Hallo,
also ich war mir bei der Dame eigentlich von Anfang an sicher dass da eventuell was nicht stimmt.
Ich habe aber mal den Mailkontakt unter Adleraugen brav fortgesetzt und poste nun mal ihre Mails.
Zur Person:
Ihr Name ist Ada, sie kommt aus Northampton.
Sie lebt aber nun in Hannover, wo sie eine Tanzschule eröffnen will.
Ihr Vater war deutscher und ist verstorben, was sie nun nach Deutschland geführt hat.
Wärend des Mailkontaktes ist sie irgendwann kurzfristig in die USA/Texas geflogen, weil ein Freund, der eine Tanzschule hatte verstoben ist und sie nun schauen will ob sie da Material für ihre Tanzschule gebrauchen kann.
Sie Fliegt demnächst zurück nach Deutschland und würde sich dann gern mit mir treffen(hat gefragt ob ich sie vom Flughafen abhole).
So genug zum Hintergrund, hier nun der Mailverlauf:
Hi ******,
It's nice to read from you again, how are you doing? It is cool if you write in german while i write in english. My German is poor and i ashamed to speak it most times but am very willing to learn, maybe you can teach me better German. I moved to Germany because my father was from here and i just wanted to go back to my roots so i came and got an apartment here, its different here but i just wanted a new environment away from past mistakes and dishonest friends and i think this is the perfect place for me. Before then i was staying in Northampton. I am just a simple woman i would say. I guess there are lots of things that you still need to know about me. One thing that i hate doing is to hide my feelings. Most people tend to get annoyed if they are told truth. I don't like that and i am very open and straight forward...
Have you dated anyone on the internet before and how did it feel when you met the person? What do you like in a lady? Can you hurt a woman who is in love with you? Tell me more about yourself. You should be able to ask me any question you think you want to know about me and i will answer you.
LG.
Ada
Hello *****,
Nice to read more from you again, my father was from Stuttgart in
Germany but he was not a soldier. I like what you have written and i
would like to know more .What more about me? Well I’m easy to get
along with and i am looking for a serious relationship. I am in the
stage of life where i need a man to be with and spend the rest of my
life with. I am a dance instructor and i teach in different places and
different countries so traveling is not new to me, i teach adults
mostly and i teach ballet and modern dance choreography. My type of
person, my philosophy is “life is short” and I try to take in all I
can. I’ll try anything and if I like it I’ll do it again.
I love the outdoors, nature, travel,camping & fishing, cooking a fancy
dinner for my man or having him cook for me and listening to good
music. I like many kinds of music except gangster Rap, I like to
dance, I like to learn new things and am always interested in any type
of self-improvement & going to good seminars. I enjoy my work and i
believe i am very ambitious.
I enjoy romance and relaxing, and i would do that with just my
partner. He is out there, somewhere searching for me
My prince.
When we find each other, I know that we will be happy together. I am
honest, patient, passionate and giving. I find great pleasure in
keeping the man I love very happy in and out of the bedroom and I hope
he does the same. This may be you? Who knows? Guess we need to get to
know each other a little better. I have been single for 1 year and 4
months, when i lost my dad and also my best friend in close succession
i became quite shy and closed towards close acquaintances so i came on
this site to meet some who shares the same interests with me and we
can build a friendship first to over come my shyness of blind dating.
What is your size? What is your favorite color?
E-Mail me back. Let’s talk and see what happens.
Ada
Hello *****,
Its nice to read from you again, what have you done today and how has your day been for you? I have had a long day and i have been around town trying to do some research for real estate for my dance school. I have never dated anyone on the internet and this is my first time trying something like this so i hope it works out okay though i don't expect anything. I like to get to know someone a whole lot before i can open up and be free with them especially when it is not work related but relationship and friendship based. I would learn more about you and i have a good idea. I read a lot of motivational books and i ask myself a lot of questions so i think would be good if i ask you some of them too.
.....looking back on your life, of what are you most proud?
.......describe some personal habits that are important to you.
........describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could share with you.
.......what is the one dream for your life you most look forward to having come true?
.......If you had three wishes, what would they be?
I hope i have not bored you with my questions and i hope to hear from you soon.
Greetings.
Ada
Hi *****,
Nice to read from you again, i have found some locations already and i
also am checking out some existing dance schools here to see how they
do there business and have a blueprint for mine. Sorry about your
stressful day and that you had to work very hard. Thanks a lot for
taking time to answer my questions. I like your three wishes answer, i
also agree with you on that.
Here are my own answers:
. I am proud of my possession and my career,i have never had cause to
regret it and i also tend to make people happy while doing it. I am
also proud of the stage i am in life, the lessons i have learnt and
the mistakes i have come across. I have realized that all my friends
could never do up to half of what i can do for them and they always
want to take from me but find if pretty difficult to give.
. I like to swim, i like to jog and also run, i like to dance well
obviously you know that and i like to read a lot and also write.
. I like to always share my moments with my partner whether good or
bad and encourage him like he encourages me when i am doing something
very
important. I would also like him to dance and if he can't i would take
pleasure in teaching him though i might have a laugh along the line doing
that.
. I love to have a dream life partner who would be there for me always
and we can make each other happy every time. Someone who finds
pleasure in making me happy and developing a good family together in
harmony.
. I would love a partner who loves me, my successful dance school and
a nice loving family.
I would still like to ask you some more questions if you do not mind
as this is really giving me a great picture of who you are.
.......what do you most like to do on a day off?
........when do you feel most afraid?
.........they say life is about simple pleasures, what is your simplest
pleasure? and how does it make you feel?
............what do you find physically attractive?
.........what do you think are the three best traits you have to offer a
partner?
.........what are your general feelings about money and personal wealth?
.......how would you spend a romantic evening with someone you h
ve been dating for more than one year?
....one more thing that i want to be sure of is about sex....
I wish you a very great night and i wait to read from you soon.
Ada
Hi *****,
Nice to read from you again, how was your night? Great i hope? Thanks
for answering all my questions once again
One thing i also want to
tell you is we can achieve everything together if we both are not
selfish. It shows that you are the kind of man that knows the kind of
lady he wants. That was what my ex-boyfriend failed to do. He always
thought about what is best for himself only. For me i like going to
beaches, watching movies, shows, musical concerts and sometimes go for
dinner and taste a little coffee.
I feel it is very awful when someone hurts another good feelings.
Relationship can mean two things. It can mean that we have a
connection, which I think is something good. It also means to be
romantically and sexually involved and I think we aren't at that
level. So i think at this point given the amount of time we have
e-mailed one another we definetly have a friendship forming based on
some external and internal similarities that may develop into a
relationship that will bring us a little closer with good intentions,
and the potential exists for the relationship to evolve into something
more significant.
1. I would love to spend the whole day with my man doing whatever he
wants us to do. I also would like to have a day to just make myself
feel good like going to the Sauna, get a massage and just relax.
2. I am afraid of being with a man who lies to me at first then
changes and tells me a the truth that is very contrary to what i can
accept because it would be difficult for me to leave him when i am
already in love with him.
3. Reading a good inspirational book while taking ice cream makes me
feel so out of this world. I also like to wash dishes, i know this is
not a pleasure but i derive joy and relaxation from doing it.
4. Someone who is confident in himself and is not afraid to show it
because the truth is we are all beautiful and handsome in one way or
the other and we just have to ignite the spark and we can be
fireworks. If you look at someone like Angelina Jolie, some people
would say her lips look strange but most love it because of the
carriage and charisma she has.
5. Truthfulness, humility and giving my all to make him happy even
when it is not very convenient for me.
6. It is very important and necessary in life but it should not be the
only source of happiness though i can't imagine being broke, because
there is a saying that being broke is childish. I just believe we
should have enough to satisfy our happiness. Money doesn't do much
after it takes you above the average level that i have noticed.
7. I would like to go to paris with him since they call it the city of
love to discover our love even better.
Sex is important and it should be between two people who are in love
because i can't imagine having sex with someone i don't have feelings
for, it would be repulsive because when i do it i do everything like
licking and sucking and i put my soul into it. I just thought of these
questions because i don't want a case where i would start having a
certain degree of likeness for someone then we find out we don't have
any agreement in way of life. How is your week going for you and what
are your plans? I may have to travel soon for business but i won't be
away for too long. I am not sure yet so i am still making plans.
Have a great day.
Ada
Hi *****,
Its really nice to read from you again, yes you understand what i mean. How are you doing? I would love to meet you now in person to see how the chemistry matches up in real life but at the moment it would not be possible because i am very busy with the dance school i want to open and i would be traveling to the USA tomorrow. There is a dance school that belonged to a colleague but he died of cancer last month. I want to check the situation of all the equipment and see if i could use them all for my own school here and also a way to help his family also. It is like buying a dance school but changing location. I would be there for just a couple of days though and when i get back i would like us to arrange a proper meeting maybe over coffee. I would still appreciate if we can still keep communicating with each other on here for now and on phone too because i must say that whenever i read your messages my heart smiles.
You know I've been in several friendships where i was taken advantage of. I will like to meet someone who recognizes the little things I do for him and knows how to be appreciative. For instance, if I were to make breakfast in bed or draw a bath for my man, he could thank me by giving me a hug or a kiss or perhaps sending me a card for no particular occasion just to tell me 'thank you. I like a man who is open to ideas, thoughts and basically open minded. I think being receptive brings about sensitivity as well. A man who is ignorant, mean, and just plain insensitive is difficult to get along with. I would say that even though i am shy I'm not afraid to display my emotions. I'd like someone who is sensitive and caring. If I'm sad, I'd like for him to be able to comfort me and cheer me up. He doesn't have to do much, but just knowing that he's there solacing me is more than good enough. I would never allow someone to hurt my boyfriend or my husband, and I would always stand up for him.
Well i hope to hear from you soon. I love writing so i kind of get carried away while doing it.
Have a great time and i hope you have all the fun and relaxation you require.
Ada
Ab jetzt ist sie in den USA/Texas
Hi *****,
Thanks for keeping in touch, i am in the states now and i just settled into
my suite, it is really different here being the first time i am coming over
here with a lot of noise, but i am very cool in the hotel where i am
staying. My flight was long and boring but i thought about you a lot on the
plane and i felt happy to have met a friend. Do you have any ideas where i
can locate the dance school for maximum patronage as i want to rent the
space as soon as i arrive? How do you see the name "Therra Dance"? That is
the name i want to give the school. How are you doing and how was your
night? It would be great to talk to you on phone. You are a very interesting
person and i am happy to write to you. I am returning on saturday morning
and i would like to know if you can do me a favor of meeting me up at the
airport when i arrive. If you would be too busy or that would be stressful
for you then you do not need to worry though i would love to see you there.
The family is not willing to continue with the business and we are
negotiating a price for most of them. The instruments are high quality and i
have seen some of it at a dance school in Spain called dance Talego. I need
some drums and also a lot of percussion equipment. How are you doing? I hope
you are doing great. What do you feel about jealousy in a relationship?
I wait to read from you.
Have a great day ahead.
Ada
Hi *****,
I am not much of a chatting type and i don't have skype. I can try to download and install it though but you know now we are in different time zones so that might be a problem. We can write more at least 5 times a day. What do you think? It would be nice to see a picture from you also.
Ada
Hello *****,
Thanks for keeping in touch and thanks for caring. The name of the dance school is Therra dance and i got it from Dance therapy where you can get cured even if you have 2 left feet
I would like my school to be located preferably in Hannover and i have some locations in mind already but if you can think of any better location with good parking space then i would appreciate a tip off. I would send you a copy of my flight itinerary so that you can have all the details as i should arrive earlier than 11. I think jealousy is necessary in a relationship and i could say i get easily jealous sometimes especially when my partner tries to compare my bad habits in comparison to his ex. I think jealousy is a good expression of feelings as long there is no real rational for it. Jealousy is a good thing as long as it is a small little feeling to say I want to be with you and to stay with you but when it turns into a more serious feeling it might be able to destroy a relationship. Nevertheless no one should deliver a reason for jealousy. I know it´s not so easy to explain but I hope you got it.
And in a relationship no one should restrict the other one. Both should be free but want to spend her/his time with the other.
I am in Texas at the moment and the weather is not so bad. The people are friendly and they never stop looking at me like i am a star or something and sometimes it scares me. I am doing perfectly well right now so you do not need to worry as my colleague's wife is always around me and she is showing me around. You know my mother is the only family i have left and she lives in Northampton. I stay alone in my apartment at ******str. Hannover 30*** but i also plan to move to another apartment soon. My number is 0172 3******
(falls es kein Scam ist sollte die handy nummer noch nicht öffentlich gemacht werden, nummer wurde aber geggoglet und scheint noch nicht auffällig geworden zu sein) but its not roaming over here and that is why i had to get a new sim card here so i could have phone contact but as soon as i arrive it should start working. What is your handy number? I do not use skype as i am not much of a chat person and i have had no use for it before now.
I wish you a great night my dear and i hope you have the best.
Sweet hugs.
Ada
Thanks a lot for the very nice picture. You are really very handsome
Hi *****,
Your pictures are not terrible and they are nice to me. If you can also get a location in Hamburg for me then i can work on that. When i get back then we can talk more on this then. I will send you the flight data tomorrow. You are really very nice and i enjoy writing to you. I just want to use this opportunity to tell you that i am whom i am and i will never allow anyone or any man to hurt my feelings at the expense of my fragility or vulnerablity. I am an easy going lady that is looking forward to a great future. Seeing myself, children and husband playing together with a lot of happiness and peace. But that very special man must be someone that is honest and trusted to me. One thing that i will never get myself entangled into is to see my man hiding his feelings to me. A man that is inconsiderate, untrustworthy, uncaring and baised is difficult to get along with. If a man has any of these qualities i probably won't get along with him. Happiness and trust are what is important in every relationship and without happiness everything just doesn't seem to be positive. I am a woman who knows what i want and i do not like to bother a man for frivolities when i can obviously afford them myself. Love should not be based on a mans pocket or bank account and it should be with true feelings. I have realised that people always like to take from me and never give not even half of what i can offer them, that is why i stopped keeping friends. Even my ex was always asking for something or another. I need a support system that makes me better not worsens the situation. I guess i just have a good heart and people always try to take advantage of that fact so i rather avoid them. I was maltreated in my last relationship. It makes me feel bad each time i remember the incident. I hope you are also looking for a great and everlasting relationship as well. What do you really want us to call this kind of relationship? Internet Friends? Internet loves?
What is your idea in having dinner with someone you meet for the first time you meet them? I wish i could continue but i ought to stop here. Hope to hear from you soon.
Have a lovely night rest,
Warm hugs.
Ada
Hi ****,
Nice to read from you again, I also hope out meeting won't be a disappointment. How has your day been for you? Great i hope? Mine has been great also. I went to the museum and it turned out to be a lot of fun than i expected and i have already gotten all the instruments i need so i am just basically sorting them out. I would like to call this relationship the sweet phase as it has the possibility of taking us to greater places. I think dinner for a first date is quite romantic but i think coffee and a long walk is more ideal for getting to know each other better in person without much distraction. How are you doing? I would really like to meet you in person and i hope things will work out better between us. Meeting you in person will be very nice and i would be glad to see you, smell you watch you and feel you. But one thing is that your thoughts have been in my mind since we have started exchanging e mails. As i have already told you before, i want to spend the rest of my life with someone special. Here are my other questions for you. Where do you expect yourself to be in five years? What are the things that you can not do without? Do you really see yourself as a determined man or the man that stops trying when things seem to be getting somewhat unusual? I hope i have not bored you with my questions again. I do believe that we will achieve everything in common if we both are understanding and trustworthy with each other. I am being honest with you and i don't think i can stop doing that.
Hope to read from you soon.
Have a lovely night and i hope you have fun.
Warm hugs from the states
Your shy princess Ada
Die letzte Mail die ich nun bekommen habe, ist ein Flugplan mit ihren Flugdaten, hier der Quelltext:
Der Flugplan sieht ziemlich überzeugend aus.
Was mich nur stutzig macht ist, dass sie in Hannover lebt, aber nun nach Hamburg fliegt???