Hello XXX ! I am really glad to talk to you again So, it is our second official date, am I right? If this date took place in real, I would give you a kiss in your cheek. Do you mind?
How is your day? How is everything in your world? I wanted to apologize if my previous letter sounded too serious. I am still learning how to date via the letters I promise to be "lighter" in my letter as then it will be much more pleasant to talk and learn about each other Can I ask you if you have good sense of humor? Do you like to make laugh at people? What about self-irony? to my mind it is a very useful thing
I am very glad that in your letter you told me about yourself and shared some details about your life. It is very interesting for me to find out every single point about your personality. It is interesting to learn about your likes and dislikes, about the people whom you admire and the people who disappointed you. Sure it is impossible to give all the information in one letter, but I do hope that we will build our communication on honesty and sincerity. Who knows, maybe this correspondence will show us that we have much in common
I asked you about the bad habits which you would not accept in your partner. I am, indeed, not the perfect person who is free from vices. We all make mistakes in life, we can be unrestrained, angry, depressed. We are all human beings and we need to put up with the imperfections of other people. Sure, I would not want to connect my life with the person who has alcohol or drug addiction. I would not connect my life with the person who is involved into gambling. I am totally assured that the family cannot be created on such unstable basis - horrible addictions. As for the habits, Life is a daily battle with people and things that are trying to change us and those that are trying to prevent us from changing
I want to thank you for answering my question about temper. I am not an angry person by nature. I am smiling and positive, though there are the moments in the life of every single person when something goes wrong and we start being irritated by this event or by the person's behavior. These moments are inevitable (unless you are living on a uninhabited island and that is why I always follow a recommendation of one author who once said: "Stay calm and exercise restrain during your most desperate moment or you shall desperately say what when your desperation is over, you shall come to a later realization of what you shouldn’t have say and notice how silence could have been the best option to mere words!"
I am happy that Internet gave us the chance to talk to each other despite the distance, language barrier. You have already got a kiss in your cheek (haha) and now I wanted to ask you what you would order if we sat at the cafe? I am sorry, I do not want to sound silly but I just try to imagine that we are dating in real life, not only virtually. I would definitely order herbal tea and dessert What about you? I love sweets and you? My dream is to taste strawberries dipped in chocolate. I ate strawberries and sure I ate chocolate, but never strawberries in chocolate (the way they are depicted in the fashion magazines). What is your favorite dessert? When I was 13 y.o. I baked my first cake. It was called Napoleon Everybody liked it. So, since then from time to time I bake. Sure, I am not baking anything when I am alone. I do that when I invite my friends and when I know that the girls of mine are on diet (in such a way I am teasing them. I know that I am a bad girl. I was lucky to be born with very good metabolism (you can see that I am too thin and sometimes I am suffering from that).
I suppose I need to mention that my country is not the safest place right now. Since 2014 the region where I am living in the state of war. Difficult to say with whom we are fighting and for what. I know only one thing. Since the war started Ukraine lost more than 10000 people and changed the lives of the simple people. I see how much pensioners are suffering from very small pensions (50-100 USD a month), how miserable the citizens feel. I do have friends who went to fight for Ukraine and never came back. It is disastrous and sad. Sure, I could have omitted this topic but if we are learning about each other, we, probably, also need to share such unpleasant information. The war does influence our life, our mood. It interferes our plans and ruins them. The front life is 20 km from the place I live and it means that I can go to work and have normal life but every night I can hear explosions and gunfire. Do not think I say that in order you to feel pity about me and Ukraine. I just find it important to share this info. If you find this paragraph "unwanted", you can sincerely tell me in the next letter.
Ok, about more positive things. I do not live alone in my apartment. I live with a very tender, loyal and fluffy man. His name is Timosha It is my dear cat. I got it from my friend 2 months after my husband's death. She said that the pet at home will help me to get rid of the sad thoughts. It really helped and I love this little naughty creature with all my heart. I am a very devoted animal lover. I also help the animal shelters in our town. Frankly speaking I was crying very hard when I watched the news from Australia - the country that lost half-billion animals in fires. I think it is the tragedy for the whole humanity. I am sorry, I am getting serious again. By the way, I will send you the photo of my Timosha
Fortunately I do not have the problems with the different kinds of addictions. I never smoked in my life. If we are talking about alcohol, I can drink a glass of wine once in a couple of months (never do that alone). I have addiction to milk chocolate. So, that is my problem. I also cannot sleep in pajama when it is warm in my apartment. I am sleeping in the costume of Eve. What about you? Are you Adam at night? Just curious. But do not answer if you are too shy So, now you know about my bad habits. Will you tell me about yours? When I mentioned Adam and Eve I did not mean anything bad or inappropriate. I will not deepen this topic though I wanted to say that I am the one who likes intimate moments, who likes to show to the partner that every inch of his body is important to me. I am affectionate, I love making love and I am not scared of talking about that. But I do not like the dirty conversation. It is just like the difference between making love and having sex. I am sure you understand the difference. The intimacy makes two partners feel closer to each other, be a single whole. But I am not the one who will have sex just for sex. I need the feelings. I really need to feel love to the partner. Are you the same? So, it is a bit ticklish topic to discuss, but I hope that you share my desire to open up and try to tell you who I am and what kind of relationship I am expecting to have
Sorry that I am boring you to death again with my talks Please, do not fall asleep Though it is late to tell about that. I should have warned you earlier I want to tell you that I am just very eager to know you better and tell you more about myself
Have a nice day
Olga
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