Its nice to read back from you and  i must confess to u that  all you said to me are the things i have been longing for in my life with my woman and i am so happy i have found you well to me i believe in true love and so much in sharing and that's the best way we can make this work here are the things i believe in  relationship just let me know what is it you feel about this and please let us get the ball of this relationship moving and Yes i will do all that will help this relationship move forward with you and i promise never to change you from what you believe in as much as its going to help make us happy.
     My own view to "faith, trust, honesty, dedication, communication and commitment".  All these things are very important to any relationship, but especially in a marriage.  But, I would add...respect.  First of all, I think you have put  prayer in the center of your marriage.  You have to bring all things to him.  If you have a believe centred marriage, you can work through all things with his help.  If you don't have trust, you don't' have a relationship.  Because once there trust is compromised, there is always doubt in someone's mind.  It's hard to gain trust back.  I have always believed you have to be a person of your word and you have to be honest in your words, actions and how you deal with situations.  Honesty goes along with trust.  If you are not honest, there is no trust.  It is important to have both in a relationship.  Dedication comes with a marriage commitment.  When you say you will spend your life with someone for better or for worse...you are making a lifetime dedication to that person.  This is part of the covenant you make to one another.  As for communication, it is your life line.  You have to have good communication to make a relationship work.  You have to be able to let them know how you feel and also be compassionate and understand how they feel.  You won't agree on everything, but you can compromise.  And compromising is a sign of love that you have of the other person.  Commitment goes along with dedication.  I totally believe marriage is for life and I wish mine had been.  Some things are out of our control as you know.  I am a firm believer that there is one woman for one man...not two to one.  If I am in a relationship, that is the only person I am with or even thinking about.  Part of that commitment is to let them know that they are the only person in my life.   Respect is important because you need to have enough respect for each other to listen to the other person.  If you respect that person, you will go to them for all things in your life and listen to their point of view.  But, you will also be able to say I respect your opinion even if I have a different point of view.
    I did want to point out that Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 is a great scripture...but you continue to read through that scripture to Ecclesiastes 4:12 to the last line.....it states...."A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."   
  Here are some of my beliefs about what makes a great relationship between a husband and wife. Please let me know if you feel the same way.
To talk about Trust:  Partners are able to confide in each other openly, knowing their confidences will be respected.They are able to discuss anything together and are not afraid to be vulnerable. They can openly express their feelings and know they are safe to open up to their partner.   
Togetherness: In a healthy relationship, two people create a sense of both intimate and autonomy. They enjoy each other company's but also pursue solitary interests. Feeling safe and secure, working together for the common good of the family and the relationship. Both finding fulfillment in shared interest and individual interests as well.   
Expressiveness: partners in a healthy relationship say what they feel, need, and desire in an assertive, rather than aggressive or blaming, manner. Feeling secure in the relationship allows you to be honest knowing that you won't be judged or criticized for your feelings.   
Staying Power: Couples in a committed relationship keep their bond strong through tough times by being there for each other. By choosing to love one another even when they may not feel like it. Love feels good but sometimes we need to make a choice to love, this is true maturity. 
Laughter:  Humor keeps things in perspective. Life's to short to sweat the little things, laugh at your self, enjoy the blessings of each other. 
Support:  Partners in a good relationship offer each other encouragement, comfort and   acceptance. It's not about what you can do for me, it's about what can I do for you. Build up and edify each other.   
Physical:  Sexual dside you as you as you fulfill your own destiny.
Respect:  Caring partners are aware of each others boundaries, need for personal space, and vulnerabilities. They do not take each other, or the relationship, for granted 
     I don't want to bore you... I wait to read back from you.

am looking for the last chapter of my life to begin. ."HAPPILY EVER AFTER! " I am a true champion and believer in true love, i really must tell you that am a kind of man that have good Goals ahead am very independent, the lonely night suck i just need a good woman that has good heart for love, a woman that is not afraid of commitment at all, a woman that can accept me  as her own twin without any doubt.. I have a great passion for living life in the NOW, no regrets, my life has a destiny and I am along for the ride. I am looking for someone to compliment me. Secure and confident, funny and romantic! I love to laugh. I hope that when my life is over, that I will have made the world just a little kinder and gentler place. One of life's lessons: Time is precious. When I hear, “Let’s take it slow”, I want to scream.
I really can not wait to see that day we will be together and talk about the how we met and the process went through to make this a real dream come through, but i must tell you i believe the problem with taking it slow at this stage of our life is we’ll be dead and buried by the time it will be RIGHT to act on the cosmic time-line. I don't want to waste yours or my own time, so be who you say you are. I'm extremely affectionate, romantic and have a good, although quirky sense of humor. I believe in order to get % you have to give %. I'm ready. Are you? I want to meet a woman of integrity and character. Of ROMANCE, and a sense of humor. I love to laugh. Surprise me, study me, watch me when I don't know you’re looking. The day you’re not thrilled that I am yours, and vice versa, is the day it is over. Try to love me for all that I am, not for what you wish I could be. Envy the old couple who walks by you still holding hands, and please be a good kisser. I am. I love fireplaces, cold Fall sunny days where you wear that great sweater and smell burning leaves. I love holiday shopping and I Love Buying Presents especially if I have someone special to buy for. If I have your attention, and you’re interested in meeting someone special and certainly different than the guy’s that you’re used to I am tired of people candy, seeking a woman of substance. 
  I'm not looking for a one night stand but a long term relationship. If you have the ability to maintain and invest in a loving and ongoing relationship, then I promise you the ride of a lifetime. I am seeking a twin, the missing one that I have seek all of my life. I know you do exist. You will have the following attributes: Nice, caring, kind, honest, good sense of humor, affectionate, loving with much passion with a beautiful smile and eyes that reveal your beautiful soul.
Are you ready to begin a meaningful and a committed relationship with me so we can work on something meaningful and see how it all goes... I hope i do not scare you off ? 

Well I am ready to open my heart to you, I am taking this chance on love again and I hope that my search ends with you. I believe we both can make it work because we do have so much in common and we are looking for the sames things. For me I am willing to do everything to make it work and also be honest with you 100% are you ready to make this work for us as well?
      I really must tell you i am so glad you agree to begin a commited relationship with me without any doubt these are some of the things I wish to do with you as our relationship keeps growing and getting better. First of all "Be your best friend, your shoulder to lean on when you are down. I would love to get caught with you in the rain and play with you in the rain like total kids. Watch the sunset at the beach together and stargaze on a clear night.  Spend all day with you doing nothing but gisting, watching TV, making each other laugh and having fun. I want to take walks with you and be more proud of you than I already am at this very moment.
     As the relationship keeps growing and getting better, I wish to have a picture taken with you, go out on dates, eat together, learn so much about each other to the extent we can communicate using body language, accept you totally and completely - flaws and all (I already do). I wish to love you for who you are, Spend all night thinking of 101 sweet things to do for you. Hold you and gaze into your eyes and realize how much I love you and tell you. Gently run my hand across your cheek and look into your eyes. Blindfold you and take you somewhere romantic. Spend my life making you happy. Spend my life making our family happy.
      Even as the relationship gets better, I want us to laugh at someone together. Share a plate of food together, get married and go on a fun family vacation and bring back the kind of memories movies are made of. Treat you like a Queen  forever. Cook your favorite meal/meals. Know you better than anyone else does. Have you know without me saying a word - that I love you and will be able to say "I love you" in 1000 different ways .Hold you when you're at your saddest and comfort you when you need it the most, be the one you come to for that comfort and holding. Wipe away the days' stresses and issues, with just one hug and kiss. Grow old with you... I hope we can make this work and be together soon, so we can spend a life time of happiness together. 
      I  LOVE YOU AND I PROMISE I WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU. 

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Thanks for getting back to me I really feel so much excited in hearing from you You always sound so great and much interesting to me r but  i really never think this could happen in a thousand years if this what you think of me  I'm always who i said i am i have no reason to lie or something. I used to hear all about this Scam stuff but i really don't know how it works and if i may ask , did u believe there is SCAM ? I'm not intending in asking u for money and beside am not a bigger and am not online to beg or seek for money am only seeking for one true one..i mean a woman who i could gain her heart and to spend the rest of my life with her but it hurts so much for u letting a money issue to obstruct or being a road block for finding that right one just because i asked you for money you are telling me to show you my Passport that means you are still doubting me and you don't really love me and Trust me, xxxxx i want you to know that i am not here to scam you or something like that , Pls se trust me to do this for me, i trust you will never push me away that is the reason why i am telling you about this, i am for real and i got no reason to tell you lies about myself or to earn your hard earned money, I am a real man, capable and well enough to take care of myself and my business, i do not see myself begging someone for a loan of 3,450$. I am very much okay and comfortable with my earnings and all but we never can tell, this might be a test of faith for me and my right person. I hate to let you down but this is nothing but the truth.. 
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Jetzt habe ich den Pass ! 

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