Good Morning xxxxx' how is everything going out there' i guess you are doing pretty fine this morning, you could possibly be making good plans for today and i would like to learn how you do start your day I am sure this new week is gonna be a sweet week as we have a lot to talk about, I just got home after a long distance drive as i was invited on Sunday afternoon at San Diego, i just checked my mailbox now and saw that you have written to me and i do not wish to go to bed if i didn't reply to your email, the time now is 01:00 AM midnight... It is so interesting to meet such a person as you. I want you to know that I really appreciated the time which you took in replying to my previous email, I am also glad that someone like you could come my way at this point in my life when I really needed someone to call my best friend I need you to know that this whole thing is new to me as I never interacted on the dating site before with a female for somthing like this, from what i read on your last email i noticed that you must have had some bad experiences on this site before because you wrote that you have been hurt and wont like to be hurt anymore, well i must tell you that i am too old to play games with you, and if you want this our friendship to succeed you must not look at me like the other men whom must have played with you often, if you are afraid, i am also afraid, but there is no harm in trying, i am a man who likes to take risk because in life no good things comes that easy unless we take a bold step to get it, we have to focus towards making this dream come true, we have to put in our best, until we know each other better, and if one day you thought i am not your kind of man just say it, and i would walk away and i wont hurt you because of that, i am a gentle man and easy going i never hurt human before , but sometimes things might just change for some good reason if only we can try, please pardon me if i am making this hard for you in anyway, i just thought i should try to know you a little i am interested in you so much.see in life there is no such thing as living happily knowing how to put a smile on someones face and i must confess that you brought a smile on my face for coming through my way, thanks so much and i hope that we can exchange more emails telling about each other until we are able to be where destiny could lead us to. I'll tell you few things you might need to know about me. I like the literature,music, and cinema, my. personality traits are calm, honest, kind, loyal, flexible, elegant, sociable,sensitive,gentle, cheerful, optimistic, romantic. I have to let you know as well, that am an honest person- to me black is black and white is white, i still understand that in this world that we are live- no one is 100% perfect, but with understanding in between and kind heart we can make us be better and withstand all the things that life could bring towards us in the future, i don't have any girl friend at present and am not in any serious relationship you are the only woman i email from that site before i deleted it, but other women emailed me and i didnt reply it was too much most of them are young girls and i am not happy that was why i deleted it. Am also a great giver because I so much believes in the Multiplied returns maybe that's why I don't lack anything. yes i am from the state, i am originally from Texas, my mom is from Puerto Rico, i have been living here in San Jose for over 6 years, and i also visit San Diego as well.
I was raised in an upper class family, very orientated, though it was a polygamous home, my father was married to two wives, my mother was the elders and I am the only child she gave birth to’ which resulted to my father bringing home another wife because of the love he had for children maybe he wanted so much more, that period i and my mom visited Puerto Rico for a long holiday which we stayed over there for a long period and when we returned we found another woman living in the house even she was pregnant i guess they have been dating for sometime without makning us notice that... it was a good idea at first but not until she took over my father’s heart after she had given birth to 3 other kids- my half brothers and a sister, Romeo, Joel, and the girl Linda. My step mother bought over the heart of my father and made him to face her all alone leaving my mother in emotional pain for many years, but sometimes my father do remembers how my mother had stood by him and loved and cared for him from their starting days which makes him comes back to her sometimes to make her happy, but after some time he goes back to his previous behavior. The whole issue became worse when my father died in 17th of July 1987, which results to my mother’s illness because of the love she had for him. I also do not know if he willed all he had to my step mother and her children alone- leaving I and my mother behind and with nothing, I don’t know if his lawyer took sides with my step mother to give all inheritance to her, during December 5th 1989 after his dead, we had a guess who was my dads attorney who came to deliver my fathers will to every one of us in the family’ which seems to be the beginning of troubles, hatred all coming from my step mom towards I and my mother, the good thing was that I never took sides for anyone, I took both of them as my mother and I did what I had to do for both of them even treated my half half brothers n sister rightfuly.
In other to let peace come into the family I was able to convince my mother to relocate back to Puerto Rico because she has a lot of family down there who can keep her company and take her mind away from all the troubles, letting go off all my father left behind. I have called several times to speak with my other brothers and sister but it seems as if their mother has asked them to keep off from I and my mother meaning we are no longer one happy family, it keeps on happening the same way and when -ever I visit them they act not to know who I am even as we are all grown now and been to our separate world, don’t even know where they are they don't even know where I am- I feel like not having any right into the house or family- doors are being locked up on me, I would cry to a near by motel just to pass the night then return to my home the next day, it continued like that until I decided not to worry any longer and face my life trying to raise my own family as well taking care of my aging mother and loving my career, then i found my girlfriend who later became my finance's were in a serious relationship for many years, we where planning on getting married when we took a trip to Puerto rico to visit my mom to inform her about our plans of getting married in 2009, when we got back to the state something happened' she died of cancer it was a fast one i was crazy’ that’s my past i am over that now as life most go on and there are so much more to life, that has made me be a strong and a better man today..
I am an archaeologist i do research on artifacts’ and some other ancient historical resources of different kinds and nature, I have participated on an archeological research in many other countries, my most resent dig was at Egypt then Sudan, Pompeii, Peru, many places, I excavated on a pyramid where I discovered this ancient remains of long existed mummy's - found few valuables that we call treasures which in this days are highly valuable in our society, I made a lot of profits from my employees who used some at their museums art stores schools for study, i had some artifacts, though I am not doing my job because of the wealth/ riches I do get from it, I just do it for fun and to pay bills and I see it like what I am born to do, I actually took after my father whom was a very successful researcher during his days on earth, I will admit that it runs in the blood haha... I love my job so much, you know what ever one do in life, they must have love and passion while doing it, by so doing they would make it workout so good’ it will also make them unique amongst other people who are into the same career, I don’t do things because I see other people doing it, I do what I have to do at every giving time.
I am an adventurous, risk-taker whom has chosen to live an uncommon life. I love great food, wine, conversation. I believe I have another lifetime in front of me and I would like to meet someone with whom I connect physically, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually to share it with. Someone I can get very,very close to someone to share a bond and trust with. Someone I can be silly with. Someone I can play with.I can bring out the little girl in her and she the little boy in me. I'd love to let you know that i am easygoing and optimistic man who fly's solo,i am content to most of what life brings to me and always want to explore and aspire great possibilities.you know the saying, When life gives you lemon,you should make lemonades out of it..i am also a pretty upbeat person and with a decent and healthy outlook of passion,humor,honesty,spirituality,sensuality,intelligent- ,kindhearted and i am also a person with a great sense of humor..The kind of woman i wish to grow old with because i dont see myself being alone anymore in the next coming months i am hoping to find myself a woman that i will love and respect..
I'd love someone that is serious, confident, purposeful, persistent and family oriented, Someone who will work at keeping the relationship alive and walk side by side not behind or in front of me. Want that feeling of looking forward to seeing each other every now and then, I enjoy chick flicks but I also like those movies you have to watch every little thing so you understand the plot and the ending, movies that make you think. Horror movies usually scare me pretty good, so I don't watch them very often. Action movies about blowing everything up are okay, comedy movies to make you laugh until you can hardly breath are wonderful too, It makes you look forward to every day... What i do for fun? I like fishing,camping,reading,going to the movies play games,hanging around with friends,cracking jokes,listening to music,dancing, and also spending time with someone interesting and also holding hands while walking and having a wonderful conversation with someone interesting.
My Religion.I am a Christian and do go to church sometimes. I attend church mainly on Sundays,learning about the LORD. I know that if the Lord wasn’t in my life' there are days I would just give up but because he is he keeps me going, but i dont care about other peoples belief as long as they live up rightly and do that which is right in the site of God and man kind. Do you like sports or outdoor activities? I like going to ball games i like watching them on TV as well. I do like to watch the skaters on TV sometimes, i love football so much. I like snuggling on the couch or holding hands watching the rain or when it is just raining a little sitting on the porch in the swing watching and talking with someone. i could also be playing kissing sharing jokes and telling stories if i have a woman i love right beside me. I hope i have not written so much on here lol.. i wait your own respond soon.. if i could take my time to write all of this, then you should know how serious i am and please understand this.... thanks
John Robinson
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