great deal to me.

What does it really mean to be affectionate?. I love a man who can display his affections for me anytime and anywhere without having to be shy and even if he is shy he should be able to show his love for me anywhere though. And a person who knows how to be affectionate is a big plus. I love being affectionate. This may be an odd one, but I've learned that there are many man out there that are set in their ways. They have one way of doing things and are never open to suggestions or advice   Stubborn man are a major turn off for me and i hope and pray that you are not one of them. I like a man who is open to ideas, thoughts, and basically open minded  I think being receptive brings about sensitivity as well.  A man who is ignorant, mean, and just plain insensitive is difficult to get along with and i don't need such a man in my life. I would say that I'm not afraid to display my emotions. I'd like someone who is sensitive and caring.  If I'm sad, I'd like for him to be able to comfort me and cheer me up and most of all for him to be there for me. He doesn't has to do much, but just knowing that he's there for me is more than good enough.

Have you ever had someone not stand up for you? I was deeply hurt when someone I once knew wouldn't  stand up for me, even after he told me he loved me. I would never allow someone to hurt my boyfriend or my husband, and I would always stand up for him and would like him to stand for me too no matter what. One thing I will always do for my man is to protect him and what i need from my man is for him to protect me too.You can add me up on yahoo messenger with.....barbarracox90@yahoo.com..... so that we can communicate well or give me your yahoo messenger address

PS-I hope i have met the right man?

Thanks.,

Barbarra





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Hello ,

How are you doing and how is everything going with you and how is work and everyone around you i hope all is well as i am fine here also. I got your mail and i am so happy with your views and i am so glad to know that we share the same view and that we are moving well and i mean so well together, i also understand English,  I am so glad that you understand all i write and that you are always ready to read from me and also to write me too. I want you to know that i am so happy i met you and that we are writing each other because i now believe that we are meant for each other and that we might be together real soon.

I would like to talk this time on what i feel is the basis of a strong and steady relationship . These are my views on a strong and steady relationship. I know that for a relationship to be at its best the parties involved must be willing to sacrifice for themselves and stand for each other. I mean to be able to go the extra mile for each other. The main point in a relationship is Honesty and then Trust and they are as important as much as the other which we have been able to discuss in our other mails we have sent each other. As you know i would like my dream man to have trust for me and for him to be honest with me and i am sure that where there is trust and honesty then that will be the right relationship for anyone to be in or do i say perfect. For a relationship to be steady then both the man and woman should know that they are to become one and therefore hide nothing from themselves. I will do anything i can to make sure that all is well with him and he is happy because if my man is not alright or is feeling sad then i will also feel it too and if i am feeling bad then he too will feel it so it is better when two heads are together to solve or make amends. i hope you write me soon.   I am glad i met you..

Yours,

Barbarra

Thank you for the sweet mail you sent to me. I like to receive emails from you. I was waiting all the time to get your email and when i finally go the mail, i was so happy and i smiled. I always think about you. You are a wonderful man and you seem like the man i want to be with. I am shy but i will do my best to express how i feel about you.I am sire this is a beginning of a wonderful relationship.  Really sorry for the death of your parent and i want you to know its not about money,money makes things go sour that why i learn to work on my own as well.i need more of your pictures too.oh sorry you didn't have yahoo messenger just want us to talk more and probably chat on cam too..i will be through with business here in Africa next week and i am considering coming over to you and staying some couple of days, don't know how you feel about that

Hey, there is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been running through my head lately. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you will have to bare with me through this. I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. I want you to know that this gradually growing relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this love forever and ever, and I really think I'm going to get to. I want to see you walk around our house while i watch you at  how gorgeous you are. I want to you to know that love is so important tome and i have been single for long. I want you to pull the covers off me at night and i get closer to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh at me when I do stupid stuff and know i have a loving and caring man. I want to have a child with you and go through the experiences of parenthood with you.

I want to see you and me chasing our little kid around the house, all three of us laughing our heads off and having fun. I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep every night with me in your arms. I want to fall asleep on your chest listening to the beat of your heart and know it beats for me. I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see your early morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other. I want to see you walk down that isle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to be thirty years old and still make out with you like a little schoolgirl. I want to cook a meal with you. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want to hold your hand and let you scream at me while you bring our child into this world. I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we do. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked and retun inside to have fun.

I want it to take your breath away every time I say, "I love you" because you know it's coming from the heart. I want us to be sitting there and watching our child take their first steps from my arms into yours. I want us to sit down with a box of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup, and a thing of mint chocolate ice cream; well, I'll let your imagination finish that one. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever or more than forever. I couldn't really express in words what I'm feeling right now so I decided to share with you some of the images and thoughts that have been running through my head.

I just want you to know that I had never found someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with until I met you. I really am crazy about you, everything about you.

Kisses,

Barbarra

Good day Dear,

How was your day? . I am sorry i have not been able to write to you since. I just came back home from the clinic to receive first aid treatment, I was attacked by armed men on my way to make payments for the shipping of my gemstones this morning.. When they attacked, i was injured. The criminals took my bag containing vital documents and my MasterCard. They also attacked the driver that was driving the car that I rented here for my daily transportation. I reported the case to the Police headquarters  immediately, and I also called my bank to block the stolen credit card. I asked them to issue a new MasterCard and send it here for me, but they said it would take about 21 working days before it could be processed and sent down to Nigeria. Honey, I had to drop my passport and my wrist watch with the clinic security as a collateral that I will come back to pay them for my treatment before 48 hours. My dear, please help me! there is no one I can ask for quick assistance but you, You are the closest person to my heart and I know you will not watch me suffer this great pain, i wish you could see the the pains i am going through here.. Honey, the treatment & medical bill is 350 euros. I promise to give you back your money as soon as I am well and back home. Baby, I feel so lonely now and I need you by my side. Please darling.Please i don't want to miss my flight... I am in so much pains here.. write me as soon as you get this message.

Your dear,

Barbarra

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