Hello xxx! Thank you for your new email!!! I am glad that our
communication continues, and I can see your emails when I have a break
at work!! Thank you for showing me that you are interested in our
communication. I really appreciate it! So, in my previous letter, I
promised you to write more about my family. I only managed to write
that I have a mother and a sister. My sister is a very beautiful
woman, I send you a photo of me and my sister, you can appreciate it!)
She is a good girl, always manages everything, takes care of herself,
plays sports, works. As you already know, I do not have children, now
at my age I need to find a second half, I do not know if I will have
children, for me the main thing is to arrange my life, as the years go
quickly =) I'm tired of living alone. My sister is married and has a
child. She has a son growing up. Her son is 5 years old. My sister
named her son David. David, growing up very fast, he's a smart boy.
I'm glad my sister got lucky. My sister has a strong and happy family.
She and her husband live in the village with my mother. I don't have a
father. My father left our family, he went to live with another woman.
My mother then did not start relationships with other men and gave all
of herself to raise me and my sister. My mother taught us to be
independent. She worked very hard, while agriculture was developing
rapidly. Many people worked on the farm, my mother is no exception.
She worked as a milkmaid in the mornings and evenings. Every morning
my mother got up at 4 am and went to the farm to milk the cows. At
that time, all the work was done manually. The cows were milked twice
a day, and after milking they went to the warehouse where they had to
unload grain, potatoes, and many other agricultural products. That's
why my mom often disappears at work. We grew up independent. Then I
realized that I was responsible for raising my little sister. These
have been difficult times, but I appreciate this time and I will never
forget it. So my sister treats me very well and appreciates me! After
work, my mother would come home tired, and she would read us various
books and fairy tales. And when we went to bed, my mother would clean
the house and make us food for the morning, wash our clothes. I still
don't understand when my mother had time to sleep!) I really
appreciate my mom's care. I saw it all, and I knew that it was very
difficult for my mother. So my sister and I learned how to do house
cleaning, how to cook. In addition, we kept chickens, geese, cows, and
pigs. It takes a lot of effort to maintain all this. It was a mini
farm. Everyone kept such a farm in the village, and now many people
give up farming and go to the big cities. My sister and I fed our Pets
and birds every morning before school, and cleaned up the manure after
them. Then we had Breakfast and went to school. After school, my
sister and I often went for a walk to the river, we played with our
peers. And in the evening we were again waiting for work, my younger
sister and I were watering cucumbers, tomatoes, and cabbage in the
garden. After that, we sat down and learned our lessons. And so it was
repeated every day. Do you have any idea how difficult it was?) There
was less work in the winter. Now my mother and my sister live in the
village with her husband and child. And I decided to move on, and
after finishing the 11th grade of school, I entered the University.
There was only a school in our village. I had to go to the city to go
to University. I liked life in the city, of course it was not easy. I
studied and got a job at the same time. I didn't want to hang around
my mom's neck because I understood that she worked very hard for a
small salary. Now my mother is retired, and is engaged in gardening
and Pets. After studying at the University, I went to work in a cafe,
I washed dishes.Over time, I met a man. We dated for two years, and
then my ex-husband proposed to me. Almost 7 years I spent on my
ex-husband, and he took and left me. I don't understand the men of our
country. A lot of men drink themselves into unconsciousness. My
ex-husband was no exception, and he often drank strong alcohol on
weekends, and after work he could drink 0.5 or a liter of beer. Of
course, this all led to quarrels and disagreements. For years, all
this accumulated inside us, and my husband left for another woman. To
be honest, I was already ready to break up with him, too, because I
wasn't happy around him. It's been a little less than a year since I
divorced my ex-husband. Time has passed, and I think that stop being
sad and the past time should be left behind! I also deserve happiness
and love, and that's why I decided to make international
acquaintances. Personally, I don't want to suffer from the man I love.
I want a happy relationship where a man and a woman respect and
appreciate each other. I want my man and I to please each other in
everything. It's so nice when a man can just give flowers to his
beloved woman. And a woman can have a romantic dinner for no reason.
Do you agree with me?? I think that happiness is in small things. I
Wake up in the morning and go to the window first thing. I pull back
the curtains and let the light into my apartment. I am glad of this
sunbeam, which bounces off the mirror and jumps on my pillow. Then I
go to this very mirror, look at my reflection and smile at myself!! I
say to myself out loud: "Good morning, Nataliia!!!"No, no, I'm not
mad.))) Of course, I live alone in my apartment, and I miss having a
loving man around, but I'm not crazy. xxx, if this is not difficult
for you, then please try to start your morning by wishing you a good
day and smiling at your reflection. You will see that your day will be
more enjoyable than ever. This is a very simple secret to make
yourself happier. My mother taught me this from childhood. As I said,
my mother didn't have a simple life, but she always smiled. She never
gave up and taught me to look at life positively!! xxx, now I have to
apologize because unfortunately I can't continue my story about my
family right now. My break is over and I need to work! This
conversation can go on for a very long time, and I will try to tell
you a little more about my family in my next letters. I'm sorry to
rush to finish this letter. I want to wish you a good day and good
mood today! Have a good day!Always sincerely yours,Nataliia