Hello! How are you? I am glad to see your letter and to continue our correspondence. I hope that with each new letter, we will get to know each other better and become closer. You disappointed me for not sending your pictures. What is the reason, is it so difficult to do?
xxx, today I want to continue telling you about myself. I would like to share with you about my divorce from my husband and the reasons why I am looking for a man online. We started dating at a very young age and lived together for more than 10 years. Later, we simply legalized our relationship, and by that time, my income had stabilized, and we mostly lived on my money. Paying for the rent and utilities was my direct responsibility for many years. I never pressured him about money; I always understood his situation and supported him in difficult times. I was not bothered by these responsibilities at all; I even got used to it. For many years, I suggested that he earn as much as I do, but his pride prevented him from doing so. How could a woman teach me how to earn money? You have probably heard about the mentality of Georgian men? Pride surpassed common sense. I explained to him that this way he would have more money for personal needs, and in general, we could increase our family budget, but he didn’t care. He pretended that he was satisfied with everything, but every day he made my life miserable in various ways, and I endured it all because I felt guilty for earning more than he did. And I probably would have continued living like that if one day he hadn’t told me that he no longer wanted to live with me because I earned more than he did. So, he set me a condition: either I quit my job, or we get a divorce. We had a very serious conversation in which I tried to gently convey to him that we could not live without that money, without hurting his ego. But he still stood his ground, not explaining a specific reason. I explained to him that I also used that money to help my mother, who has a very small salary and cannot survive on it. My father passed away a few years ago, and she was left alone. If you are interested, you can look up the average salary in Georgia, and you will understand that not everyone can survive on that money. To save you time searching, I will tell you that my mother, working as a dispatcher in an oncology center, earned about $300. This is a very small salary, considering that half of it would have to go for housing, and she would have to live on the remaining half for the next month. Even if she bought only the essentials at the store, she still wouldn’t have enough money. And besides me, no one helped her. In general, my husband found these arguments insufficient, but I already had my position. Later, the real reason for his whims became clear. I found out that during the time I was abroad, he had some small flings, and later he was consumed by guilt, which he could not live with. In general, we sat down and talked like two adults and realized that we could not continue living like this. We did not blame each other; we approached our divorce very wisely and remained on good terms. You know, I don't see the problem with you being a father. I think it's great that you already have experience in parenting. I don't think it can be a problem for our acquaintances.
As for why I am looking for a man online? Because I traveled to other countries for many years and saw how relationships and families are structured there. This model of relationships really suits me. I like that in many families there is equality and mutual understanding. I like that the responsibility for everything is shared between two people because I thought for many years that when one person is doing their best to support the family, it is normal. I am not only talking about material support; I am also talking about emotional support. For me, it is normal when people sit down, talk, and seek compromise, rather than standing their ground on principle. It is normal for me when care in a couple is shown not only when asked, because a loving person always sees when their loved one is tired and needs help and support. When everything is discussed and decisions are made together. When problems are not hushed up but are talked about at the time when it is necessary. I hope you haven't been bored reading about what happened in my life. I just wanted to be honest with you from the beginning and share what I've been through. It was hard, but I think it's important to talk about such things so that you understand me better. In the next message, I will tell you what kind of man I would like to see next to me. I want to say right away that I don't have any special requirements or high standards. For me, the main thing is sincerity, openness and the desire to work on a relationship together. I believe that if both people try hard, support each other and communicate honestly, then the relationship can become strong and happy. Hugs, your Teona.