Hello Dear!!!
Thank you so much for the lovely pics...I enjoyed reading about you....So much for me to say, but how do i? When i am not answering questions, but i sure would try. Well, my name as you know, is Donald Murray, i go/live by the slogan of 'Nothing ventured, and nothing gained',that is why i am trying to write about me here, and not answering questions, but just try to pour it all out as it is in my head,as i always venture into new things.And not online to get into someone's head, play game or to play with emorions, as i wont like that to be done to me.But i am here to meet someone to spend the rest of my life with,to end this long life of loneliness. Like i have said before, where do i start talking about me? You know writing about one's self isn't that easy, without sounding like you are blowing it all out of proportion.And i do hope i am able to tell you most things about me, and not bore you. i'd rather remain single, than venture into something that is not worth it...
I am a spaniard by origin, but do not speak Spanish, as i didnt get to grow up there,often was always traveling with my dad.My mom is from the states, she is 83, she stays in Miami. But my dad, he is late. I can say without mixing words that i had one of the best dad's anyone could wish for...He showed/thought me what and how life is...And he always told me that things that we often want, are not the things we need, and explained every bit of it to me, and told me to try and live my life to the fullest, that not every one would like or appreciate me,but that shouldnt mean i should try and impress everyone that comes my way(be real and be yourself), that the best way for me to fail is to try and please everyone, but i should just try and do my best, and do unto others what i would want others to do unto me,or any one close to me. I am the only child of my parents.I'd say i have been staying in the US for the past 6-7yrs Memphis TN to be specific, but i used that word 'I'd say' because i am always on the move, always traveling to tie up deals, or get some transactions done...
I'm creatively ding, family oriented,compassionate and God fearing. I always try to do the right thing,even though that's usually the more difficult path(words of my father). Few things make me smile more than hearing the unrestrained laughter of children, i love them(kids) most especially when they are in that naive stage of 2-10yrs.I'm in favor of quality over quantity, in all aspects of my life. I love cars(not sure there is anyman that doesnt) and I have a weakness for shirts and shoes when shopping for myself. I tend to often make the wrong choice(s). But i dress trendy, and not try to impress anyone, as long as i am comfortable....
Now, let me talk about the other part of my life, which i dont always like to talk about, but they say there is no future without past, and if there was no event(s), there wouldnt be history.I lost my wife to Leukemia(Malignant neoplasm of blood-forming tissues: characterized by abnormal proliferation of leukocytes)..It wasnt the easiest time of my life and wasnt easy for me to move on, and never has been.I must say its really been boring not having someone to share these wonderful experiences of life with,the ups and the downs of life, just everything about life,someone i would call to tell that i wont be coming home early because i have some business to take care of, or ask what she wants me to get when coming home...I get home daily and i just wish someone was home waiting to give me a big bear hug and kiss, and tell everything about my day, work and i will hear her own part too, just sharing everything together, just the normal routin as it was for me before...
I work as a contractor and am self Employed,My job has made me more of a nomad, and its basically because i do not have a woman in my life, and i have burried all my emotions in my job in other to forget that lonely part of me...But the truth still remains, i am a lonely man, and i get to fill all of these when i need to talk to that special lady, when i want to share everything with her and a house without a woman is not a home, its just an abode.And i would say that is why i have always been travelling, and burrying all my emotions in my job, but the reality check is still there for me, that i still miss a woman in my life. But now I seek a woman that i would settle down and build a home with...I do have a place i call a home though, but not a complete home because there is no woman(companion).Things have really been good for me, and i thank God for everything(God has been my pillar, with him, i am who i am today). No matter what i have been through, i have, and still thank God, as they say the Lord giveth, and he taketh, in every situation, give thanks to him...i miss being loved, and loving in return.I have a big weakness,but its really been long, so i dont really know if i still have it in me as its really been a while...'i am a hopeless romantic'(Did i just tell you that?) Guess i was thinking out loud, but i am no taking that back, as it is the truth...And i miss being romantic with my partner, that aspect of making love, sleeping in the same bed, and waking up to the rising sun every morning together.
I rather dine than eat; it's about the experience,the company, the setting, and the food not the cost (or the location) of the meal. Love to entertain(in my own way though), with all that entails: planning, prep, cooking, and the clean-up...Well i better run now before i begin to bore you with my long tales, cant believe i have written this much, and hope i haven't bored you with it. hope i will get to read more about you, in your next email. And lets see where this lead us. Please, tell me more about you, if you feel i deserve to get to know you, and i know that relationship starts with being friends first, that is for sure, what do you think?.The fear of God has been the pillar of my success, and has made me who i am today...
Hope To Read More About You Soon...
Hugs and Kisses
Donald