".. I am asking for both of us." Geschickt eingefädelt. Dearest xxx!
Thank you for your nice letter. I am always happy to receive it.
Today I would like to talk with you about one of the main parts in our lives. The cornerstone of a good relationship is love. And sex is one of the ways you express the love we have for our mates. As for me I need both love and good sex to keep my relationship strong. That's why it's important to discover how to maintain love and romance in relationship, and what I can do to continuously improve sex for myself and my man. Different things turn me on. Sometimes it is completely sexual - for example watching erotic films does it for me every time, even if I don't want it to. Feeling good about myself helps me feel sexy. I have had lust objects in the past who could turn me on just with a look. A man being confident and competent turns me on. What turns you on? Lingerie- colours? Place? Inside, outside, bed, floor? Lights on/off. This sort of thing. Just curious =) What do you like best about having sex? To be honest I would like for the man that I am interested in..... to initially take the time necessary to get to know me, to care enough to find out who I am as a person before trying to get me into bed. I know that there are no problems with men, as they probably think, everything is in woman’s hands, you know. A woman should understand it and do everything for both, making love is not only sex, it is kisses, touching, cuddling.
Now I want to change the topic. Dear, as you remember I pay the girl who helps with our correspondence. Maybe I told you before that it is a bit expensive for me but I do not want to interrupt our communication because of this. I hope you understand that my teacher’s salary is not big so I want to ask you for your help. My love, I am not asking for myself, I am asking for both of us. Because I am sure that your feelings are as sincere as mine. I have strong feelings for you and I really do not want to lose you. I do not want to ask my son for helping because he is just 20 and he needs to study, he works and pays for education by himself. I feel ashamed because I ask you for this, I am not a person who ever ask for help and it makes me feel bad but I have to ask, you are the main thing in my life now and I really hope for your understanding. Tell me your decision please, ok?
Waiting for your reply with the deepest craving!
Love,
Galya