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Thank you for replying my message, I have been looking forward to it. I contacted you because i feel we have some in common and my instincts tells me you are the one for me. I really do hope we get along fine, get to know each other well and see how this goes for us. Firstly, am out here to search for my soul mate, although this online dating thing still remains new to me but am very positive I will find my soul mate out here, maybe its you, lol. I see a lot of ladies interested in me really but have not seen anyone that i will spend the rest of my life with.....

Here's a little about me....I'm Stephen , 45 a Civil Engineer. An international business consultant that deal with roads bridges and building of housing estate constructions.....I really enjoy what i do and that has really helped make ways in my field. I'm single now, divorced but have a daughter, Janet 7. I am a kinda man that knows what it takes to make a good relationship and make my woman happy all the time. I have never found the right woman in return to give me the respect and the true love ever since i have been single. Have been single for 3 years now and have dated twice but have not seen one worthy of a lifetime commitment.I'm honest, kindhearted, loving, caring, generous and very considerate. I am a cheerful fellow with a hearty sense of humor, and open minded..... am a good christian. I have a son who is my world and i do everything to give him the best.. so I think am a really good father...Sometimes a stubborn mule, but this is my worst trait and it is rare. 

Here are some questions for you.

1. what do you doing for a living,
2. how long have you been single,
3. any kids
4. are you willing and ready to give your heart out if you find the right man
5. tell me more about your last relationship
6. tell me what are you really looking for
7. are you ready for a long term commitment
8. will you love to relocate if you find the right man or you will like your man to relocate with you

I hope to read from you soon. Tell me about you and lets see what we have in common and how it goes

Hello xxxxx 
How are you doing today, its a pleasure reading from you once again and i really liked the way you talked about yourself and what you wanted...it shows you are really looking out for something serious and not just anything. However, am really sorry about your past relationships....it's only funny how people don't appreciate what they have until its gone but am glad you moved on and not dwell on your past. My mom used to say that you just have to keep your heart open always because you just don't know when true love will find you, so far you matched my preferences and really, i like the way you take things simple plus the sincerity and honesty in your words. I will like to tell you more about me then ask some more couple of questions, i don't want to go wrong and you don't want to either so we have to carefully evaluate each other and be sure we are best for each other so we can have a long lasting relationship blessed with happiness.
I'm looking for a loving, caring, adorable, cherishing, loyal, honest, trustworthy, truthful and compassionate woman she wouldn't be all though but a touch of all, she must have good sense of humor , intelligent, brave, sweet in words, looking for a long term relationship that would lead to marriage, a woman who is going to be there for me always and will love me unconditionally, a woman who will love me of who I am, a woman whom we will share everything together forever, I don't want a heart breaker though. I want Someone I can talk to about anything and everything, someone who wants to know what makes me smile, someone who wants to fix what makes me cry someone I can be myself with at all times..someone who will wipe my tears if and when I weep someone who wants more than a fling someone who has spiritual support to bring someone who lets me love her in my own time someone who will tell me what is the truth. Someone who will tell me when I am wrong. Someone who will help me stay strong, someone who I can be gentle with, someone who is my best friend, someone who knows when to hold me Someone who knows when to let me go, someone who makes me feel safe, someone who wants to love me as I am, someone who I can count on always, someone who will be honest and true.
For me, I respect my mom and place my family first. I do the best I can for my son so I can raise him the best way. I support my woman fully, i help her achieve her dreams and develop herself, I will be her best friend and she will be mine too and we will always share everything. I don't think about haters or negative people that don't see any good in what one does, I keep my head straight and walk in my shoes with determination and prayers and that has always helped me get the best of myself. Breaking promises and lying to me is detestable, as much as I cant stand lies I cant lie to anyone either, my YES is always my YES and my NO is always my NO. Have come to learn to appreciate people for who they are, I believe sincere compliments, encouragements and appreciation are the way to develop the best that is in a person. I try as much to make my woman happy by respecting her and her opinions, putting her interests first and giving her complete unconditional love so we will have a healthy loving relationship. Thinking about my woman is a routine for me, i care for her so much, I will always call to check on here from time to time but not to the point that i become a bug to her. I don't care about what anyone thinks about my woman, as long as we share genuine unconditional love, that's the most important and that's what i appreciate most. Most of my time is devoted to my family most importantly my partner, son and my mom, I will always be there for them and show them love and affection always. This I will never ever do. I will never ever put my hands on my woman in anger, I will always respect her for who she is cos i believe every girl, no matter what, deserves to be loved and appreciated for who she is. Not what she looks like or dresses like or any of that. For her insides, morals, ideals, values, her heart.

Questions.
are you a devoted christian or just a church goer, what church do you attend
tell me more about your siblings, Mum, Dad and other relatives 
tell me will you love to get married if you have the right man in your life
will you still like to work after you get married with your man or you will like to be at home
tell me your likes and your dislikes
how tall are you
whats your favorite color
food and music
what would you like a man to do for you to make you happy for the rest of your life
are you the type that will stand by his man till they both grow old and death do apart, are you the type that will stand by his man through circumstances and never let him down, are you the type that will be the last woman standing by his man..
Hope to read from you again soon and have a wonderful day.

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Hello sweetie,
How are you doing tonight thanks so much for getting back to me its my pleasure to read your email tonight , i was just sitting down here looking at your picture over and over again couldn't get my eyes off your pictures , wondering how could such a beautiful looking charming princess woman like you still single , well i guess maybe God keep you for me though ...
I do really understand about your feelings right now one thing i just want yoou to know is that anything can happen at anytime cos good things happen when you least expected , I am right here seeking for a serious relationship someone i can share my heart my feelings and my whole life time with someone who will be there for me to carry me when am down and i will also do the same thing back in return , i have a very big large heart full of love and care. i got so much love to share with my partner and i will also want the same thing back in return ...
I'm always Truthful, loving, kind, protective and generous. I have a hearty sense of humor and am loyal and reliable. Sometimes a stubborn mule, but this is my worst trait and it is rare.Interests Friends, family, reading, cycling, walking, restaurants, cinema, photography, arts. I would like to learn the guitar and to scuba dive,and i believe most time People see me as sociable and confident but there's a side of me that likes to be on my own too. I like the arts but also keep myself fit. I am independent and have a good sense of humor
i'm looking for a loving , caring , adorable , cherishing , loyal , honest , trustworthy , truthfull , compassionate woman, she must have good sense of humor , intelligent , brave , sweet in words , looking for a long term relationship that would lead to marriage and also looking for a serious relationship , a woman who is going to be there for me all day long and all nights long , a woman who will love me of whom i am , a woman who will care about me till my bones turns to dust , I don't want a Heart breaker thou'. I would be happy if you can tell me all about you as i have said mine ...
I will be looking forward to hear from you . thanks
Have a wonderful sleep will be looking forward to read from you soon thanks

@ Queen


wo will der eigentlich wohnen. Er schreibt ja einiges, aber nicht wo er wohnt, frage ihn doch bitte mal wo er zu Hause ist und ob er auch Bilder aus seiner Stadt hat.

@ Zappi gut das Du da bist ich denke den gibt es schon hier.

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Stiray schrieb on 28. Mai 2012 um 13:44:


@ Stiray


Möglich...ich kann mich an das Gesicht aber im Moment nicht erinnern. 

Er schickt einen ganzen Fragenkatalog.  


Hello sweetheart, 
Its so funny that have not stopped thinking about you and one way or the other i find myself looking forward to reading from you, hence i read your letter over and over till i get another one. The way you talked about yourself, things you look out for in a man and the way you lived your life and want to spend the rest of your life, your morals, your values all make me you so complete for me that at this point am thinking about taking it to the next step already. I just feel so close and so comfortable with you, i feel i can tell you anything just like have known you all my life. Its so amazing how things happen anyways, but i believe every moment in time gives us the chance to love, to learn, to dream, and to become more than we ever imagined.... lets embrace what life has to offer for us... i think this is destiny and its no coincidence that we met ... do you believe in fate and destiny.
I just wanna let you know that i am a free man mind with such a very good heart full of love and caring , you can ask me anything you wish to know i am very open minded  and easy going man .... I am still waiting for your question you wanna send .... I will really like to get to know you more be close to you and lets see what we have for each other ... right now i am starting to develop feelings for you and i hope this is real cos i don't want my heart been breaking anymore . I want my life so pure and so true with so much love .

I will like to ask some more couple of questions from you but they come with my answers too.

PERSONALITY

1.        Give me 6 adjectives to describe you?
Loving, Kind,  Compassionate, Funny, Caring, Honest

2.          What 6 adjective would a close friend us to describe you?
Confident, Outgoing, cute, Kind, Funny and Trustworthy

3.         What are 3 of guilty pleasures for you?
My car(bmw 7.45i), whiskey and masturbating once in a while... not since i have my son though.

4.         If you were a candy bar which would you be?
snickers...thats pretty much the best

5.        What is your favorite color?
Blue

6.         What makes you laugh and what makes you cry?
a good joke makes me laugh but seeing people hurt, i cry silently when am alone

7.         Tell me about your most embarrassing moment?
wow, my most embarassing moment was falling in a small gathering at a contract bidi mis stepped and i fell like a baby it was so so embarrasing... i think about it and laughed at myself

8.       What are 3 things about yourself you would like to change?
I would stop
   people trying to take my kindness for granted
   I would be bolder in asking for what I want from people
   I would like to stop blaming myself for everone's fault

RELATIONSHIP

1.       Is sexual chemistry or compatibility important to you?
Yes definitely chemistry is important as it brings the two into agreement with almost everything and compatibility is an essential factor for every successful relationship

2.      Are you a morning person or a night person?
Night

3.      What turns you on physically and emotionally?
physically, what turns me on is a woman's gestures, the way she carries her body, her lips and her eyes, Emotionally, what turns me is quietness slow music maybe, closeness and whispering softly heart to heart talks..

4.        What does it take to keep your attention?
A good wet kiss and and eye contact will get a 100% of my attention

5.        What can a woman/man do to make your heart pound?
her touches, lips on mine and the feel of her womanly curves

6.        What can a man/woman do that will make you cringe or make your skin crawl?
Do not under any circumstances stick your tongue in my ears (yuck)

7.          What defines compatibility between two people?
I believe it would be their similarities in culture and upbringing, likes and dislikes, their willingness to compromise for the other person feelings, their mannerisms, habits and if they are open to change or new ideas. What I believe makes people the most compatible is their beliefs (in GOD first and foremost, then in People (love and trust) and also in themselves because if you don’t love yourself how can you expect anyone else to.

8.          Tongue kiss or lip kiss?
wow... lip kiss transforming into a tongue kiss.. each has its moments.

9.           Do you snore?
No

10.       The right or left side of the bed?
either side

11.        Are you a regimented or spontaneous person?
spontaneous of course... i like surprises and try new things .. often question things

12.       We just finished making mad passionate love to one another do you cuddle and extend the foreplay or do you turn over and go to sleep?
Naturally i cuddle and fall asleep with my woman in my arms... there are magics in touches before or after love making

13.       We just finished making love to one another and we both under performed during the act do you tell your mate?
Openess i believe is important in a relationship and we have to be able to talk about anything.. i will always let her know in a way she would understand .. she's the only one i got.. and i will always want her to be the best for me

ENTERTAINMENT

1.         What is the title of your favorite book and or movie?
My favourite movie of all time is Titanic... and my favorite book of all time is Angels and Demons by Dan Brown.. anything by him actually.

2.        What is the title of the last book you read?
Ken Follet's pillars of the earth

3.         Who is your favorite actor?
Tom cruise and Sandra Bullock

4.         What type of music do you like to listen to?
Classic country, jazz and some rnb

5.          Who's your favorite singer or band
Greenday, Currently I would have to say Jill Scott

6.           Which TV programs do you never miss?
Am not a good tv watcher... i dont miss colt and miami dolphins

7.            What type of movies do you like?
science fictions, thrillers, romance and some horror and Murder Mysteries

8.            What the title of the last CD you brought?
autocad 2010 graphics software

FUN

1.             If you could be an animated super hero who would you be and why?
King kong... he fell inlove with the girl and will do anything to protect her...even at the face of death

2.           If you were an animal in the wild what would you be and Why?
Bear... cuz they love to cuddle their young ones

3.           If you could travel back in time what would you do who would you go to see?
I would love to see Jesus and be nailed by his side when he dies not as a thief though but as a loyal follower.

GENERAL

1.           What is your favorite month of the year and why?
December I love Christmas 

2.             Where do you see yourself in 5 years
I see my self happily married to the woman for me... the best woman in the world and thats you... happily together with our children.

3.            Who was your hero growing up?
My mum... she has the best heart i've ever seen.... she sees good in everything and cant afford to hurt a fly

4.            If you had friends coming over for dinner what would you cook for them?
fettuccine Alfredo with grilled chicken, steak and tarots...

5.           What is you favorite food, meat, starch, and vegetable?
Chicken, spaghetti, salad

6.           What are your fondest memories from childhood?
Staying with mum in the kitchen while she cooks and make fun of everything, spending time with dad at cinemas, parks and playing tennis together, spending  a great deal of time with friends.

7.           In a crisis who can you depend on?
God, Mom and my Daughter.... i would like to add you to the list as well.. i don't have much of a family.

Stephen.

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