Thanks for the delightful background to your world. I understand how you feel when that special partner turn to alcohol and go on cheating behind your back. It could be nerve racking and wearisome when one think about it.
Glad you have a son that brings you joy and more fun with your work which i found as a place of refuge when one enjoy what he or she does.
Thought i should share my story so far and get your opinion about your new found friend. My name is John Maynes like you know. I am 52 yrs old, a widower and my ambition is to inspire my beloved woman constantly, to help her keep the balance between career and life as it were, just as she would inspire me to be better and successful in my own line of profession.
Love is most paramount for me, i need a companion to share my life with, who wants to create a strong family. I want to take long walks with her and share what life has in store for us. I'd like to look up to her as an authority for me, be proud of her, adore her, be supportive, she would have my devotion, understanding, kindness, care, calmness, cheerfulness, soul support and my great love.
I studied Engineering in University of Technology, Jamaica, my major is Mechanical Engineering. My work involve Building and assemblage of Power Plants, Generating Transformers, Bridges, Routers, Cells, Inverters, etc. I was born in Brooklyn, New York. My sons name is Derek he is 20 years old, studying Architecture. He has an undying passion for Buildings, Sky Crappers and the likes. We both are men of art i guess lol.
Sometimes I'm on the road working to ensure the bills are paid. I work so hard trying to slow down so as to equate between family and other aspect of life yet to be properly explore. I have plans to retire in 3months, not as strong as i used to be, and again i think i have made quite a great deal of fortune, both in knowledge and wealth. The only thing missing is that special woman to share those awesome experience one relish for the rest of his life. I guess the passing on of my beloved wife also took a toll on me and make me the workaholic type. I wouldn't want to ponder on it that much since I'm over it and ready to move to another phase of my life yet to be explore. I'm in great need of a comforter and a true companion not desperate though. Just to get away from work and do away with the stress that comes with it. A fun Saturday for me is to visit the Hermann wineries when the weather is nice. One of my favorite vacations experience is taking an helicopter ride while appreciating the wonderful making of the nature, horse riding in the Grand Canyon and chilling at any fancy restaurant with wide range of cuisine to savor.
I'm sure you might be wondering why I studied in Jamaica..lol My dad is a native American and mom hails from Jamaica. I have an accent, I am the only son of my parents and they both passed away 3yrs after my dad demise which is about 15 years ago. Momma struggle with boredom and loneliness when she continue to be wary of the fact that her sweetest companion is no more while am working my tushy out to ensure good life for her and the family. My son Derek and the cutie dog i called Murphy has always being my friend anytime Derek is around. As regard my sexuality, i am not a promiscuous man and my heart desire is to be sexually faithful to the woman I love. If two adult come together to profess their strong passion to each other and communicate on their likes and dislikes pertaining to one partner sexual behavior, it is better to learn more in that respect and be of best behavior in that department and making sure they both enjoy every moment spend having good time.
I believe problem share is half solve, it will be in the best interest of every couple to open their heart and keep no record of wrong doing be in the past, present or future. Looking good is my thing as well as clean environment. I need real love and don't play games and not to be play either. Distance is not a problem to me, If I find the right woman leaving my comfort zone is not an option but the right action that necessitate a better future. I just hope my woman will share same notion in getting things working our way. I'll be please to know more of you since we both are treading the path of lifetime commitment and hope of starting a new family. Life is too short to play game, guess we both are busy in our respective lives to think of that.
I share in the notion that say there is one man or woman for everyone out there who will stand tall to ensure love prevail. It's very important to find that special spark again and be loved. Finding someone who is understanding, kind, cheerful, loving, caring, honest, sincere, passionate and affectionate is everyone paramount goal. The Bible says" Seek the Kingdom of God first and every other thing shall be added on to you" I'm in quest for such kingdom while hoping to cop that special lady that we'll both transform our lives for better. Having a companion that is honest, caring and noble is a thing that trouble the mind sometimes. We'll both respect, honor and care for each other to the best of our ability. Most love seeker we have now doesn't have a clue of what love genuinely entails and the idea of hurting one another even with the tiniest emotion that comes with it.
I am a religious person, i attend a Pentecostal Church, i like to work out and always stay active and healthy. I partake in Martial Arts, Karate ,Judo which i found as amusing way of exercising. I do Yoga to soothe the body and mind, visit Spa for some traditional therapeutic experience. I am very much considerate and thoughtful of others at most time. Absolutely I treat others as I would like to be treated, I don't lose my temper very often, rarely do I rage unnecessarily. I love to Read, listen to good tunes, cuddling while watching movie, snuggle and giggle in bed. Favorite countries for vacation spot, France, Germany, Italy, Bahamas, Barbados, Canyon Island, Banana Republic, Kenya, South Africa, and Australia. I like cooking, I eat healthy and love anything from sea food to Mexican. I like Taco a lot. I am extremely patient, romantic, caring and God fearing.
I have so much to give that special woman, she would never question my emotions, i wear them on my sleeves.
I love unconditionally; i feel there's no other way to being true with your partner. What's more important to me is love not material possession or money. Though, the financial independence keeps the family going even when we choose to ignore the fact but in the real sense of it, it's best for both party to show some level of freedom. I love the beach, I found it peaceful and relaxing. Some of my most cherished memories are there. Hoping to get a respond pertaining to yours in return.
Wishing you a safe and splendid weekend!
Jay love