How are you doing and thanks for the mail...Well what can i say. First and Foremost I never ever dreamed of trying online dating till I broke up with my ex boyfriend. I used to have an ex boyfriend but we broke up because he was cheating on me by flirting around with other ladies and later he became a drunkard. He always arrived from work drunk and started maltreating me so I called for a break up. And I have found you or I should say we have found each other. I will like us to get to know about ourselves very well and see what happens between us. In this case I’ve decided to tell you everything about my self .I mean I want to tell you everything about my self, my likes and the type of man I am looking for in my life and if you feel like you agree with me and you will like to get to know me very well and see what happens too that will be great...
My name is Sharon Adu, I'm 33 years of age, single, no kids. I’m 5’6’’ tall and have a weight of 121 lbs. I guess you are okay with my age and my height. I have black hair and brown eyes.I was born and Raised in Usa But I ’m now living in Ghana in the West Coast of Africa. I live in a city here called Accra. I live here with my mum in a small apartment we rent. My mum is retired now she is very old. She is 57years of age and not working at the moment. My dad is a American and my mum is a Ghanaian. My dad met my mum here in Ghana when he was on a contract with a Mining Company here in Ghana. I was given birth here in The State so I own a American nationality. After some years of staying here in Ghana, my dad died of Lung cancer because he liked smoking so much so it has been my mum who has taken care of us since my childhood. Do you know Ghana? I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 times a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it).I like Thai, Italian and Japanese dishes. I enjoy all kinds of music including Jazz, Gospel, Rock and Classical. For movies I choose romantic, adventure and comedy. I love cooking so much; its part and parcel of me. I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well.
I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) I love Hiking, Climbing, camping and almost any out door activities.... riding Bikes, walking on the Beach and more, and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - ha-ha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working...I want my man to be honest ,loving ,caring ,family-oriented and committed to me
I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well.
I realize that I am 33yrs and that you are somewhat older than me, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or mean sounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt. I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you. I will like for you also to tell me about your self, your likes, your cars and also your house. I will also like to know what happened in your past relationships what you like in a woman and what you don't like as well.Hoping to hear from you soon...
Yours Truly,
SHARON.