I was so happy to get your letter. Our communication is becoming more personal, and I think that's a good sign. Yes, I do sports!
I feel it's important to tell you about some moments from my past, my background and my family, so you can understand me better.
My mother gave birth to me quite late, at 43. Unfortunately, when I was 14, she passed away from cancer.
After that, I was raised by my aunt (my mother's younger sister, she is 54 now) and her husband. They don't have children of their own, and they essentially became my parents.
My mother and aunt raised me quite strictly, in old traditions, and didn't really spoil me.
That's probably where my modesty comes from; in real life, it's very difficult for me to strike up a conversation or maintain a dialogue.
That's why I decided to try online dating; it's much easier and more comfortable for me.
I don't know anything about my father, he was never in my life.
Regarding my personal life, my last serious relationship ended about six months ago. We lived together for a year and a half.
To be honest, the experience was very painful. My ex-boyfriend, to put it mildly, was sponging off me. He didn't work anywhere. He was always "looking for a job."
He lived entirely at my expense. It all ended when I caught him with another woman in our apartment, right on our bed.
It was a very hard blow. But now it's all in the past. I am completely ready for a new relationship, and I have no contact with that person.
That experience heavily influenced my view of men. I realized I'm not looking for flighty "boys."
I need a mature man who knows exactly what he wants from life and from a relationship.
Someone who won't be afraid of responsibility and serious intentions. I believe that the most important things in a relationship are trust and respect.
I think that without them, nothing will work out, especially over a distance. I want to build something truly strong.
I'm curious about your opinion-what do you consider to be the foundation of a strong relationship between a man and a woman?
What is the most important "base" for you, upon which everything is built?
I'm really looking forward to your reply and your thoughts on this topic!
I see the potential for something good in our letters. I truly enjoy communicating with you!
Eagerly awaiting your answer! Tatiana.