You know, with each new day, when I come to read your letters, my mood gets better. And today I caught myself thinking that I was in a great hurry here. My intuition told me that I will see your answer today. I already told you in one of my letters that I really trust my intuition. And I am glad that my intuition turned out to be right again. I read your letter, and now I will write you an answer. I hope you have everything well there and no problems? If you have something to share with me, you know I am always ready to hear it. I really know how to listen and understand people. I understand that during our daily life we have an accumulation of various negative emotions. And if all this will accumulate for a long time inside us, then it can have a very bad effect. We can be angry, have a bad mood, and have no desire to do something good. I don't want people to be angry, that's not right. Therefore, I am always ready to listen to what you want to tell me, do not be afraid that I will not be able to understand it or it will not be interesting to me. I am interested in absolutely all your thoughts. The only thing is, at the moment I'm still not ready to talk to you on very intimate topics, such as sex, I'm sorry.
I perfectly understand that sometimes you may get the feeling that I ignore what you write or do not give you my opinion. I'm sorry if it happens like this and you have such sad thoughts. But, I do it because it seems to me that sometimes you just need to speak out, write everything that is in your thoughts, soul and heart. I read it carefully and remember it. But I don’t tell you my opinion about it, just because I understand that after you wrote to me, it became much easier for you. Sometimes I am not sure if I have the right to tell you my opinion or that my opinion can somehow offend you. I would never want that. But, I feel that I was able to help just by listening to you, and I become calm as well. I hope that I am not wrong about this? Anyway, if you think that I should comment and give you my opinion on what you wrote before, then I ask you to write again and remind me of it. I will definitely give you my opinion on this. Because I really don't want there to be any doubts, mistrust or misunderstanding between you and me. For my part, I promise to do everything to prevent this from happening.
In my life at the moment everything is stable and calm. The weather makes me happy, I don't worry about trifles. You know, sometimes it seems to me that lately I've started to think too much about you, about our communication, about our acquaintance. And with each new letter I want to know you better and better. Therefore, I decided to make this letter somewhat different from my previous letters. I decided to ask you some of the most important questions that interest me about you. And also I will write you my answer to these questions in detail. I hope that it will not be difficult for you to answer these questions in detail as well.
1) Do you like our e-mail correspondence? What do you get from this, what emotions, and do you want to continue it as well?
I understand that I have already asked you a similar question, only in a different form. But, I'm just a girl (smile). And we girls tend to worry, it is important for us what the person who is really interesting to us thinks of us. And you really are that kind of person to me. I am extremely glad that you and I started our acquaintance in letters. Communication with you gives me a new experience. This communication allows me to understand myself better. I see and feel that you are a really kind, caring and very interesting person. I understand that you have a great life experience, and you are ready to share it with me. And it really means a lot to me and I really appreciate it. And of course, I want all this to be continued and developed further.
2) What is the most important thing for you in this life? For what could you change your principles, do incredible things, and what do you strive for very much?
You know, I'm sure that if you ask a lot of people this question directly, you might get different answers. And if these answers are sincere, then you can get options such as family, friends, work, etc. Unfortunately, in the modern world, all this will not be surprising or not true. But this is not my case! I think that you could already understand from my previous letters the answer to this question. And it remains and always will be the same. For me, the most important thing is family. Complete, happy, based on love, trust, care and mutual respect. And in order to get a family and keep it, I am ready for anything. And it is not just words. Only a family can give a person true happiness, peace and support. No one, friends or work can ever replace this. Bad mood and work, it can come easily and easily go away. Friends are of course very important in our lives, they can also provide some degree of support and care. But you will not spend every day with your friends, because they have their own affairs and families. But family is something that shouldn't depend on mood or work! If you have a real, strong family, then for the sake of this you yourself will do everything possible so that it never disappears. And if, nevertheless, once a lack of mood or work could destroy a family, then this family was never real. No external circumstances can ever destroy a real family. I'm sure about it! And I really want to have such a family. For this I am ready to do everything possible and impossible. The most important thing is that next to me could be the person with whom we absolutely coincide in our life goals.
3) This question, I would like to write as a continuation of the previous one. How important is it for you to have absolute trust with the person with whom you plan to connect your life? And how difficult is it to gain or destroy that trust?
For me, having absolute trust is very important. I cannot call myself a naive little girl. But, at the same time, I am not a paranoid who in every word, in every event looks for only negative moments and dirty tricks. I trust people as much as they trust me. If I see and feel that a person is sincere with me and does not try to appear in a beautiful image that does not correspond to reality. If I see that a person does not avoid direct, sharp questions and is always ready to answer it. If a person has never deceived or betrayed me. Then I will be as sincere and open with such a person. Otherwise, I will simply stop communicating with such a person. I don't want to waste my life trying to fix, change, and make someone better. It is much easier just not to communicate with such an innocent, negative person. At the same time, I understand that in order to gain this mutual trust, it takes some time and different life circumstances. And in this case, I will trust the person until the moment when the person gives me a reason not to do this.
4) How often have you been wrong in your life? And are you able to forgive people and give them a second chance or a third?
I understand that all people are wrong in this life. Someone more often, someone less often. And I never judge people for that. I always try to first understand the reason a person made a mistake. And only after that, make any conclusions. I know one thing that each of us is able to learn from our mistake, so all we need to avoid repeating these mistakes is to carefully look at them and understand their reason in order to correct it in the future. Each of us has the right to be able to correct our mistakes. only then will a person be wisdom and smarter!
I hope that it will not be difficult for you to answer these questions of mine. And also that it was interesting for you to read my answers. As always, I will look forward to your reply. I wish you a good day and only the most positive events and good mood.
Your friend Eiyrada.