Hello  XXX! Thank you very much for your reply to my letter. I was not sure I would hear from you (maybe I am just unsure in my ability to be interesting for the men, especially when we need to exchange the letters.
I am pleased that now we can share with each other some information about each other, see how much we have in common or how much our worlds differ. I know that our first steps will be timid and it will not be easy to open up. It will be interesting to find out if we have hobbies or interests which would unite us. For example I am the person who loves the sun and the water, I am the one who likes cooking and creating cozy atmosphere at home. What about you? What is something that you like doing most of all? What is your favorite movie? I ask you this question and I doubt that I would answer this it myself. I like so many different movies: from romantic movie "Notebook" to adventurous "Pirates of the Caribbean", "Transformers" or even my favorite "Harry Potter". What kind of movie would you watch with your partner (I mean from your collection)?

You asked me about my profile. Yes, I am under the name of Kristina and the info on the site is not really truthful as I was trying to protect myself from weird people. I am sharing with you my information here and I hope that you will not be afraid of me as I am not evil and I am not here to hurt your feelings.

Maybe I need to tell you a bit about myself so that you know who I am and what kind of family I have. You already know my age. I was born on the 27th of March (I am Pieces), live in Kreminna in the rental apartment. I am 165 cm and 53 kg.  I do not have kids though I love them dearly. I would never have the problems to connect my life with the man who already has kids. My parents live in 230 km from the town where I live. My mother is 60 y.o. and my father is 65 y.o. They still work though very soon they are planning to retire. I do not have grandparents anymore, thus my family is very small. My personal life is a bit tragic. My husband was killed in the car accident together with his brother. It was not their fault. It was the fault of a drunk driver who simply crashed into the car of my husband. They really did not have any chance to survive. I think that this tragedy totally changed the perception of this world and of this life for me. It took much time for me to cope with the grief and come back to the happy life. So, I am here and I am ready to allow another man enter my life and make me happy. I know that the men are afraid of widows as they are too melancholic and too preoccupied with their memories about their deceased partners.  I want to repeat that I have coped with sadness and I want to be happy again, I want to love again and I want to be loved again

I do not know if there are the things which you will never tolerate in your partner? I am against addictions - drinking, drugs and gambling (I can tolerate smoking but not at home and not too close to me as I am the person who never smoked and I will never begin doing that. I cannot tolerate lazy people, the ones who always complain how horrible and difficult the life is and do nothing in order to change it. I would not tolerate the man who is disrespectful to me and my family, mean and arrogant. I want to live in peace, in harmony. We can be different and have different types of personalities, but I want us to respect each other and never change each other's individualities. Do you think I am too serious in expressing myself? I hope not

I wanted to mention my education (I do not know if this topic is interesting to discuss but I just try to tell you more about myself). I graduated from Volodymyr Dahl National University and my specialization is sociology. I cannot say that it is the field that interested me much but I got my diploma and now I am housing and communal services administrator. It is a kind of social work as you are communicating with the citizens of the town all the time (they come to us to solve their problems with electricity, gas or water). So, by the end of the day my head is exploding but it is the way the social workers should feel, I suppose. I would love to get another education as I am very interested in tourism and hotel business. I think this field would inspire me much more than the field I am working now. Ok, I change the topic

I do not know if you find it strange but I do not have real hobbies. I do not collect items and I am not the person who builds something for fun. At the same time I have many interests and I am very active by nature. I love to be outside, I like to jog and swim. I go to the gym 3 times a week. I like to knit and embroider (I know that it sounds pretty old-fashioned. I cannot imagine my life without music (pop music, lyrical songs, classical compositions. I like to have fun and I like to surround myself with the happy and positive  people (I have 4 real friends. By nature I am a  forgiving person, I do not  know  how  to  be  angry with someone for a long time. I prefer being natural  in  all the situations. I can be mad from time to time, but if it happens nice music or hot shower help me to come back to "senses". How do you control your temper? I am tender and loving. I like to cuddle with my partner. It is something that miss so very much. Are you the one who loves to cuddle with your partner?

I am sorry I've probably bored you already. I will try to control my talkativeness If I did not scare you off, then I will gladly wait for your message. Tell me more about your life and if you have some photos, I will be very glad to see them
Have a nice day

Olga
 

Hello XXX ! I am really glad to talk to you again So, it is our second official date, am I right? If this date took place in real, I would give you a kiss in your cheek. Do you mind?
How  is  your  day? How is everything in your world? I wanted to apologize if my previous letter sounded too  serious. I am still learning how to date via the letters I promise to be "lighter"  in  my letter as then it will be much more pleasant to talk and  learn about each other Can I ask you if you have good sense of humor? Do you like to make laugh at people? What about self-irony? to my mind it is a very useful thing

I am very glad that in your letter you told me about yourself and shared some details about your life. It is very interesting for me to find out every single point about your personality. It is interesting to learn about your likes and dislikes, about the people whom you admire and the people who disappointed you. Sure it is impossible to give all the information in one letter, but I do hope that we will build our communication on honesty and sincerity. Who knows, maybe this correspondence will show us that we have much in common

I asked you about the bad habits which you would not accept in your partner. I am, indeed, not the perfect person who is free from vices. We all make mistakes in life, we can be unrestrained, angry, depressed. We are all human beings and we need to put up with the imperfections of other people. Sure, I would not want  to connect my life with the person who has alcohol or drug addiction. I would not connect my life with the person who is involved into gambling. I am totally assured that the family cannot be created on such unstable basis - horrible addictions. As for the habits, Life is a daily battle with people and things that are trying to change us and those that are trying to prevent us from changing

I want to thank you for answering my question about temper. I am not an angry person by nature. I am smiling and positive, though there are the moments in the life of every single person when something goes wrong and we start being irritated by this event or by the person's behavior. These moments are inevitable (unless you are living on a uninhabited island ) and that is why I always follow a recommendation of one author who once said: "Stay calm and exercise restrain during your most desperate moment or you shall desperately say what when your desperation is over, you shall come to a later realization of what you shouldn’t have say and notice how silence could have been the best option to mere words!"

I am happy that Internet gave us the chance to talk to each other despite the distance, language barrier. You have already got a kiss in your cheek (haha) and now I wanted to ask you what you would order if we sat at the cafe? I am sorry, I do not want to sound silly but I just try to imagine that we are dating in real life, not only virtually . I would definitely order herbal tea and dessert  What  about you? I love sweets and you? My dream is to taste strawberries  dipped  in  chocolate. I ate strawberries and sure I ate chocolate, but never strawberries in chocolate (the way they are depicted in the fashion magazines) . What is your favorite dessert? When  I  was  13  y.o. I baked my first cake. It was called Napoleon    Everybody  liked  it. So, since then from time to time I bake . Sure, I am not baking anything when I am alone. I do that when I invite my friends and when I know that the girls of mine are on diet (in such a way I am teasing them. I know that I am a bad girl ). I was lucky to be born with very good metabolism (you can see that I am too thin and sometimes I am suffering from that).

I suppose I need to mention that my country is not the safest place right now. Since 2014 the region where I am living in the state of war. Difficult to say with whom we are fighting and for what. I know only one thing. Since the war started Ukraine lost more than 10000 people and changed the lives of the simple people. I see how much pensioners are suffering from very small pensions (50-100 USD a month), how miserable the citizens feel. I do have friends who went to fight for Ukraine and never came back. It is disastrous and sad. Sure, I could have omitted this topic but if we are learning about each other, we, probably, also need to share such unpleasant information. The war does influence our life, our mood. It interferes our plans and ruins them. The front life is 20 km from the place I live and it means that I can go to work and have normal life but every night I can hear explosions and gunfire. Do not think I say that in order you to feel pity about me and Ukraine. I just find it important to share this info. If you find this paragraph "unwanted", you can sincerely tell me in the next letter.

Ok, about more positive things. I do not live alone in my apartment. I live with a very tender, loyal and fluffy man. His name is Timosha It is my dear cat. I got it from my friend 2 months after my husband's death. She said that the pet at home will help me to get rid of the sad thoughts. It really helped and I love this little naughty creature with all my heart. I am a very devoted animal lover. I also help the animal shelters in our town. Frankly speaking I was crying very hard when I watched the news from Australia - the country that lost half-billion animals in fires. I think it is the tragedy for the whole humanity. I am sorry, I am getting serious again. By the way, I will send you the photo of my Timosha

Fortunately  I  do  not  have the problems with the different kinds of addictions.  I  never smoked in my life. If we are talking about alcohol, I can drink a glass of wine once in a couple of months (never do that alone). I have addiction to milk chocolate. So, that is my problem.  I  also cannot sleep in pajama when it is warm in my apartment. I am sleeping in the costume of Eve. What about you? Are you Adam at night? Just curious. But do not answer if you are too shy So, now you know about my bad habits. Will you tell me about yours? When  I  mentioned  Adam  and  Eve  I  did  not  mean  anything bad or inappropriate. I will not deepen this topic though I wanted to say that I am the one who likes intimate moments, who likes to show to the partner that every inch of his body is important to me.  I  am  affectionate, I love making love and I am not scared of talking  about  that.  But I do not like the dirty conversation. It is just like the difference between making love and having sex. I am sure you  understand  the  difference. The intimacy makes two partners feel closer to each other, be a single whole. But I am not the one who will have sex just for sex. I need the feelings. I really need to feel love to  the  partner.  Are you the same? So, it is a bit ticklish topic to discuss,  but  I  hope  that you share my desire to open up and try to tell you who I am and what kind of relationship I am expecting to have

Sorry  that I am boring you to death again with my talks Please, do not  fall  asleep Though it is late to tell about that. I should have warned you earlier I want to tell you that I am just very eager to know you better and tell you more about myself
Have a nice day

Olga 

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Тренажерный зал «Триумф» (Камыши)

Клуб находится в г. Севастополь по адресу: Античный проспект, д.7в 

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Севастополь волнорезы

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Autokennzeichen 92      Stadt Sewastopol

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Entfernung zwischen Kreminna und Sevastopol beträgt 800km und ist für einen Arbeitsweg zu lang.