Oh Gott, wer soll das alles lesen?? Dearest Husband
Thanks for the message..I really get inspired in all you said and all i can is before meeting you is that you don;t have to doubt on me am new to this online dating site so i have the purpose of looking for a real and responsible man like you...
First of all, you are welcome for the honesty.You see, I feel there are five very basic but essential elements of a relationship.They are also to a degree sequential......
First is honesty and then respect. They go hand in hand and without them any type of relationship;business,personal, family, whatever, is doomed for failure. Anyone who is dishonest, can not be respected. Without showing respect,it is unlikely to be treated with honesty......
Those are fundamental to trust which like respect is earned because honesty was first and was given. When trust is built and respect is earned and they are given and shared,then love will grow. When you love and trust, where giving is more important than receiving then commitment becomes a part of the relationship.....
At that point, you promise and believe it will be forever....
You can do this because you love and trust the other partner and are committed to making a life to share together.This may sound silly to you, I don't know. But I really do believe it with all my heart and soul.....
Now that I have danced all over the floor, I will try to be more specific.....
First, no one is perfect, especially me. I know this though, when the right person that seems right comes into your life you will know it. A connection happens and My Dearest you just can't, or won't let go of them.
Your whole life changes and all of the emptiness begins to fill up. It starts with the first touch, the first time you look into each others eyes, the very first time for everything becomes a moment to remember. Sometimes it happens quickly, other
times it takes years. I don't pretend to have the wisdom to explain or understand. This is certain, if you are at all intelligent and conscious, if a person is wrong for you it is obvious. I truly believe it is easier to know if someone is not right for you than to know if some is.....?
The respect, the trust just will not happen. Just don't ever let infatuation or sexual appeal be mistaken for love....
About the kind of soul mate am looking for? well first the person must be honest , open minded , willing to share thoughts and ideas ,a soul mate that will be there for me, believe in me ,love me for who i am ,care for me ,be like a sister,friend mother ,and most of all a wonderful lover and solution of my problem, a soul mate that will stick with me through the storms of life and still tells me he loves me..
A soul mate that will stick to the oath of for better for worse and till death do us part i am not saying i am looking for a perfect person but the right soul mate.The more I communicate with you, the more fascinated I am becoming. I am very interested..
We are very at a very early stage of a relationship and I don't expect any unreasonable commitments.
I only ask that you be totally honest. I promise to do the same.Respect my feelings and I will respect yours.
I know we will not always agree on every view point, but everyone is entitled to their own perspective. If you were to look at an animal, such as a horse from the front. You would see the soft nuzzle and beautiful eyes.
If I were behind the horse, I would see a horse's ass. If we could trade perspectives, we would see life as it really is but i have learn that relationships are very hard. People grow and change with time. people have their own minds, dreams and goals.
To have a solid relationship the two people must commit to it. They must work at it and try to find the middle ground between them. People must be able to give and take and to trust that the relationship is what is most important.
If a career, or a goal or a idea becomes more important then the relationship itself, then it will fail. The two people must nurture and care for the relationship like you would a flower. Feed it always , water it and help it grow with lots of love, attention and sunshine. I look for a friend, a companion, a sultry lover, and a soul mate who respects me as I do too. I work hard and will work hard for the relationship. Communication is necessary and most important no cheating or lying. Work through good and the bad. I look for peace and harmony. The partner to share life with and know he cares for me and I can care for him. What you say is true love is a fragile issue , when you have it, it takes hard work to keep it shining or else it will lose its glow ,people need to know it very well before jumping into it that's why their is a high rate of divorce this days there don't seem to be communication between partners about how they truly feel Sometimes partners act very selfish and self centered that they don't carry the other lover along in what they do and it seems that they just shut the world out on them.
I want a soul mate that can make me feel secure , a soul mate that wherever and whatever we go through his love will never change , a soul-mate that without telling me with words i will see it in his eyes that he loves me.........
A worlds is enough for a responsible man like you.
Those this message make any sense...?
What do you have to say,, you must say something.............?
I will be waiting to hear from you soon.
Yours Affectionately
YOUR WIFE TINA