Am so happy to hear from you.
Commitment is the greatest key to a successful relationship. If you
are committed you will always find a way to work things out
Communication... talking and open honest communication about how you
feel. What makes you happy and what upsets you. If you don't tell your
partner then they can't do what makes you happy and vice versa.The way
a person treats his/her parents reveals how they WILL treat you! If
it's with love, kindness and respect, then this is what you will
receive. But if it's with criticism, defensiveness and disrespect,
then this too you will receive... EVENTUALLY... it's almost certainly
a guarantee! So watch and listen to the answers you get in their
actions and words BEFORE you jump into bed.
I feel that a relationship should always be based upon honesty and
acceptance. When you can fully accept yourself, honesty will come
naturally. This in return will leave your partner feeling comfortable
with you, knowing there is nothing to hide. If two people can see each
other in full view with complete acceptance, they can build a
successful relationship from this
I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship
would have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow.
However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or
expect that trust is to be earned by the other person,
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when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself.
All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past
experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those
proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are
searching for...
yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find
that 'right' person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons
learned very much worth the risk.
bridget
All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when
they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience
and move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth
living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' come to you.
Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that
true love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I believe
has given me the wonderful gift of 'true' love. It's a hard thing to
do, a scary thing, but very much worth it.
This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your
trust... that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong
the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only
protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to
experience happiness and joy?
Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their
actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your
hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the
true love that will follow. For everyone there IS a someone, you just
can't find them if you hide away all your life..
Not expecting your partner to think and react to things the way you
do. Resolving any conflict in your relationship depends on this. It's
important to respect your partner's feelings, even if they are
different from your own. If you and your partner both do this you can
usually resolve bad situations.
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