Hello xxxx,
Thanks so much for your reply on the site, so much appreciated and thanks for your picture, you look very much handsome........Here's about me too. I'm Harrian Mercy Shaffer. I was born 31yrs back to an American father who impregnated my mum but left her to marry another lady.My mum is a black African and since my father left her we traveled back to here in Nigeria and started another new life.
I graduated from a university and own a degree in Business Administration.I am 5.6ft tall i am light in color i am 125 lbs in weight and i would say i got my color from my dad,i am still single,never been married and have no kids .I live in a very remote area in the west coast of the country,i am the only child to my parents.I still consider myself fatherless but hopefully i can get to see him again someday.I am new to this online dating ,can be shy or sometimes might not know somethings expected of me to know,we don't have access to internet browsing here in my village so i have to come to town which is about 10kms from where i live,so i am not the type who is always online.more over i am not employed at the moment,so most times i keep myself busy by doing some farm work with mum.got to know about internet stuff through the help of some missionary who came here to erect one internet cafe for us close to my village,so that's how i was privileged to know about internet which i am still getting to know more about.I really want a very serious relationship here that could lead to marriage and i don't mind relocating with any one who wants me to be with him.
Its mum only that's left for me ,so i do care about her a lot whatever happens to her happens to me,though we are extremely poor but with the help of some little sales we get from our farm work we are able to keep our heads above water.I need a very honest and trustworthy man who can take me as i am without minding who i am or what i look like or my status,would love to have kids and build a great family.The only thing missing from my life is my best friend, my soul mate. I am the kind of woman that you can trust above all else. I am not a cheater or a liar. I enjoy cuddling on the couch after a romantic dinner, the only lights are from the candles burning, watching a movie or just talking. I enjoy the walks in the rain or on the beach. Horseback riding in the mountains, or visiting the vineyards. Anything is special when you are with the right person.
I am not into playing games or one night stands. If that is what you are looking for, then please spare my heart and look elsewhere.Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones.Love is like a butterfly, the more you pursue it the more it eludes you, but if you are calm and still it will land on your shoulder.Life is a song - sing it. Life is a game - play it. Life is a challenge - meet it. Life is a dream - realize it. Life is a sacrifice - offer it. Life is love - You can text me on my cell phone...+234-8130-569-998....but can't receive international calls on it and will reply back..Got your number right here and will try send you text soonest as i get back from farm..Am not after your age or look but true love and understanding is all am looking for in my right man on here hun.....Looking forward to chats soon with you. Bye for now. God Bless.