Hi Dear'
Thanks so much for the reply........ And i feel so bored when i heard the way your else husband treats you.... well ...
I work with Rig 6 Drilling Unit, as a Rig Departmental Supervisor $ Sole Contractor in Supply of Crude Oil [Chemicals] for refining: I guess you know about the Rig,? A Rig is a platform built in the middle of a sea or shore, to drill crude oil beneath the earth surface and refine the crude oil to various stages to obtain gas and other fuel substance for the final consumers to use. A Rig is of two type. Offshore and Onshore Rig. Offshore Rig is located in the middle of the sea while Onshore Rig is located along the shore of the Sea, Land.
A Rig Engineer develops, plans, costs, schedules and supervises the operations necessary to the process of drilling & refining crude oil, from initial Raw Level to the completion and Final level. Their role can involve administering, drilling and service contractor's. Rig engineers work with other professionals, such as geologists and geoscientists, to monitor drilling progress, oversee safety management and ensure the protection of the environment.
A Rig Engineer do most of the manual works while Chemical Engineer, carry out laboratory testing of crude oil to know if the Crude Oil is pure and fit for refining or use. So am just a supervisor to a group of Rig workers. My Company has a branch in Phoenix, Arizona, Texas and UK. Since the Oil Pipe's cross via phoenix. We are meant to take care of the pipes and carry out test on each crude oil that runs in different pipes.Here in Virginia, we have the branch station that control all the flow of gas to different gas companies. Sometimes I get dirty when I have allot of job to do
I work only six months in Virginia, but sometimes we do have time to visit our family but I still like my job, even though we don't have enough time to go the bar, or feel free like others.. I have been in this field of job since my college days and it pays more than any other job you can imagine..
Life in Sea is very risky,I just want you to have idea about my Job,. My Daughter and my mom knows more about my job..No body visit me when am at work or even call me because this oil machine is highly inflammable and we don't use mobile phones or call when we are in field work. I hope i can get an idea of what you do too?
I just want to use this time to write something about my past relationship, the memory of my late wife is a very touching story about my life, am writing all that I could remember about her to you past because my instinct tells me we have alot in common in terms of trust, emotions, characters and understanding.I really want us to achieve that One goal, of becoming a friend and a lover, that's why am taking my time to think out my past relationship. Am a very simple man, I don't really know where to start but I will write all I could remember..
My wife and I got dated for 7 years before we got married in October 2005. The extent relationship was sexual. I worked hard keeping my routines of going to work abroad, being a humorous, caring, and active contributor in our relationship But it was harder every day. I had difficulty accepting and planning my own personal life plans because I didn't have any ex-relationship experience during my relationship with my late wife, she was my first love.
My Late-wife was a successful business lady who climbed to the top ranks before I met her, she was an Accountant..During the time we met, she was the State Branch Manager of Bank Of America, which is the time we got dating. In terms of understanding and being rational, my late-wife is top-class. but she was not happy because of my busy nature of flying abroad to work, then I was working with Scotland Oil Rig, before I became a contractor to Scotland Oil Rig in 1995. I usually fly to England every two weeks. my parent didn't like the idea of staying away from my marital affair but they are supportive sometimes, arranging vacation plans for us and financing it as well but that didn't help.
My Relationship with my late wife became weak with very little intimacy such as hugs, kisses, sex and sharing idea during the time I was working as a Rig Engineer with Scotland Oil Rig in United Kingdom..That made me to took a turn in my job to become a Chemical Contractor because I want to stay with her to build that love and Happiness she has for me, I quit my job with Scotland Oil, as a Rig Engineer to them. It took me years to finally become a Chemical contractor to Scotland Oil Rig, in United Kingdom.Then my late wife assist me financially to get all the required documents and necessary registration to become an International Chemical Contractor.
After obtaining my international certificate, My physical relationship with my late wife became normal when I quit my Job and became an International Chemical Contractor!, Every thing became amazing, she is very caring, in her sexuality,she turned me on always like no other lady did before I met her. She was my College Love when we both schooled in Virginia Beach, Her name is Brenda, She is from a Royal family in Sweden, Europe. Her Dad was among the senate in Minnesota.That was in early 70's. Her mom was also a notable citizen in the state house of Florida.
She is the only true collage love I had in my college days but God made her to became my wife after many years of not seeing her, God is great! For making me come in contact with her in California after not seeing each other after collage. She was the state Branch Manager of Bank Of America, In California. I fall in-love with her again after many years of lost of contact, she has great qualities and characters, she is understandable, A true heart open, free and ready to know what next when I told her something Important, as a friend. She was really a True Love. I definitely courted on her for some time, being my financier, much before we were intimate. She kept the affection to a minimum level because she was a Young manager to Bank Of America and her Job was too demanding and I was trying to get a Contract agreement with Scotland Oil Rig in United kingdom. So we agreed to keep dating before planning for Marriage.
We became serious date after several years of unsteady relationship, the commitment between us was good enough to relocate with her to Virginia because of her transfer from California, that's when we bought our house in Virginia.
After few years of our transfer and staying together, we live happily, stay at home, fly together for vacation's. made plans to live in England for the rest of our lives because she really want to experience the life of British since my dad was a Britain citizen which i don't really know much about how he became a citizen there! Originally my Dad is from Norway, my late wife also want me to become an Ex pact in the Chemical Importation.She was my Financial Partner in Business because she back up most of my contracts with loan applications from Bank Of America since she was the Manager. We really love each other.
During her child labor in 2010. she died as a result of loss of strength. I lost her and the baby. I blame nobody, I bear the pains alone, I am the type of person that follow through with things even if I am unhappy. I was in great pain over her death, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. it made me uncomfortable living in this world alone. I just truly can't handle the situation of her death and leaving me with Lisa, my daughter, alone. I keep wondering if other relationship gone through the pains I felt, I decided to forget about the past and move ahead., I struggled with my emotional feelings but I didn't know how I could care for Lisa but with God i have been trying taken real good care of her!
After the deadly incident of my late wife, is really hard to say. There was a lot of dramatic change in my personality and behavior. Being a contractor and holding a wealthy position in life is very hard with out a woman to call a wife, a wife to come back home to, A Prayer Partner, A true friend. a thinker , and lot more.
Am writing this for you to know how life has been for me as a widow. If you will be very glad to occupy the space in my Heart, Am ready to Open the doors of my Heart for you to come in and Occupy. I want you to be serious with me. I know you have your own stories to tell about the past as well, but The past is gone and we have to create a new Future together. let me know your plans for a new relationship?
Your Friend
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