Hallo und guten Morgen,

über GermanFriendFinder wurde ich vergangene Woche, von einem 50-jährigen Mann, angeblich aus Rockford, 
Illinois, angeschrieben, dass ich sein Interesse geweckt hätte und er sich über einen Kontakt mit mir freuen würde 
und teilte mir seine E-mail-Adresse - ldnales@yahoo.com -mit. 
Sein Name sei David. Ich schrieb zurück, da ich wissen wollte, wer dieser Mann ist. 
Ich bin mir nicht sicher, ob er die Wahrheit sagt. Nachfolgend seine E-mail von gestern. 
Ich wollte heute sein Foto noch kopieren, aber leider wurde er von GermanFriendFinder als unseriös gelöscht, 
was mein Misstrauen noch weiter bestätigt.


Nice to have met you via the internet. I didn't expect such a response, but I appreciate the fact you took the time to write to me. My heart has been broken ones and l never wanted it to happen again, l have no intention of having more kids so l just need someone who feel the same way l do, that is the most reason l wrote you and email, age is nothing to me, but what matters is having an honest person in my life. So l wanted to try something new and beleive it will workout for good. I am ready to open up again and I have been seeking a serious relationship for almost two years  now..

I had devoted most of my time raising my Son.... I am a good person and I have big heart. I am a very nurturing person and I take care of people very well who are in my life. I believe that it's my calling......always...to take care of people, but now it's time for someone to take care of me. I'm definitely looking for someone who is smart, funny, can take a joke (because I can be sarcastic at times)... I do believe every relationship starts out with friendship, but in my case, we end up staying friends but I'm not looking for my "princess charming" out there on the dance floor in the bar . I love to dance and that's what I do. I don't like the term "single Father� because technically I am not alone. I have the loving support of my parents, family, parish, and friends to assist me with raising my son with good morals and values. I prefer to be called a father who is single because I don't have a partner. I've always been a strong-willed person and hard worker. I studied Operations Management and Computer Information and l also have a Cert in quantity survey. My job is perfect. I work for myself and since am self employed, I schedule my work that allows me to have every other Friday off. I never work weekends, unless there is an event and I have all major holidays off too, not including my vacation or flex time.

My schedule can also be flexed during the week. My number one priority is my Son, who is 7 years old. I am his parent, his advocate, his teacher, but most of all his Daddy ...So, I guess you want to know more about what I want in a companion. I enjoy sports tremendously. This is the best time of year because I LOVE BASEBALL! I'm a huge Dodger fan.... I like football too, but I'm also into the more "violent" sports like wrestling and boxing........ See, I told you I could be a bit sarcastic.  I like bowling and I can play pool too! Golfing, not so much my thing, but if you're happy, enjoy it and I'll support you. I like the outdoors too. We do the camping thing, go to the beach. We have seafood, so we LOVE the river. But I also like my alone time and just staying at home and relaxing. Well, I do have lots of questions: How about, what are you looking for in a relationship?, What are 3 of your all time favorite movies?, What kind of music do you like? Now, what kinds of questions do have for me? I would be happy to answer any questions you have for me!  Just a few things.....I'd like to know. Oh, and one more thing, why did you get back to me when i sent you an email? Now I need to have a some picture to look at. Can you send me a recent one? Well, I better go . I hope you still find me interesting and will write back. I'm going to apologize to you in advance if I don't get back to you right away..... I will check my e-mails on my phone, but I don't usually respond to anything until when am on the computer. Have a great day, and I am looking forward to hearing from you again

David



Ich kann ihn aber bitten, mir noch ein Foto von sich an meine Mailadresse zu senden. 
Für mich ist absolut nicht nachvollziehbar, woher diese Mail kommt. Danke für die Hilfe. 

@ Jennifer



Bitte Mailtext und Quelltext nicht in irgend einer anderen Farbe posten. Danke. 
In die Betreffzeile gehören nur  Namen und Mailadresse so wie die Betreffzeile jetzt geändert wurde. Alles andere kommt ins Textfeld.

Hast Du von David Bilder? Wenn ja bitte als Anhang noch posten, vielleicht kennen wir den Herren ja schon.

@ Jennifer


kar schreibe ihn an und frage ihn nach Fotos. versuche so viele Infos von ihm zu bekommen wie möglich. 
Umso mehr wir wissen, um so besser. Jede Information bringt uns und Dich einen Schritt weiter, 
um sagen zu können, ob er Scam ist oder nicht.

Das Yahoo-Profil ist niegelnagelneu - leider gibt es dort keinen Avatar. 

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@ Jennifer

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Natürlich, immer her damit!
Vergiss nicht, dass eines unserer Anliegen hier im Forum darin besteht, Andere vor solchen Leuten zu warnen!
Also erst posten und dann weitersehen.........

Danke für den Hinweis, dass keine Fotos von Kindern gepostet werden dürfen.
Entschuldigung. Hier ist noch nachträglich die heutige Email:

Hello xxx,
 
l have attached my pictures, l will just wait untill you return my email then l will email you back. You can send me your pictures as well.
 
Waiting for your email
 
Love. David.

Heute erhielt ich die nächste Email von David, da schreibt er schon, 
"dass er Geld immer zurückzahlen will!!!" Kleiner Vorgeschmack.... 




Hello xxx,

I don't know where to begin. I am at a total loss of words. My head is spinning in a million different directions. I don't know whether to laugh or cry, be sad or excited. My hands are shaking right now to a point that I find it difficult to type. I read your email and while doing so I have cried, laughed, gasped with excitement and just been in shock at the words that you said. I am almost afraid to write anything because when I do it is going to be so similar to what you typed you will think you actually did type it. I think you have the most beautiful mind that can type these words so beautifully. If I didn't know better I would think you were my best friend playing a nasty trick on me! LOL.

While I am very interested in you is because of what you wrote on your profile for whom you are a honest person. I needed someone who is very honest to spend the rest of my life since l doesn�t have the intention of having more children.  Read more about me below

We have so much in common that it is truly spooky. I had chills when I read your email. The things that you said are things I have prayed for in a woman and in a partner. I have cried so many times when reading a book. They have worn pages from the tears I have shed. I have been in stores before and have watched elderly couples holding hands and have cried wanting so badly to have a love like that. Seeing unconditional love right in front of you is such a beautiful thing. It is such a blessing to have that in your life.

I have only been married once...for 10 years....I left her over a year ago and I have been divorced for 1 year.  I should have left her over 3 years ago....but I chose not to for a couple of reasons....1) I take my marriage vows very seriously and 2) I could not provide for my Jasmin like I could staying married to her....and that meant more to me....so I pretty much sacrificed myself to keep the family together and to allow my kid some of the finer things....i.e., education.  If I had to do over again, I would have left...but hind sight is always better.  So..because of my past relationship....I do have a lot of love pent up wanting to burst out.  I am not sure mine pent-up love wants to come out gently or just bust out...LOL!!!

what are you looking for in a relationship?
I am looking for my best friend, passionate lover and life partner in a relationship. As I had mentioned before there has to be mutual trust, honesty, respect, sense of humor, unconditional love, tolerance, accepting the other just the way they are, not wanting to change the other person, not wanting to control the other, just being equal to each other..supporting i.e  stands up for me, basically just treats me the ways I treat her.

What are 3 of your all time favorite movies?
# "Nobility is not a birthright. It is defined by one's actions." - Kevin Costner, Robin Hood Prince of Thieves
# "Oh no! You did not shoot that green s*** at me!" - Will Smith, Independence Day
# "Do you know how to use that thing?" "Yeah. The pointy end goes into the other man." - Anthony Perkins/Antonio Banderas, The Mask of Zorro

What kind of music do you like?
# "You better get a bigger gun I'm not dead yet!" - Tommy Shaw (Styx), I'm Not Dead Yet
# "You feelin' sorry for yourself don't affect my mental health no more." - Sass Jordan, Sun's Gonna Rise
# "You bleed just to know you're alive." - GooGoo Dolls, Iris

Let's see.... I'm always working on software programs and fixing computers and on building plan because l have certificate on quantity survey ....I love my job....I am not a "high-maintenance" man....I do not require a lot of "frills" for happiness....I believe happiness comes from within...that material objects do not make a person happy.  I also believe that you have to love yourself before you can love another. I am probably the most honest, sincere, caring, loving, trustworthy person you will ever meet.  I was raised in a wonderful loving home... I am a "small-town" Man , and an "old-fashioned" Guy who believes "morals" are still important...."respect your elders".....and family comes first.  I believe that when you are in a relationship....if you put the other person first, and they put you first, then everyone wins....to be totally unselfish....not to try and change a person but to embrace their differences and love them. I am looking for someone who: (a) has the same values as I do (b) will walk beside me...not in front or behind me (c) treat me well (d) communicate from the soul (e) will love unconditionally (f) will love all of me and not try and change me (g) and everything you put in your e-mail, etc.

Am in the process of buying  1/1 Bath , 2-Car Garage with Pool and Large Yard  along  a Lake Shore in IL . I'm very excited about getting the House.I would got the keys probably Tomorrow or Saturday so that The Fun can begins!!  I'm going to paint it inside, new carpet, clean the pool and hot tub.  And start decorating it as soon as i got it .I wanna let you know that i work from Home so I've work hard for my money and work hard to keep my independence - but the price is time. so it's a kind of glorified flextime.I spend a third of my life working, a third of my time dreaming...guess what the other third . I like the nicer things in life.  I'm handsome looking and just looking for someone special to share my life with.  I like to travel to Cali  for  the weekend. I'm very romantic and passionate (my Italian side) ha! ha!
 
Now your turn...I also try to be as honest as I can to everyone.  Giving my word to do something means something to me and I try my hardest to keep my word.  I will not agree to something if I know I can't keep that promise even to myself.  I like wise will return to a store if I've forgotten to pay for something and will also give money back if the change is too much... I'm in a stage of my life that I don't need all the glitz or glory, just REAL LOVE, honesty, respect, drama free, ambition, and good family values. I feel as though I am writting a book, it just seems like there is so much to say, and that we are like minded in so many ways.  We are looking for the same type of person we have the same ideals.  I need someone to protect me, love me, respect me, encourage me, and so many more things.  I guess when it comes to love I want it all.   In that respect I guess I am selfish.  I am a very giving person,  I believe in give and it shall be given.  Thats what I like about my job I get to give to those who are in need ...

Well I hope to hear from you soon unless this 20 page email has scared you away ....LOL
I hope that gives you a little more insight into who I am. Talk to you later. And thanks for your pictures.

David

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@ Jennifer

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