Good afternoon xxx!
I'm excited for us to continue getting to know each other I can't wait to get to know you better and see if we have common aspirations and values? Wouldn't it be great to learn more about your interests, dreams and what you are looking for in a relationship? I believe that through open and honest communication we can uncover the many facets of our personalities and see if we have the foundation for a fulfilling relationship?...
I was fortunate enough to live with my husband in a beautiful marriage for over 12 years! Tragically, my husband passed away before we had time to veil our children. He was a coal miner working in the coal mines, and one day while he was working there was a mine gas leak that killed him. I think the deeper the bond with a person, the greater the feeling of loneliness when they are gone. Friendly families thrive in an atmosphere of open communication where every decision is made together and every family member's voice is valued. This was the case in our case as well. Therefore, it was very difficult for me to readjust to the new way of doing things - to solve all the issues only in my head, without being able to discuss something with my husband. I was not inclined to open up to anyone else. Who else could be genuinely interested in the minutiae of my day, my work problems, my feelings and well-being. For the first three years, the thought of finding someone new didn't cross my mind. However, as time went on, the burden of loneliness became heavier and heavier.
One day I had a dream in which my husband appeared and said: "Abby, my love for you is eternal, but you need to find happiness again." Over the years, the prospect of finding a partner seemed increasingly difficult, especially as I got older. In an attempt to alleviate my loneliness, I even got a Yorkshire terrier named "Ariel."
After much introspection, I felt ready to find meaningful relationships. Emilia, my sister, supported my decision to look for a partner outside of our country, especially since it gives you the opportunity to get to really know a person before diving into a deep relationship.
I have attached a picture of Emilia and my dog "Ariel" for reference.
Abby