Er hat sich vor ein paar Tagen bei BeSocial gemeldet und heute eine Mail geschrieben.   

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Hi,  How are u doing today ? i am fine myself..   Well let  me say thanks for giving us chance to get to know each other,    well it has been my intention to Find true Love, someone  Who i could cultivate a Loving and romantic Relationship with.Its has not been so easy to find True Love nowadays So i decided to contact u and see what comes out of it I'm new to Internet dating things i don't know much about It. Just want to give it Chance and see If i can have the right woman.  Tell me  more about yourself
Looking forward to hear from u soon

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Die erste Mail kam mit einer Zeitzone von +0800, wonach anzunehmen ist, dass der "Aufreisser" in Malaysia sitzt.

Queen schrieb on 27. August 2012 um 21:57:


Jetzt will er in Nigeria sein und dort kommt er auch jetzt hin.

I hope that you fine and in good health,I'm really glad that we can exchange emails and i hope that soon we both can sit down and have a cup of coffee,i would also love to chat with you,thought am new to this,i feel that I've found all what i want and desire,i did like you to know a little more about me,I want to find a woman, who wants a relationship based on "Truth, Real Love(not fake love), Compassion, Friendship, Loyalty, and Honesty!!!! I also want to be able to be "Romantic" to her with Love, not her telling me things like "If you love me, you will do "this or that" for me". I want to be able to do anything to make her happy, because "I Love Her", not because she tells me to do t. Know what I mean? I want to feel EXCITED when we Kiss!! When we Hug!! When we Hold hands while we are in public or our home.
I am not "materialistic"!! I would rather have someone to respect, care for, and love from my heart & soul, then money!! Yes, money is nice, but it can't buy you real love.I just want it to be, that anything we were to "own", as "ours", not "mine" or "yours". Yes, I know that there are somethings that will be mine, and she's, but do you know what I mean? I want to be able to "spoil her" by opening a door for her, or carrying things for me, taking her shoes off when she's back from work,for no special reason, but that I care for her.
    I hope that we can get to know each other better, and see how things might go. I can not "promise" that I might say or do something that hurts you, but I can promise that if I do, it won't be on purpose, it will be on accident. See, I don't know everything about your past yet, and I don't know what upsets you right now, but hope to know you better, so I don't say or do anything to upset you, because I hate that when I upset someone special to me.I love going out,taking walks down the park and thinking about my life,i love observing nature and cooking is also one of my hobbies. 
I'm a really sensitive and attentive man. I'm an observer of people (not a voyeur!). I like to figure people out. I like to notice the small detail about people. I like to know what makes them tick and what excites them. I like to know how to make them happy, how to make them feel special. I can be really romantic. With my woman i like to surprise her by doing special things. Like leave a flower on their car windscreen. Leave a card for them at their favorite shop for the shop worker to give to them. I like to send flowers when she's feeling down. I prefer private dates, with my woman and myself alone. I guess i like the private moments when we can share intimate things. Talk about plans, desires, feelings. As I said before, I'm quite physical. I love to hug and touch and be touched. I love to show affection to my woman and i love it when she's very affectionate with me. I love women and i always desire to respect them. When i have been with a woman, i have never taken advantage of them unless they have wanted me to. Even when they want me to be physical with them, I always want only to honor and respect them. 
I've been  widowed for 10years am looking forward to meet my Wife that will be honest and faithful with me . When that time comes, i will give her the gift of Truelove , i long to be intimate only with my future wife so that we could be able to give unbridled passion. When i find the woman who i feel is my soul mate, i look forward to when we can spend time alone, cuddling on the sofa, watching tv/films. Making out, caressing and kissing. I can't wait to Meet my future wife. I am a sexual person and i love the thought of being intimate with her in every way. I want a wife who feels the same way. Who has the same sexual appetite as i do and desires to be as intimate as i do. But all of this must be within the context of an exclusive relationship. So i will protect the sanctity of my future marriage. It doesn't matter to me if my future wife has a sexual history. As far as I'm concerned, when we marry we start from fresh. Her past is not of importance to me.Can you tell me more about yourself?. 
Would you be happy with the children someone else already has? What do you really enjoy doing? What you do to have fun? What kinds of music and movies do you like? What makes you laugh, smile, and cry? I am a father..ehehe children are precious gifts from the almighty God and we should take good care of them both physically and spiritually in the lords direction so they would not go astray. Yes i love kids so much. I love kids. And teach them the love of God. But i don't want to be strict with them. I want to shower them with love, devotion but with discipline. Not harsh but enough to make them able to make their own decisions. To teach them how how to make a meaningful life. 
I'm so lonely and I've nobody to hold on to and there's no one to pull me up.Maybe if u truly in search of a woman that would be truthful,respectful and loving you just met me,but fate only brought about us meeting here. I need a woman that would be ready to make me happy,,a woman that would see the better side of me,a woman that would not be aggressive and who would not want to hurt my feelings,i need real love and truth including honesty from my woman,trust is the basic foundation of a lasting relationship and i desire that we uphold our integrity towards each other. 
  Can you be that woman i seek and desire? I know that you are now receiving requests more from insincere game players, jokers and dreamers. They will tell you what they think you want to hear in order to gain your admiration and trust but only a very few will be totally honest and open their hearts for you. I am not one of those great pretenders. Being realistic,nothing for real is going to happen or can happen until an actual physical meeting takes place. Until then everything is speculative unless something magical happens. Although there is a lot of truth in that the more we can learn about one another and the more we have in common the better the odds of a meeting becoming the beginning of that magical journey that we have both been dreaming of. I will not let Geographic boundaries obstruct my dreams from becoming reality for the right woman I will relocate. I hope this would be the end of searching for my true Love? 
I am looking to read back from you. 

You are a good hearted woman who really care about who you are along with. I should tell u that  the problem with most intimate relationships is that they are not serious or care so much about their partner.  They do not involve a deeper knowing, and thus there is diminished possibility of sacred, transformative sharing. To be truly seen, in all our innocence and glory, is to be truly healed. What we salute in one another, we call forth in one another.
So many people say that they are looking for love, yet they are actually committed to never finding it. Many people would really rather not know of the scars and triumphs of the person who lies in their arms. Many people who say they are looking for love are merely looking for superficial comfort. Real love entails readiness to die to who we were, in order to be born again prepared for love, truly worthy of the romantic heights. Real love is comforting, to be sure, but not always at first. In becoming romantic artists, we must pierce the armor that hides our hearts, and that piercing is not comfortable. It is horrible and painful. It can take years of tears to melt the hardness that develops in this world, covering our tender, gentler, inner selves. Tears for every devastating loss. Tears for every humiliating failure. Tears for every repeated mistake. Those who allow those tears, even honor those tears, are not failures at love but rather its true initiates. First the pain, and then the power. First the heart breaks and then it soars. 
Love will push every button, try every faith, challenge every strength, trigger every weakness, mock every value, and then leave you there to die. But once you begin to turn the corner, to leave love's bush league and enter the pros, there is no worldly activity that can match the joy of flying like an eagle through the skies of a lover's heart.
IT WAS MESSY when we were born into the body, and it is messy being reborn in spirit.
Growth is a detox process, as our weakest, darkest places are sucked up to the surface in order to be released. Often, upon seeing the weaknesses in each other, we have the tendency to go "Yuck!" and walk away on some level. But often it is not a change in partners but rather a change in perception that delivers us to the love we seek. When we shift our view of the purpose of intimacy ? from serving our own needs as we define them to serving a larger process of healing ? then an entirely new opportunity presents itself. Our wounds have been brought forward, not to block the experience of love, but to serve it. It is in the forgiveness of our weaknesses that we are healed of them, and the tenderness of a forgiven heart is a tenderness that will ultimately heal the world.
You and I both know that we have shadow sides. We have edges, my darling, and resistances to love. If we're unevolved about this, then we will hurt each other, we will only cause pain. These aspects of ourselves could ruin this relationship. Let's consider this, before we embark. 
In fact, we were brought together for healing purposes. There will be something in your personality which is bound to trigger the unhealed parts of me, and I will trigger yours.
But we can see this relationship differently. Through the grace of God, it can become a healing environment rather than an emotional torture chamber. Then I think I can work on those parts of myself, and you can work on those parts of you. We can even grow beyond these things. I just need you to know that I'm trying. Please share with me, but try not to attack or judge me for these wounds I carry. And I will try my best to do the same for you. Then holiness will be served here, and the relationship can depend....  
  I will be waiting for your Reply Again..
Take care!! 

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