Hello xxx. How are you? I'm doing well. Thank you for answering me.
You're an optician - that's so cool! I can imagine how many smiles you bring to people every day. And how nice it is that you see your profession not just as a job, but as a way to make someone's life better. That's very valuable.
Sorry for being so blunt, but I was really touched by the way you talked about your wife... I understand how painful it is to lose a loved one. But you carry yourself with dignity, with warmth and hope in your heart. That speaks of your depth and strength.
I'll tell you a little about myself so that you have at least a little idea about me. I live in Turkey, in a small town called Patnos. I work in tourism and help people organize trips and conduct excursions. I really like my job, it's very interesting. I'm 36 years old, I was born on December 31st, right before the New Year, almost at the chimes. That's probably why I'm so mysterious. Didn't it seem that way to you? I am the only one in the family, but I have great parents. My mother has Turkish-Polish roots, and my dad is from Belarus. My mother is 56, and my dad is 88 years old. This is my family. I often help them. Because they are already old, and some things are quite difficult for them to do.
I like an active everyday life. I do not like to lie on the sofa and watch TV. My hobbies are: swimming, cycling, walking, tennis, traveling. But at the same time, I really appreciate my parents' home, comfort, heartfelt conversations. Only to them can I open up.
I used to have relationships, but they did not end well. The man I loved cheated on me. He cheated on me on my own bed, I personally saw it. I came home early and caught him with another girl. Therefore, now my trust in men has weakened. And I am careful about dating. Because the loved one whom I trusted took me and betrayed me. It wasn't easy, but I've cooled down in 2 years. I'm not young anymore. It's time to start building a family again. That's why I'm actively searching now, and I hope that our communication with you will help us get to know each other better and bring us closer. What do you think? Are you ready to open up to me?
I would like to be with someone with whom I can feel loving and needed.
I think that if our communication develops for the better, then soon we will be able to meet. What do you think? Write to me, I will wait for your letter. Your new friend Selen