Good morning xxxxx,how are you doing today and how was your night ? I hope you enjoy the letter i wrote to you cos i took my time to write the letter and all i said is from the bottom of my heart....And am writing this again because i know you are for real and think i could find all i want in life in you....Its high time i have to let you know more about me,i hope u are doing fine and having a great day going.I yearn very much for a true soul mate, best friend and lover.I had never been married but i was in a serious relationship with my daughter's mom. I need not go into the details at this point. What's important is where I am at, today. Since the end of the relationship with my daughter's mom 5years ago cos she died of breat cancer, I've not dated at all.At first, I tried meeting some women, but soon realized that this was a time for reflection and solitude. It would have been very unwise to go into another relationship. But I would like to have one special real woman in my life. I feel that,like life itself, a love relationship is a sequence of moments. Each second, minute and day.each word, action, and thought.are an opportunity to build a lasting relationship, or hold the threat of tearing it down. Love can be manifested through a quick call to share an experience.something funny or significant.a shared burden of the everyday things in life that are not so ideal; a quiet evening of conversation before the fireplace, or time shared on the deck watching the stars, an approaching storm, or a sunrise,a close embrace at the end of a difficult passage within everyday life, completing chores so that we can make an afternoon movie, an unexpected rose, a kiss for no reason,holding hands in the check-out lane at Wall-Mart; playing "footsies" under the covers; skipping stones on the water during a quiet walk; an improvised dance to the radio while in the kitchen; or just quietly reading and feeling the warm presence of each other.God have a WOMAN for me .. I believe that she is somewhere and waiting on me. The Woman I can trust as myself, The woman who will be the best friend. She does n`t need to work too hard because she will have extra income in house . woman who has ideas and plans for future and need her really close man friend to be with her. The woman who need LOVE not making sex. It`s so different for me . I think that all this years love was accumulate inside of me and one day somebody will take it.Being a Christian....I was raised Methodist and have a strong belief in the Christian ethic, but I am a church goer,It does not matter if we are not same religion..I am very adventurous and love to travel and learn new things. I am certainly willing to travel down this road a little further and explore the possibilities to see if we're compatible and if our personalities "mesh". Having myself made very poor judgments about relationships, I am trying much harder to (1) be more cognizant of these elements of fundamental compatibility rather than just go on pure "chemistry" though, undoubtedly, these are only necessary, but not sufficient, conditions and chemistry is still the "wild card", (2) be more in touch with my own feelings and needs, and (3) be as honest as I can be in the evaluation process. I feel that at this stage in life we don't have a lot of time "to get it right" and I don't want to keep replaying a program that is flawed.As a way to learn more about your values and personality, how about telling me what are 10 qualities of a prospective mate you "must have" for a relationship to work for you..Am presently on a business trip to a west African country Nigeria just got here last Saturday with my daughter and will be back to the state in two week. Would love to meet you when i get back but before then i think it will be great if we know more about each other better...Hope to read from you soonest dear xxxxx..Lots of Hugs and Kisses
Steven