these are my pictures! i was so glad to get your letter. our conversations are becoming more personal, and i see that as a really good sign.
i think it’s important to tell you a few things about my past and my family, so you can understand me better.
my mom had me quite late, at the age of 43. unfortunately, when i was 14, i lost her to cancer.
after that, i was raised by my aunt - my mom’s younger sister, she’s 54 now - and her husband. they don’t have children of their own, so they became like parents to me.
my mom and aunt were quite strict and raised me with traditional values, so i wasn’t spoiled much.
maybe that’s why i’m rather modest by nature, and in real life it’s hard for me to start conversations or make new friends easily.
that’s actually one of the reasons i decided to try meeting someone online it just feels easier and more comfortable for me.
as for my father, i know nothing about him. he was never part of my life.
regarding my personal life, my last serious relationship ended about six months ago. we had lived together for a year and a half.
honestly, it was a painful experience. my ex, to put it mildly, lived at my expense. he didn’t have a job and was always «looking» for one.
i paid for everything, and in the end, i found him with another woman in our apartment in our own bed.
that was a real shock for me, but it’s all in the past now. i’m completely ready for a new relationship, and i have no contact with him whatsoever.
that experience changed the way i see men. i realized i’m not looking for some carefree boy
i want a mature man who knows what he wants in life and in love, someone who isn’t afraid of responsibility and commitment.
i believe the foundation of any real relationship is trust and respect. without those, nothing can truly work especially when distance is involved.
i want to build something strong and lasting.
and i’m really curious what do you think makes a relationship solid between a man and a woman?
what, in your opinion, is the most important «foundation» everything should be built on?
i’ll be waiting for your reply and your thoughts about this.
i truly see potential in our letters and i enjoy every bit of our conversations.
can’t wait to hear back from you!
tatiana