Hello xxx,
I hope this letter reaches you in good health and high spirits. My name is Gulnara and I wrote this letter to share with you my thoughts and observations about love relationships.
Firstly, I forgot to tell you, I am 31 years old but I look younger, since I have not had a physical job in my life, I work as a lawyer in a small private company that specializes in the production of wooden doors for home and office,
my job is that there are always dissatisfied buyers of doors and often complain about the quality,
and I need to explain from the Kyrgyz law who is right and who is wrong.
Because it often happens that the door itself was of high quality, but due to the fact that the people who bought the door called an unscrupulous master who installed the door incorrectly, and now it creaks and torments those who bought it,
from the point of view of the law, the door at the time of purchase was of high quality, but it was not installed with high quality,
so I work as a lawyer in a small private company where I carefully study every complaint about the door.
I would like to tell you a few words about myself and my past life, why I am here and how it led me to seek relationships in another country.
Lately I ve had a bad relationship experience here in my country. I was disappointed and hurt to learn that there was no mutual respect and support in this relationship. This led me to the realization that I want to find an exceptional relationship where a man will respect and appreciate his beloved woman.
Past relationships were solely on the fact that I must completely obey a man who often waved his hand to try to hit me.
There were blows, and it was at the most inopportune moment, every time I was not ready to be hit.
I m just tired of enduring such a life and such relationships,
I found the strength in myself to take all my will into a fist and I got out of such a relationship, because I feel like an abuser all the time. Do you know what it s like to be an abuser?
An abuser is a relationship in which a partner violates the personal boundaries of another person, humiliates, allows cruelty in communication and actions in order to suppress the will, often cruelty manifests itself in physical violence.
I repeat. I took all my willpower into a fist and loudly declared that I was tired of such relationships and that I wanted to break such relationships once and for all so that I would no longer feel like an abuser.
I lived alone for about half a year in order to restore my former feelings and come to a normal life and no longer feel that someone humiliates me.
In my free time, I read a lot and walked outdoors.
I became interested in studying relations in other countries.
And I came to the conclusion that it is easier and more reliable to build an honest and healthy relationship in another country.
I started researching relationships in other countries, I learned about the culture and values of people in your country.
Around the world, the traditional respect and care that men show to their partners is famous.
In your country, there is an opportunity to find a relationship in which each partner will mutually support each other and succeed in everything together.
I am not looking for the perfect fairy tale, but I hope to find a partner who appreciates and respects me for who I am.
If you are open to acquaintance and are interested in the opportunity to get to know each other better, I would like to continue our communication. I would be glad if you tell me about your views on relationships and what they mean to you.
Can not wait for your reply.
I wish you peace in your heart for the whole day
Best wishes,
Gulnara