Hello !!!! I am very glad to receive letters from you! Thank you for
answering and not forgetting about me. I am very interested in getting
to know you and getting closer with every letter! How was your day?
What was good about him? I think that in pairs with a big age
difference there is a balance of power within these pairs. Partners
give each other different information - because they are people from
different generations, different opportunities, different points of
view. They keep each other "in tone", offsetting the shortcomings and
deficiencies of each other: if something is weak one - in this
powerful other, and vice versa. And if all this is imposed on mutual
feelings, then these relations stronger than relations between two
coevals. What do you think? why didn't you answer my questions? I
wrote you a long letter and asked questions, I am upset that you did
not answer my questions. Aren't you interested in our communication???
I hope this is not the case. how will we get to know each other if we
don’t ask each other questions and answer them. I hope you will write
me a long letter and answer my questions. in today's letter I want to
tell you about my family! These people have always occupied a big
place in my life. They gave me the upbringing of a decent woman. Mom
told me to stay with a kind soul and a soft heart. After all, only
kindness can make this world a better place. what do you think? Her
instructions are very much to me they came in handy in life. I grew up
to be a decent person! I will always be grateful to them for that. Now
my mother lives in the village, she looks after my grandmother. She is
already elderly and needs to be taken care of. It's sad to see how
people close to you are getting weaker every day... My mother looks
after her garden in the summer. She grows a lot of vegetables and
flowers. After harvesting, she sells it and survives by doing so. In
winter, my mother is engaged in knitting and various needlework with
my grandmother. Knits mittens, scarves, warm socks. They even made a
gift for the children at my work and knitted them a lot of warm
clothes. The children were very happy with such a gift for the New
Year. You're probably wondering where my father is? It's hard for me
to talk and remember what happened to him. Now I will find the
strength to tell you this unfortunate story. My father died when I was
only 5 years old. I hardly remember him. My mother told me that he was
a simple worker in the village. He worked on a combine harvester.
Sowed fields, harvested crops. Unfortunately, he had problems with
alcohol. I remember as my mother told me, they had a lot of quarrels
with him, as he left home for a few days. In the village, many men
drank vodka or alcohol, which was made at home through moonshine
machines. One evening they got very drunk with friends and he fell
asleep in the field next to his combine. One of his friends, without
noticing him , went on a combine and drove over it. That's how my
father died. Alcohol is a horror that will never lead to good! This
evil only ruins the lives of many people. I don't mind when a person
doesn't drink a lot. When a person knows his measure and the next day,
he will not get drunk again to a terrible state. I myself can
sometimes afford to have a glass of wine with a good dinner. It hurts
me to look at those people for whom alcohol is like a drug and they
cannot live without it. for me, my mother and grandmother are the
closest and dearest people. I love them madly, and I appreciate them!
They are not only my mother and grandmother for me, but also my
closest friends! I can talk to them on any topic. They will always
support me and give me the right advice. I hope you were interested in
learning about my family. If you have any questions, I will be happy
to answer them. Please tell me about your family. How did your parents
meet? Who did they work for? What is the ideal family for you? Do you
think that a man is a leader or should there be equality in a
relationship? I really want to understand how you see your woman and
life with her? My views on family relations are as follows: The man is
the head and the last word is always with him. A woman should go
through life nearby, support and give advice to a man in this needs. I
dream of such a family. What are your dreams about? Today I will send
you my photos from my grandmother's village. I'll also show you her
farm I look forward to your letter tomorrow. Your friend Alena.It’s
a pity that you didn’t sign your letter like me, I find it very
romantic. I hope in the next letter I will see your name and a signed
letter.