Über SFF erhielt ich wiederum ein E-mail von einem sehr jungen Mann und kann nicht glauben, dass er ehrlich ist. 
Kennt ihn jemand? Er schreibt ohne Anrede, stellte sich mir als James Miller vor und heute unterschreibt er mit James Cares - seltsam...


I would like to describe myself as a gentleman who is not proud of what he has but what he is.. Most times I look back on my memory lane and feel proud cos i never came from the biggest and brightest family that you would have probably came from, but each time I look at myself today, I am always proud of what I am. Growing up gave me the zeal not to give up on my quest for life. So I shrived to get the best out of education with help from financial aid packages and fee waivers, even part time Jobs too that paid almost close to nothing. I guess it was all worth it....heheh. You know having a goal keeps u striving and not feeling the pains. my dad then had a job that paid little and took the responsibility of the house rent and other miscellaneous bills he could pay.  With all the financial set backs around us I almost lost my focus. I just sat home one day, I can remember clearly I was listening to one of Martin Luther�s quote and he said "IF U CAN THINK OF IT U CAN DO IT" after all I was bright and industrious, as well as frugal and intelligent. So I took a vow to strive and hustle my way through school and life. hehhe.


When I got my university admission to study in engineering (first degree), I was happy but I was scared there wouldn�t be money to see myself through. I had some savings for the tuition fee at least for the first year that I saved all through the year working. Every kid around my block was enthusiastic abt college and even though I knew I wrote well in the test I had my mind battling with how I would scale through the all 5 years course financially. hehhe. but then I knew there was a God somewhere, so sometimes when I saw my self worried, I always said to myself, "IF THERE IS A WILL, THERE IS A WAY"..HEHE.


After my first year as a freshman, I fell in love with a woman of virtue. Her name was Lilian,bless her soul. She became my wife subsequently after we graduated and made me the happiest man in the world ever. She was a bundle of blessing to me now and my future. I dedicate my present achievements over the years to her moral, financial, emotional and physical support that propelled me towards positively. The reason why I am a proud engineer today and a business man was because she came into my life. In a nut shell she was from an affluent home and she was nice enough to recognize and appreciate my intelligence. We fell in love and she helped me so much in convincing  her father and he became my mentor. Thanks to her generosity and kindness as it saw me through my first degree. I loved Lilian my late wife; she was a year in level older than me when I met her in the university. We got married after our graduation and we gave birth to Bryan. Bryan is 6 now and we Miss Lilian too. i wish she was here to see what a wonderful son she has. Don�t be saddened to hear of my loss, for my loss only made un whole and single. It left me without a companion and almost made me a pub maniac. When she died I visited the pub regularly and took to severe drinking, until my psychology therapist advised I took one of the jobs I was been offered from some oil companies offshore. He said if I left my house for a different ambiance and settlement, it will rejuvenate and strengthen me. Thus, he was right as I kept my head up and managed to stop drinking as it was almost ruining my status. But all through these years, I have realized that unless I fall in love again and get that which is abstract, I would be incomplete. My lady that�s the reason am here I want a family for Bryan and I. we leave in a big beautiful world that is not complete. I need a spice in my big world.


I am a father and its hard to do father and mother work at the same time ..lol. realized am writing so long  mail. I enjoyed writing it....Hope to hear back from you real soon...


James Cares




PS: Foto ist ein PNG-Bild, kann ich es in eine PDF-Datei umwandeln?

@ Jennifer


Das Bild bitte nicht als PDF sondern als JPG umwandeln. Wenn Das nicht geht, dann poste es wie es ist, und ich wandle es um.

Bitte künftig in die Betreffzeile Name und Mailadresse schreiben, alles andere gehört ins Textfeld ich habe es geängert.

Hier ist das Foto von James Miller:

Danke, das hatte ich schon geahnt. Habe ihn