So hat es angefangen auf der Kontaktseite finya am 20.07.2013
(Frage: Soll ich ihn bei finya melden, er ist noch aktiv.???)

Good Morning ,

I hope your weekend is going on well ..I have been here for a while ,off and on and i came across your profile today ,I do like it and i hope we could be friends atleast although i am looking for something more concrete ,everything starts with friendship they say ..

Please write back ..
     
Ich hab geantwortet...
           
heavenonlyknow43      
25. Juli 2013, 01:46 Uhr
Hola xxx,

Sorry this is coming quite late, I am not here .. Usually Thank you for replying my message, I almost gave up and thought of deleting my profile, Maybe i would stay longer because of you .. I think your English is even better than my German .. Pardon me but i am a native if Ireland ..

I hope we can talk more and really get to know each-other ..

James..
           
heavenonlyknow43      
25. Juli 2013, 18:08 Uhr
are you there ...Can we talk ?
     
           
heavenonlyknow43      
27. Juli 2013, 21:01 Uhr
Hello xxx ,

Very nice to read a message from you ..almost gave up on the site ..How are you doing ..How is your day going ..I hope you are having a fantastic week ..

I am irish, I am in Geising now .. Well i am an Energy Expert, heavy machinery and the rest .. I first to hamburg at the beginning of the year for a consultancy job at the port .. i liked st georg very much ...I Came for another job here in Munich 2 months ago and i really feel i can settle here .. I travel a lot Because of my job and the only place i call home is in Essex where i first got married and had my daughter ... I want to stop going to work at sea on far-away rigs and to meet someone who is worth all the love i have to give ..

I love music very much ..I play the Piano quite well and i enjoy Jazz ..wow .I feel so lucky that we share the same passion for music ..

Let me know how your weekend is going ..

James..
           

heavenonlyknow43      
29. Juli 2013, 19:37 Uhr
Hello again ,

How are you doing dear ..well you certainly had a busy weekend ,work and then pleasure ,a birthday ..thats nice ..good to know that you work hard and also have time to relax ..Its important ..Oh ..its Giesing ..Sorry ,My german is bad ..

I work or i worked as an Energy Consultant .But i am alway on the field ,meaning Offshore rigs ..I intend to stop and settle with just consulting alone ,but i also want to go into renting out of heavy machinery being used at this Rigs which explains my trip to bremen ...I was thinking maybe we should take this conversation more private ,I am interested in knowing you more ,maybe you could send me a mail at nedj@outlook.com or send me your email ..Would love to see other pictures of you..

Love greetings..

Dann habe ich ihm meine e-mail-Adresse mitgeteilt und es ging über meine Seite intensiv weiter. 
30.07.2013
hello dear ,

How are you doing ?? I hope i got your email right ..Wow ,i think music has indeed taking you on an adventure and you have even travelled for courses and all of that ..I must say i envy you quite a lot.. All my travels have been because of my work ..

I am bent on stopping my Offshore trips ,even now i had a job not a few months back ,i studied the blue-print and made a plan and sent him instead ..I know i cannot love a woman from the sea ,i want to be there for her and be her rock ..I hope your daughter has recovered from her fever ..My daughter is 21 ,she is in school in Manchester ...

I would like to see more pictures of you ..tell me what you look for in a man ? do you still believe in Love ? 

Have a sweet day ..JAMES..



mail vom 01.08.2013
Hello dear ,

How are you doing ? I just saw your message ..I am afraid the internet here has been very bad ...Its nice to read from you again , I have a big smile on my face right now ..I believe that communication is very important in a relationship ..so i ask you to please always open up and talk to me ,no matter how wonderful or stupid it sounds ,Please feel free to talk to me about anything ..I am an Open-book , I am straight-forward and i love to say how i feel ..I am happy to know your daughter is healthy ...My daughter and i are quite close , I tried to raise her the best way i knew ,she tells me almost everything and i love to stay connected and up to date in everything she does ..This is important to me because after her mother died ,I had to be her mother and father all in one ...

I expect to be there for my woman ,this is part of the reason i want to leave the sea ..I want to  start full consulting ,getting a home office and all of that ..I will tell you why i will not miss the sea , you see after My wife died ,I fell in love quite early in my life ,i was young and did not have time to grow up before i had my first and only child ..and i thought that life was a bed of roses until her mother died ..and then i was devastated , a lot happened during this period , i left the gas on and took Catrin to church one Sunday and the house got burnt with many valuables , i was an emotional wreck you see, But i pulled myself together and when Catrin got into University , I started going Offshore , Out in the sea , I was looking for something,something to fill the big void in my heart , I was looking for something to make me happy ,I thought if i worked like this , I would have a sense of satisfaction somehow , It worked out well for a while but then i began to realize that i needed a partner ..That blessing of coming to someone , a person who would stay up late worried about just a Soul-mate , A soul-mate of the Heart ...

  So i decided to stop Going to sea , I cannot love a woman from the sea , I had to be there for her ,to be her rock , her friend and so i said goodbye to the sea ,I even got contacted for a job early december , I declined but after going through the blue print , I decided to send my assistant and he is working on it instead of me , so now i have time to settle down here and get a home office and learn the dutch language ...When i am not working i come to London and my daughter comes home at the weekends to the house and then we have Our Father-daughter talk , One thing that i make sure i do is to listen to my daughter , I look in her eyes and take her hand ,she tells me everything and that makes me happy that we have a wonderful relationship ..She always says to me "Papa , i am the only woman in your life"..and i would laugh . 

I find you very interesting ..I could not see your picture ,it could not load ..so i will try again tomorrow ...I hope you see mine ..

Love ...James..

Diesmal auch noch ein Foto von ihm:Anhang 1

Ich habe ihn gefragt, ob wir uns in München treffen können nächste Woche, während meine Tochter im Zeltlager ist.

mail vom 02.08.2013

Hello darling ,

How are you doing ..I smile each time i see a mail from you ..You are very sweet and i see the honesty in your words as i read through ..I am so sorry for your experience with your husband ..Mine was not like that ,Mine was true love and while it lasted ,it was magic ...Because i have felt this feeling before ,i know that there is love and it resides where no one expects ,Most times fallen in love happens when you least expect and from places you never thought at all ..

Meeting you is everything i want ,to be able to talk and laugh ,i will try to make you laugh ..and we could talk all about our music ,I even have a few songs written down ..lol..I always thought that if i was not an Engineer ,I would have been a Music Artiste ..I have a nice voice although its not so nice anymore because i never worked on it since it was not my career...I will be done here in 2 days and i will come to Munich to meet you anywhere you want , I want you to be comfortable..

I want to show you my commitment to starting something beautiful , Right now i am supposed to be on a Job but i left it to my assistant after studying the Blue-print ..I gave him a plan and guide-line ..I do not want to go back to the sea anymore ,there is no love there ,only work and work and more work ..I want to spend the rest of my days with a loving family in a home ...I feel happy that you told your daughter about us ,I will do the same ..How about her Milk Allergy ..is it better now ??

Okay ,I go back to the Port now ,Have to get all this done and sorted out ...I will be thinking of you dear ...

All my love..
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mail vom 03.08.2013
Hello darling ,

I was smiling through-out as i read your message ..You do not have to be that negative dear ..I am not looking for a beauty queen or a sexy Goddess with all the curves ,do not get me wrong but all this are fine and good if it comes my way ,but mostly i am just in search of a woman with a good heart ,a good soul ..There is nothing perfect in this world but our ability to say "i am sorry" ,to apologise truly when it goes wrong completes us and makes it all beautiful again..

What i am looking for is the beauty inside your heart ..and that is what matters because in 30years {if we live that long} ..We will to Old and what will matter will be our hearts ..this is  important to me ,I am too old to play games ..I love your daughters name ..I like it a lot ..I am so sorry about this illness of hers...I think you should take her advice dear ,Do not wear your boring old cloths ..Lol ..what a sweet girl ..I and my daughter are quite close too ,she tells me anything and everything ..I mean it ..i hear all the stories of boyfriends ,and friends and all the school drama and jist with lecturers and course advisers ..I cant wait to tell her i met you ,she would scream for joy ,You know she has always craved to have a motherly figure in her life ,so maybe you would have 2 daughters ,i hope you can cope ..

I will go for another meeting now ,I am happy to say we are making good progress on getting the warehouse ,Its just the paper work and then i Order my equipment from America ..

I hope you have a sweet weekend ..All my love..

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Hello darling ,

How are you doing ...I smiled so much and even started to laugh when i saw that your daughter has picked up the dress for you ..she must be really sweet ..I have optimism in everything i do ,because i believe that it will work out fine ..Life throws all kind of arrows at you and i have learnt not to be hateful but to take it all and smile back ..

How was the concert ? Did you think of my while your fingers worked the magic ??..My daughter is 21 and she is in the university in Manchester ,she studies Structural Designs ..she is a very intelligent girl ,emotional too and loves to have a sister and a mother ,Unfortunately i have been able to provide none of these ..She will not be jealous because this is what she has always wanted ...she is not happy that i work every time ,she alway say i would turn out to be a boring person and no one would want to date a man married to his Job..My daughter brings me a lot of Joy ,but i am looking for another kind of Joy..

All my meetings have gone well and i will be a proud owner of a Warehouse by monday evening and then i will Order my equipment and start the road to your place ..lol ..I would be happy to make you laugh and look in your eyes ..I believe that none of us was meant to live this life alone ,there is someone out there for us and i hope it is you ..Distance cannot keep me from my happiness and if some kilometres is what lies in-between me and the rest of my life of joy and happiness ,i will cross the borders and break that mental barrier because being happy is top priority ..

I leave you to rest as i do the same ..Kisses to xxx,My daughters name is catrin ..


My darling ,

How are you doing ..I am done and i am proud to tell you that i own a warehouse now ..I have ordered my equipment also and they are going to be shipped in from the united states ..I will get a confirmation by tomorrow ...Although my hotel expires on thursday night ..Once i get the confirmation, i will leave and come to you ..Thanks for your number ..I have not gotten a normal Handy yet , i still use my satellite Phone ,i am so used to it because of my Job ..

How is xxx ..I hope she is fine ..I told my daughter about us ,i told her i met someone with a beautiful personality ..she was so happy  ,she did not even believe it at all but when she realized i was serious ,she was happy ...and even more happy when she heard that she would have a sister too .."wow" was what she said ..

I will go and have something to eat now ,I am a little tired ..but i will send you another message before i go to bed ..okay ..

I hope you had a nice day ..

All my love..kiss..

My love ,

How are you doing ?? I am so sorry not to send you a message ..I received some very bad news on the rig .My assistant made so many mistakes that he has put the rig in Jeopardy.. Everything is in my name ,the contract and everything and i had to leave immediately ..I am on the Rig now in my cabin writing to you ..I feel so bad that i have to delay our meet for a few more weeks ...I have disappointed you ..I am so sorry ..Please can you have a little more patience ,i ask this from a humble heart ..Do not for a second think that you are stupid , how can you think i do not exist ..that is not a good omen if you think like that ..I really like you and we are alike in so many ways ,single parents ,loving people and we both want the same things ..

I hope you hear from your daughter really soon ..I would be worried too ..I would be glad to meet your elder brother and his family ,{you did not tell me about them}..I will go back to work now ,try and fix this mess as soon as i can ..

All my love...
My dear, 

When I saw your message, I was scared to open it because I thought I would read that you can't wait for me and you will go ahead and open your other messages on finya... I am so warm in my heart now, I feel so connected with you, I had a similar dream about our date, I could just kiss you for hours and stare in your eyes.... I have to warn you, I am a hopeless romantic, I am old scool too, I like to open the car door for my lady, I love to hold hands as we work along the side walk and kiss at every given opportunity... I am not a pretender and I am a very bad liar... my daughter always knows when I start a sentence with a lie.... 

How is xxx Doing?what really happened there? Is she Okay... I hope she is not too angry at me for not keeping our date... please tell her I am very sorry... 

I must tell you, I already feel love on my heart for you.. you have shown me some qualities already that I have been longing for.... do you have any concerts this weekend? What are you doing..? For me there is no resting, we are behind schedule and so work and work... I need to be with you.. my heart just tells me that... 

I hope your weekend is better than mine.... 

Kiss... 
Darling, 

I just got into my cabinet after a hard days job. I am determined to get everything sorted so we can be together immediately.. I read your messages I think twice and I felt a lot of emotions, I saw love,fear,truth, doubt,uncertainty.... if you do not feel all this then I will be worried... but you do and it's a good thing only it could spoil this beautiful thing we have growing...

I am listening to jazz, I love jazz... and I even write my own lyrics and give words to the music... such good music doesn't just come to you.. you hear it in your head, you are patient and you don't rush it.. I know that all the time life throws challenges our way and we seem to be used to living that way... and when something beautiful comes, we are scared and often wonder if we even deserve it... 

Dear xxx, you deserve to have that warm feeling in your heart. And even more when we meet and kiss.. you deserve to be happy, to have a man help you raise a daughter and love you for who you are.... no one is perfect so we only try to be the best we can.. I am glad your daughter is Okay and safe.. good to spend time with her father, believe me there are certain things a man and only a man can teach his daughter..... 

I will do my best and be as quick as I can.... meeting you is all I dream about..believe me when I say I am falling in love with you.. 
how is your day going baby ..

I think of your voice and i think i would love to talk to you on the phone..
Ich hab ihn ermuntert einfach anzurufen, meine Handynummer hab ich ihm ja schon wegen des Treffens gegeben, aber...
My dear ,

How are you ..?? I think that you will be very busy today trying to make your daughters birthday a memorable one ..very sweet ,we parents will do anything for their happiness ..its a full time Job ...I will call you in the evening dear..when i am done and relaxed ,i am a bit tensed and anxious and happy at what your voice will sound like ,i think maybe i have a mixed accent ..don't really know ..i think of you each time as i work and i smile sometimes and i see that my workers look at me with a strange look ..As i was walking into the armoury ..i over-heard my fore-man talk to some workers and you won't believe what the gossip was all about ..I appointed a new fore-man since i sacked my assistant and he left ..well anyway back to the gist ..they argued that maybe i was newly married ,there was a certain kind of way i acted ,i was so annoyed when i first came and looked like another HITLER ..But suddenly i am more calm and patient ..i was so surprised ..lol ...

I have to eat now , i think i will have rice and stew maybe with meat as i do not like fish that much ..I was thinking if we can chat more online somehow ,maybe if you can open an email on hotmail or something ..It would really make me happy to chat about the days events and then a phone call to go to bed as well ...We will talk about it when i call you ..
Hat ABER NICHT ANGERUFEN
My love ,

How are you ? Been working hard being busy all day ..I made a major breakthrough in our work as i realized that part of the reason my assistant failed because what the equipment he used in measuring and filling are faulty, so this is what i have done, I sent a message to the shippers and i have done a re-route and changed the address so instead of going to the ware-house, they will come to the North sea and make the delivery here at the Platform, Its even better because my equipment are brand new, so i am really happy and convinced that we are in the right direction ..

I tried and tried to call you ,i think i have a problem with my call-out option on my phone ,I have sent the Provider a message telling them to correct this as soon as possible ..i am so sad ,i was so very nervous ,praying you would like my voice ...

or maybe you can call me , +447035909014 ..that's my satellite number ,just dial it that way ..Forget about your English ,if you can forgive me about my German ,i forgive you on your English ..I am just going on and on about myself ..How is xxx..? i hope this birthday is the best..i will throw her a bigger one next year so her friends can die of jealousy ..I hope you are taking care of yourself for me ..

Kisses too ...All my love..
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Also habe ich ihn angerufen, jetzt kommt auch die Geschichte, warum er kein online banking macht
Hey darling ,

How are you ..it was magic yesterday ..I had so many dreams about you all in one night ..I cannot imagine that it is possible ..Are you real ??? I was just so tired after a hard days work ..thank you for your love ,i feel so sad here and because i never wanted to come here at all..If i knew this would happen ,i would not have sent my assistant or taking the Job at all .We would just be together now making love and building a strong relationship .
  I have not had any luck with assistants, I once had a very close friend, he was more of a brother, he was an accountant and when i started getting bigger jobs I hired him, he was in charge of all my accounts and updates, Catrin helped me send money when i was away at work, he was really helpful and i trusted him so much, When i was working at the gulf of Mexico .. He told me to send him a copy of my passport that they wanted to update at the bank, I sent copies to him as well as other documents, I Realized that my account had been hacked into and my funds had been transferred, A quick look at by experts and they freezed all accounts, everything was traced to my accountant , It was so wants hard to believe, I could not even understand it, He seemed happy, we were always close, My daughter loved him, I got a compensation and well i ended all online banking since then, if i needed anything i, walk into the bank myself and get it myself, it is pretty old school but i can not risk it again.This happened not too long ago and when i met young Bastian, it was because he was so a field operative, A good promising naval engineer and i could always use assistance, I am not as young as i used to be, I am very healthy though but I know i need to slow down, and that was why i never wanted to come here at all, I was planning so well to retire well, what better way to retire now than with you ..

I will eat now and go back to work ..I will be as fast and careful as i can ..thinking of you always ,tell me about your day ..

I hope you have a sweet day ..

My love ,

How are you ? and xxx...You are busy and you have to write a list for your committer ,when you are done you can read my love letter ..i miss you ,how strange sweet..

I always thought if i was not an Engineer and i would have been a singer or a writer ,wait till you hear me sing ..I write too .I think i can make you fall totally in-love with me ..lol..Oh i have not gotten a message from my satellite company so i cannot make calls just yet ,my daughter calls me as well and she says i have to be patient ,it looks like they are having an Upgrade on their systems or something ...When will i hear your voice again sweet ,Oh please you can call me anytime you want to ,the workers wont mind ,i will smile and laugh for joy and they will whisper to themselves that its my wife calling ..I am so lonely here sweet ,but you are in my heart and you keep me going ...If it was in the days of Old i will call you "My lady"...You are mine ..

Its a weekend ,tell me what you will do this weekend ..

Kiss ,all my love..
My darling ,

Oh i had a dream of us lat night ,I was on the sands ,it was a desert and i was looking for water ..i was so thirsty and it was night ..I lay down to die and then i looked at the Moon ,it was a full moon and i saw your face ,you were smiling at me and when i looked around i saw that the desert had become a garden with water and honey flowing everywhere and i woke up ..God is trying to pass me a message ,you are the salt of my life now xxx,i will adore you and keep you safe because you have come into my life and turned my desert to a fruitful field ..This is what i like most about you ,your selflessness to help even when it is not convenient for you too ,what a good heart ...How is xxx doing ,When my daughter called me this morning ,she asked for xxx and sends you her kisses ..she wants to meet her new family really soon...

I will not work so much at the weekend , its a time to do a sum

ENTSCHULDIGUNG, ich war schon froh, dass ich es hingekriegt habe, überhaupt die Sachen hierher zu posten, hat lang gedauert. Es fehlt auch noch das dicke Ende, ich poste morgen den Rest, hoffentlich mach ich es dann richtig.

Allein der Name der Perseon sagt mir bereits, dass hier ein Westafrikaner am Werkeln ist, dazu kommt dann noch die Orthografie.  Er schreibt den Namen im Quelltext, wie er ihn versteht und nicht, wie er wohl korrekt geschrieben wird!
Letzten Aufschluss gibt die Telefonnummer +447035909014, eine so genannte Followme-Nummer, die auf Grund der Kosten wohl nur für "dunkle Machenschaften" benutzt wird. Dazu weitere Infos unter Information von Joewein über britische Follow-Me Nummer +4470.

Wäre der echt, dann ist ihm sicherlich einmal ein Stahlträger auf den Kopf gefallen, so dass er wohl zeitweise etwas durcheinander ist! Da Englisch mehrere Jahre neben Afrikaans meine zweite Sprache war, muss ich sagen, dass mir bei seinem Gechreibsel manchmal die Haare zu Berge standen, bei dem grammatikalischen Unsinn!

Bitte erstes Profilbild löschen , da dort zu viele Infos über Themenstarter enthalten ! Danke !