I really enjoyed reading your letter and learning something new about
you. I appreciate your openness. I think that if we always write
honest thoughts to each other and answer questions honestly, then only
in this way can we build good communication and move forward, leaving
the burden of the past behind. Do you agree?
I think I should write to you about my previous relationship. My last
relationship with a man lasted almost six years, but unfortunately, we
didn't reach a happy ending. No!!! In the beginning, everything was
fine. We lived like normal people. Work, trips to my parents' house,
trips to the countryside, going to the movies. But after a few years,
I noticed that he no longer had the same fire he once had. His
feelings cooled. I tried to save our relationship. I tried to
communicate with him more. I tried to surprise him in the kitchen. I
gave him more space. I did everything in my power to have a truly
fulfilling relationship. I tried to create every opportunity for him
to feel comfortable in our home. But he didn't appreciate all of it.
The more I tried, the further he withdrew from me. He started yelling
at me more and more. Reproaching me, making accusations. I think he
simply stopped loving me...
But I was in love with him, and I thought I loved him back. But I
learned his true nature after some time. This man turned out to be a
liar! He spoke beautiful and tender words to me, and I believed him. I
believed and dreamed of a happy life. I found out that after a while,
he started dating another girl. I saw him at a restaurant with another
woman. It was clear it was a romantic date. I was in great pain. My
heart was broken. I had to break up with him. It was hard for me. But
I don't want to be second or third. I want to be the only one. Now
that relationship is in the past, and I try not to think about it. I
told you this story because I need to be sure of our relationship. I
need to know that you will have no one but me. We need to be honest
with each other. Right now, I'm only communicating with you, and I
hope the feeling is mutual.
Tell me, how do you envision your new relationship? What would you
like from it? Of course, I'd be happy if you shared your thoughts on
the matter...
I'll finish my letter today. Until tomorrow...
Liudmila