Hallo My Angel
Hope you have had a stress free week,As you know each day is a gift and that I have a choice as to how I will spend each moment. While I am a deeply emotional man, and have moments of sadness, feeling disappointed, anger, I address that emotion and reach for the sunshine and joy. I was a perfectionist and a control-freak.. I have come to claim responsibility for my own actions and define boundaries for myself.
I truly took the time to study dating to understand how the male & female interact and have enjoyed the time i have dated i enjoy being with someone i prefer the company of the opposite sex i am not a lonely or unhappy I believe that being with someone brings more happiness and more enjoyment .....
I was married for along time and have been widowed for 3 years .. I have just also come out of my shell which is why i felt comfortable when my daughter told me it would be nice to have my profile on the singles website... I have always taken the time i needed to completely heal and find the answers i needed before i open my heart to the possibilities of finding my soul mate if shes out there... I believe we all have a past the difference is that many of us do not take the time to study the past to make the future better..
I have learned that I can’t keep the world on its access and it’s not my responsibility to light and heat the earth, so I am so much more relaxed now that I’m not trying to be King!This includes outward boundaries – how much I project my own need to control onto others; and inward boundaries – what I will tolerate and what I won’t with regard to the behavior of others toward me, especially in relationships.I want the people I care about to know that they are loved and appreciated.
I’m not good at casual dating relationships. After i lost my wife, I’ve been hoping, praying, searching for my soul mate if at all shes out there. There have been women with whom I have connected, friendship-wise, and sometimes chemistry-wise, but they have not captured my heart and soul, or they have not accepted mine. I will not settle for anything less than freely and happily. I am not capable of managing more than one relationship at a time. In other words, I am not a poly dater! I want a full, healthy and happy love with my best friend and lover. I am a very romantic, passionate, handsome, sensuous man.
I believe that God puts people into my life for a reason and I attempt to understand that reason, whether it be friendship, professional association or that they have something to offer me or me them, such as a connection someone else. I believe that God makes him/herself evident to me many times during the day, but I have to pay attention to his/her gifts.. All that being said, I believe, that in God’s time, I will find my soul mate and she will find me... I believe that every relationship is based on honesty and trust.
What do i consider to be my three greatest assets and conversely my three greatest weakness
Assets:
Sense of humor – wicked at times
Empathy
Great capacity to love
Weaknesses:
Impatience - a) tend to live in the moment, b) get frustrated with processes that are ridiculous, energy and resource wasteful, and are potentially hurtful
High expectations that I will be treated as I treat others – can result in great disappointment for me
Fear of abandonment – have been working on this, now that I understand it is an issue.I insist on not losing myself to a relationship and that my partner does not either; however, I do need to know that my partner misses me during the day, looks forward to seeing me at night, enjoys spending time away from work with me, and trust me when I am out ..
I am thankful for what I have and live life with a great expectations. I am positive, and I look for the trial times as an opportunity for growth.
I will be committed to my wife and bring her honor.
But all that I require may not be already learn but still in process..
Besides, God has already made a choice for me. I am just trying to find her..
I hope you have a wonderful Weekend...
Pietro