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Hello, xxx
Thank you for your email. I appreciate you wrote back to me. You seem as a very interesting person and I would like to continue to learn you. I am here to find true love, and a feeling of being deeply satisfied with the one who will become my husband, and I his wife. With honesty comes trust, and without the two, one cannot find true love. I do believe in true love and I also believe that true love can overcome any and all obstacles. For me, that is the one thing that I long for more than anything else. I do not see a purpose for just “dating”. The end result should be love and to become wedded, provided our values and ideas match together nicely.
I would like to write some things about myself. I am 31 years old. My height is 168 cm and weigh 53 kilos. My birthday is in December, 15. I am Russian and live in Russian Federation. I should tell it was not my intention to create profile on Russian Cupid. One of my friends got married a man from Latvia and suggested me to try this site too. She helped me to make an account on this dating site and she accidently put wrong country.  I decided do not change it since I am looking for man abroad, not in Russia.  I work as a low level manager in construction firm.  I work 8 hours in day 5 days in a week. My spare time I spend home reading the books, watching TV and listening music. I like movies, art galleries, reading, biking, camping. When I have a lot of free time I can meet my friends and go out. I like to spend much time outdoors, going for walk in the parks with my friends, going to nature. I like many kinds of sports, I play tennis and volleyball.
I've never been outside of Russia, but I like to travel. I did not travel much in Russia and around the World. Every my vacation I spend in my town. But I would like traveling and discovering new places with you. 
Why have you not been successful in having a long term relationship, or marriage with a women in your country?  I would think that there would be many local women, who would wish to have a romance with such a good man. As to me I put profile on cupid site, because I grow tired of the attitudes of Russian men.  Most men that I meet have been married, and divorced, and they have much bitterness, many of them drink alcohol.  I understand why this is so.....but I do not wish to be around such negative type of energy.  I would rather be alone than live with that in my life.  For me, an attitude of gratitude is very important. 
I think that a good relationship between a man and woman starts with respect, and honesty.  First of all, a person has to respect themselves.  Happiness starts inside a person.  Then, it can be shared, and built with another.  Next, there needs to be a physical attraction.  This is very important, I feel.  The attraction starts with liking what is inside a person, and then as the feeling grows and increases I believe it is natural to wish to express this through an attraction in touching, feeling, sharing intimacy with another.  Through the internet, this can be difficult.  However, I still feel that it is possible, through the sharing of thoughts, desires, and good communication. 
 
I hope to hear from you soon.
Ilga.

Dear xxx, thanks for an answer. I have switched off the profile on Russiancupid,
because I started to get a lot of spam from unserious people who just wanted to have
sexual chattings. If you want I can renew my profile again, no problem. I should tell you
that I am serious woman and I don't play games. I am looking for longterm relations. I
will never take advantage from a man, so you don't need to worry. I hope we continue to
learn each other through the letters. Please write me when you can.
Your new friend Ilga

Ooops. Das ist eine, die die Briefe liest.

Hello, xxx, thank you so much for your letter. I thought you would write me something
about your life, your work or maybe how you spend your days, but you only write about
love. How can you be sure that you love me already? It is weird! I never wrote about love
to you! But you write you miss me and think of me in some intimate way.... I am confused.
I sent you three letters with some general information about me. I told you you the truth
about me. But I still know nothing about you. Since I am not on Russian Cupid, I dont
remember where exactly you live or where you work. You even didn't send me your photos. To
tell you the truth I have correspondence with a few more men, so I try to choose the best
match for me. Wait for your answer. Ilga

Dear xxx, I have mail address in mail. ru. It is ilga.ivanovna83@mail.ru.  I am
decent woman and I read what you write, that is why I became confused when you started to
talk about love. I appreciate for screenshot from Russian Cupid. You really look younger
than 40. Are you sure the photos are fresh? I am sorry I can't send you the screenshot of
my profile. You know the reason. I have pride and woman's honor.  I believe in a
honesty is what I value most of all in relationship. When two people are honest with each
other, all the other problems and misunderstandings can be worked out. But, once the
honesty goes away and the lies start, there's just not much left to work with. I have
always said "just tell me the truth and we can work through anything".  I feel that we
already have a beautiful friendship! As I have come to get to know you over the past
weeks, I value your friendship. I will end this message with a quote I found in internet:
"3 things I want in a relationship: Eyes that wont cry, lips than wont lie, and love that
wont die."
Cheers, Ilga

Also I have had the misfortune of having to deal with the famous Ilga. I do not know if there is or there is someone behind her. I know I wrote a lot of letters, the first almost identical to those proposed again here, with the same photographs. unfortunately I sent $ 50 to help in the expenses for the passport. after having withdrawn told me that they had not received and after I provided evidence that had been collected in another city, apologized, saying that he had withdrawn his grandmother who had urgency for an operation and was able to pick them up because he the same name. Suspicious, because hardly even a grandmother can have the same last name, I wrote that a relationship without trust was not possible. I asked her several times a video with which answered my questions, but he had a smartphone. A meeting in video chat on skype, going to an internet cafe if it had its own PC but replied that it was not possible. His phone number, but the phone was dead and could not give that office. has just posted a picture with my name written on a blackboard, but it was probably a photomontage. Since then I have written that I found out she was removed from the dating site RussianCupid and not, as she said, that was canceled because of too many letters in which they asked her just to have sex, has not written, nor returned the money he had said he would return. If needed I can post some of his e-mail.
Considerations: very smart and definitely to be avoided ...

@ tezza



tezza schrieb on 06. Juli 2015 um 08:25:


Yes, it is a Scammer

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