Ich habe Bilder bekommen. 
Thank you for your sharing with me your interests and contributing to our burgeoning relationship. I will commit to you of a life long relationship. As I have said I am an eternal optimist which we both seem to have this quality. Maybe this is our chance to have it all. With that in mind I will send you some questions that should help bring us to a fuller understanding of our inner selves and to each other.
Here are some questions from me to you..
What do you do for work and what would you like to do?
What are your religious views?
Do you believe in a God?
What are your views about an afterlife?
How should we agree to handle arguments?
If you're mad about something how will you let me know?
If you're having problems would you talk it out or keep it inside?
Do you like sharing your feelings?
What are your views about same sex friends?
How do you feel about ex-lovers being friends?
How important is a girl's or guy's night out?
Who should hold the main financial responsibility in a marriage?
How would you feel about women who make more money than men?
What are your views towards handling money?
Do you feel you should save everything?
Do you feel you should splurge a little?
How would you rate your ability to handle money?
How would you handle a debt problem?
What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn't work?
What would you do if your partner face long-term unemployment?
What would you expect from that partner?
Do you want children and if so how many?
Money:
How are your habits of spending money? do you establish priorities and live by them or
just spend in what is required when the need arise? do you believe in having joint bank
accounts? or should each person have her/his bank account and share expenses?
Sex:
What importance do you think sex has in a relationship? Do you enjoy sex as a pleasure? or
should sex be just a mean to procreate? How much sex are you willing to have and how
often? Do you think that a couple should discuss about what they like and what they don't
intimately? If your partner has a high sex drive and you don't how much are you willing
to commit in order to balance the situation? If your partner has a low sex drive and you
have a high one, what are you willing to give up to make the relationship work?
Temperament:
When things go wrong and you get frustrated what is your response to solve the situation?
Some people get angry some throw things some get depressed where do you place yourself
in this spectrum? If I would disagree with you on something how would you resolve the
dispute? Do you believe in the axiom that you should never go to bed angry with your
partner? Are you a shouter when arguing? Do you get physical when in the heat of an
argument?
My answers;
What do you do for work and what would you like to do?
For my career I am a Self Employed.
I am into Import and Export of Gold & Diamond
I also am a stock trader.
What are your religious views?
Do you believe in a God?
As my profile stated I am a Christian and I believe in God.
Granted there are good and bad in all religions but I distance myself from them
preferring to practice my own form of spirituality. If my thoughts on this subject
bother you or elicit more dialog I am more than willing to converse with you on this
subject. As for your form of religious practice I have no problem leaving you to what
you believe as long as you do not demand I change to suit your beliefs. I do believe in
leaving the person to do as they see fit in all things as long as they do no harm to
others.
What are your views about an afterlife?
I believe that you should live your life as through this is all there is. Nobody knows
what comes after so you should make the most of what you have now.
How should we agree to handle arguments?
Disagreements are a reality and being a Self Employed I am nothing if not a pragmatic
realist. This being the case I strive to resolve disputes logically and amicably. This
will work in most situations except if emotions are in control then logic is irrelevant.
In those situations, you first have to realize that now is not the time to resolve the
issue. Delay the problem resolution until the atmosphere is conducive to logical debate
then continue. But never leave a disagreement to last long without resolution as that
will harm your relationship.
If you're mad about something how will you let me know?
As I have stated I am pragmatic and if I am angered by something it must be addressed at
the time. Leaving the issue unaddressed is not healthy for any relationship.
If you're having problems would you talk it out or keep it inside?
See above.
Do you like sharing your feelings?
Sharing feelings with your loved one is why you made the commitment to be in a
relationship. But to share needs to be tempered especially if it may hurt your partner.
Honesty is crucial but being kind at the same time is what I truly believe in.
What are your views about same sex friends?
How do you feel about ex-lovers being friends?
Friends are just that, friends. Regardless of who the friend is I have no problem what
so ever. I may not like some of your friends and you may not like mine but I would
always treat your friends with respect.
How important is a girl's or guy's night out?
Being able to do things separately from your partner is no problem as long as the other
person agrees. The reason I make a commitment to be with my loved one is to be with
them. They are now part of me and should be included in everything they wish. But if
you wish to do something without me and with your friends I am fine with that.
Who should hold the main financial responsibility in a marriage?
What are your views towards handling money?
I believe that it is a shared responsibility and whoever is better at the job should do
most of the planning. But everything should be fully open and discussed so that there
are no surprises in anything financial.
How would you feel about women who make more money than men?
There is always someone who makes more money than you do so having a woman making more
makes no difference. But if the woman was my partner I would be extremely happy that I
have someone who is very productive and hopefully I can learn from her.
Do you feel you should save everything?
Do you feel you should splurge a little?
I describe myself as cheap. Not in the negative sense but in that I will get the best
deal for my money that is possible. An example is my TV. I bought it in Florida and had
it shipped to me. In doing so I saved $800 over what I would have paid here. I bought
my vehicle in Wyoming and saved $7000 over what I would have paid here. One last example
is I needed a new roof and the contractors estimated replacement at $12000. I bought the
materials for $3400 and installed them myself and saved $8600. So I save a lot but when
I splurge I do it responsibly.
How would you rate your ability to handle money?
Excellent.
How would you handle a debt problem?
The only time I was in debt was when I bought my first car and borrowed $2000 from the
bank. I was young and needed to establish a credit rating so I borrowed the money. I
paid I off on schedule and have never been in depth since. I only buy what I can afford
when I have the money in hand.
What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn't work?
I would commiserate with my partner over her bad circumstance. Then I would do all in my
power to fix my partner so she could become whole again. If all else fails the next step
would be to discus with her what she would like to do career wise and make it happen.
Reeducation in whatever she would love is the most obvious choice.
What would you do if your partner face long-term unemployment?
Learn to adapt to the situation. Whatever that entailed be it lowering your expenditures
or reducing your lifestyle.
What would you expect from that partner?
I expect my partner to be fully and completely invested in making our relationship work
regardless of circumstances. That to me is the meaning of a committed loving
partnership.
Children:
I do not want any children. I could never relate to kids, even when I was a kid, I had
more in common with adults. My sister had a child and I got along with him well
especially when he was in his teens. At that age I can reason with the child so we
typically get along well. Maybe a little harsh but honesty is the foundation to any
relationship and I promise to always provide that.
Money:
I describe myself as cheap. Not in the negative sense but in that I will get the best
deal for my money that is possible. An example is my TV. I bought it in Florida and had
it shipped to me. In doing so I saved $800 over what I would have paid here. I bought
my vehicle in Wyoming and saved $7000 over what I would have paid here. One last example
is I needed a new roof and the contractors estimated replacement at $12000. I bought the
materials for $3400 and installed them myself and saved $8600.
The essence of my cheapness is I am not frivolous but value and quality conscious. I
never gamble with my money.
Sex:
Sex is a cornerstone of any relationship. Without a healthy sex life the relationship
will suffer, maybe not die but will not be all it can and should be. The definition of a
healthy sex life is something that should be agreed upon between the couple preferably
early in the relationship. I believe that limiting surprises will further insulate a
partnership from disappointments thereby strengthening it.
Sex is one of the truly great pleasures humans can experience especially when within a
committed relationship. In that context you not only have the joy of experiencing the
sensual pleasures of sex but have the amplified experience of having someone you love as
your partner. Sex with a stranger can be thrilling but does not compare with the
heightened sensual experience with someone who you care about.
Having a partner to share the act of lovemaking is beautiful and wonderful. Having
conversations with that person exploring all the aspects of their preferences and needs
is something that needs to be done. And revisited frequently as your likes and desires
change over time. So an open and frank dialogue with your partner is necessary to the
health of your personal and sexual relationship.
Differences in sex drive is a major stumbling block in any relationship. Having two
people who have the same wants and desires would be hard to come by. So again discussion
is necessary and the accompanying compromise will be the result. To start the
discussion, I will have a sexual release once a day with or without company. But I do
tired of my own company which is another reason I am searching for my soul mate. If my
partner would have greater or lesser needs for sexual release I would do all in my power
to accommodate her needs as that is what committed partners do for each other.
As for sexual preferences. I prefer cowgirl style as I love to have the woman in front
of me so I can explore her with both my hands. I love the feel of a womens body and
touching erogenous zones while having intercourse. It greatly enhances mine and their
experience as the more nerves that get stimulated during love making the more intense the
climax will be. But I am very willing to try any position or any fantasy to satisfy my
partners need and desires.
Temperament:
When things go wrong and I get frustrated I usually start to laugh at the absurdity of
the situation. I never throw things or break things because I then would get mad because
I now have to fix what I have broken. My attitude towards these types of situations
makes me a favorite for family and friends when they need help.
Disagreements are a reality and being an engineer I am nothing if not a pragmatic
realist. This being the case I strive to resolve disputes logically and amicably. This
will work in most situations except if emotions are in control logic is irrelevant. In
those situations, you first have to realize that now is not the time to resolve the
issue. Delay the problem resolution until the atmosphere is conducive to logical debate
then continue. But never leave a disagreement to last long without resolution as that
will harm your relationship.
I await your reply to these questions. I am especially interested in seeing what
similarities we share between our views and what differences we have which will make life
more challenging.
Best Regards,
Bill.
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