Im Folgenden nun die Mails zwischen mir und Jurgen. Ist er echt ein Scammer?????????
Von: "Jurgen Vogt" <jurgenvogt10@yahoo.de>
Gesendet: 06.08.2011 19:11:47
An: XXX@web.de
Betreff: Re: XXX is writing
Guten abend XXX,How are you this weekend? How was your day? Thanks for the return email. It is nice to get a response from you. Been holding my breath...LOL. I speak light german, sorry.. but better engish. Thanks for your insight.Tell me what is unique about you, something that sets you apart from all other ladies?Some pictures of you will be nice. Just so you know, all I seek is just real love/lady right now.Hugs,J
Von: "Jurgen Vogt" <jurgenvogt10@yahoo.de>
Gesendet: 08.08.2011 19:40:14
An: XXX@web.de
Betreff: Re: XXX is writing
Hello dearest XXX, Omg, your 100% down to earth and honest! I like that a lot. Its a major turn on. *winks* Thanks for the answer. The pictures blew me away.. I love thick ladies. Mom used to say 'bones are for dogs, meats are for real men!'So this is what makes me unique also. I used to be an Energy Investor, but when my life partner died, I lost the purpose to work because I was a lot crazy about her as she was likewise. Bottom line.... I am a professional salesman and a stable partner, honest, trustworthy, spiritual and hard working. I have no kid and was previously married for 6 years. I prefer a relationship and do not like to jump around. My previous marriage failed due to the great recession, then she started drinking and wrapped her dodge around a maple. Unfortunately communication breakdown played a big factor in our lives. My faults, all!I have been single for two years now and enjoy taking care of myself by working out. I enjoy lounges and simply a great movie or sports at my leisure time.I am open to talk or simply become friends before we move anywhere (if we find there is chemistry)...and if thats your pace.Thanks,J
Von: "Jurgen Vogt" <jurgenvogt10@yahoo.de>
Gesendet: 10.08.2011 23:21:13
An: XXX@web.de
Betreff: about me
Gut abend, mein XXX,Good to read from you like always. Sorry I didnt reply fast enough, was busy withsome formal dinner and conference of a huge deal I am about to win. I apologise, ok. Ich sprechen little deutsch, but gut englisch. As a starter, here's all you need to know about me- I am a very shy person and I was born in Pankow (North Berlin) but have lived most of my life in Liverpool, UK with my parents. My dad died some years back and my Mom moved back here. I moved back also a year ago and am loving it day by day. There are lots of fun pubs and cafes around here.I love my job, and I am a maverick self-employed entepreneur/investor working closely with giant Gas/Petroleum companies with offices all over the world. I go where I smell a new deal is, and I can make money while protecting the future of our kids. I am a member of the Eco-friendly International.All I am looking for is "True Love", no Games, no Playing around, no time waste... I just want to find my soul mate in life, the one lady I connect with in every way... I am the shy type so I dont have lots of female company most times. I used to have a gorgeous lady like you, but I lost her due to my travelling all over the world for work and all...now I know better... The little I know about you (your nice words always bring little joy to my heart), I can say any man that does not treat you with respect, true love, genuine kindness and care is absolutely a fool. I understand that you do not rush into a relationship, but you misinterpreted what I meant. I do not like to rush also. I want my soul mate to be my best friend, so I can always talk with her, and it doesnt matter if my friends all accept and love her. I work out everyday, dumb-bells, push-ups, bench press, jogging(weekends) and treadmills (every morning), so am quite athletic, but I like different sports activities such as swimming, water polo, volleyball, ping pong, going to the gym, running, biking, etc but am fanatical about football- Manchester United !!! I think Life is so short for us to have all the joy and fun we deserve, why do people make it so complicated by bringing anger, jealousy and mistrust to their relationship...and forgetting that we are here to Love one another, not "take advantage of as many as we can"? I believe it takes "a lot of time" to know someone, and when an actual "romance" does start, I still believe intimacy should be saved until your sure about each other's feelings for real. Call me old-fashioned but thats how I was raised. What kind of books do you like to read? My love are for books on mysticism, thrillers, auto-biographies and (please dont laugh) The Bible. The movies I really like so far are: A Walk To Remember, 6th Sense, Avatar, Message in a Bottle, Closer, and all James Bond... I like all forms of music, especially classical music and right now I'm listening to Bach and Mozart, Beethoven and Handel (water music)...Other than that, I like rock, Jazz, Lifehouse, Enya and Nickelback. I also like to go out with friends. No, I do not go clubbing, dont like it, its too crowdy and people misbehave a lot when they are stupidly drunk.In a relationship, Honesty and Trust are really big issues with me as well and the same goes with no violence. Do not lay your hands on any kid around me, because I had friends that grew up with me because the dads were always abusing them and their mothers. For me, family is very important because they come first and foremost! So, if you have some relatives you stay in touch with, thats a plus for you. I love kids to a fault and I think its because I feel I grew up alone as a single child. So why do I need a partner, you might ask? well, the one thing that is missing is finding a 'special' someone to enjoy life with, even though I find some fulfilment in my job and comfortable life right now...but sometimes I wander around my apartment all alone, feeling the boredom eating away at my soul and holding back tears. Other times, I think of having a lady over to ease the boredom, but my christian upbringing always get the better part of me, and I sleep alone. In college, I had a partner and she later became the partner I lost.She used to call me 'dreamy' because all her friends made passes at me, but I can not make out with someone I do not love. I was not made like that. I laugh and enjoy other guys tales of their escapades and all, but I have none to share and am quite okay with it. I was an only child, and I grew up with love around me... while my mother instilled christian principles inside my heart. My dad on the other hand was never really bothered, but he had his admirable traits. I am not perfect myself, but in due time I will tell you my imperfect trait.... it starts with the letter M. In my case, it is what I have been battling for years, but I know it will go away on its own with time an prayers. I am not religious but I believe in God, and recently the teachings of Eckhart Tolle made me love myself more than ever. Now am better rounded and more loving!Do you live with relatives or alone? I live with my Mom right now till I find a place of my own, even though I travel back and forth most of the time. My other apartment is in Liverpool so I stop there to check out my business contacts once in a while. Hope to hear back from you soon because I like reading from you. Tell me about your world and the people that you cherish right now? Can I see some bilder? Whew! This is the longest page I ever composed. kisses for youJ.
Von: "Jurgen Vogt" <jurgenvogt10@yahoo.de>
Gesendet: 17.08.2011 14:03:22
An: XXX@web.de
Betreff: Re: about me
hellooo???
Von: "Jurgen Vogt" <jurgenvogt10@yahoo.de>
Gesendet: 23.08.2011 22:50:03
An: XXX@web.de
Betreff: answers
Dearest XXX What a good response to the questions. I adore your honesty and I am interested more in you. Just need you to continue to be honest with me. I feel so safe and secure with you. Can you be the partner you have illustrated in your answers? I hope you can. Since this goes both ways, my answers are:1. How old are you and how tall and what work?I am 32y/o (May10,79), 180lbs and 6ft tall. I work with a giant Gas company with offices across the world. I am the acquisition freelancer. I have keen eyes and smart nose for smelling where the money would roll in from.2. What are the basic qualities you seek for in a partner?Trust, honesty, understanding, love, sharing good and bad times together with no fear of what the world might put upon us.3. What broke up your last relationship?She fell in love with her friend because I was not sensitive enough, and always travelling around.4. What are your hobbies and favorite color?I love all sports and music. Favorite color is blue (cool colour).5. Do you plan to have more kids?Yes, but hoping to start asap when I find the right partner.6. Do you like public intimacy?Public intimacy is my thing. I miss that though. I like to be cuddled, held and to walk while holding hands, it aids bonding, I guess. I love lying down at the park or beach with my partner sleeping peacefully beside me.7. Do you believe in love at first sight?Absolutely, but it takes quite a long time to nurture the love to full bloom.8. Would you hit your partner for any reason?I won't do that. My parents loved themselves till death and never had an episode of violence.9.What do you love most about yourself?I picked myself up by my bootstraps and made a 180 from being a cold terrible lover to a good man and great listener. I could see I was hurting people around me more, instead of reciprocating their affections. Money got into my head. The Bible extols the soul is the only reality. I love the fact that I could learn from my mistakes and silly ways, and become a better lover. My soul is a relaxed, well-roundedreality right now.10. Whats your major pet peeve? Screaming at a child(ren).11. Fave smell/scent?My fave smell is baby powder. Smells of sheer innocence and purity!12. favorite holidays?I should say thanksgiving...because I have a lot to be thankful for.13. Favorite season is a toss up. I like spring and watching the flowers and trees bloom...and I like fall because there is nothing better than falling into a pile of freshly raked leaves Schockiert/Erstaunt) Of course snowball fights in winter can be fun too...but my hands always get cold and I have terrible aim!14. Favorite flower? White lillies.15. Fave ice cream flavor? Vanilla.I hope I have answered the Questions to your satisfaction? Real love is trust, caring and respect. They say for better or worse. That is not just for married people. If you are in a meaningful relationship, you need to be there, FOR BETTER OR WORSE. For me I have climbed some big hills in life. I have seen quite a bit. Relationships. dating. friends. I have had to let some friends go over the years since they were not true friends. I called them out and tossed them.. I have no time for that. Two faced people that love misery. In my previous relationships I just knew when it was time to let go. It's hard. However, who wants to be with somebody when it's not right? Trust me, 8 years or so I was on the other end of it. I have been on the other end. It's life. So, you pick up and go.. You move on.. Life is too short to waste precious time when it's not right.I have a hypothetical question for you. Lets say we were together and we stayed up late, laughing and enjoying each others company while getting to know each other better. We end up making love most of the night and fall asleep without putting the alarm on to wake us up in time for work the next morning. When we do wake up in the morning, we're not late, but we need to hurry up and get ready. Would you take a shower with me to save time or would that be to embarassing for you ? Maybe you would want to shower alone?Life is better when there's someone caring at the other end. I find you really interesting, please do not stop communicating with me.All we need is friendship and love!Kisses,J
Betreff: Re: XXX
Von: "Jurgen Vogt" <jurgenvogt10@yahoo.de>
An: XXX@web.de
Datum: 31.08.11 00:45:21
Dearest liebe XXX
How are you doing today? I am happy for seeing your email. thanks so much for the wonderfull email. You are such a nice, honest and caring lady to me. I apologize for looooong time before I read your emails and get back. I have been busy with work.
I'm not sure about the way you see me, but at least my answers were upfront. Actually I think that's the way I am, and when I say it that open, I risk that you might not like this. But my aim is not to pretend beeing someone perfect, I rather want you to get a realistic impression about me! And "Nobody is perfect" - I am not perfect at all and I guess you won't be perfect either. But I don't care in case we both come to the conclusion that we could fit together. I used to have doubts about online dating, supposing it does not work out great. Now I think you are proving me wrong, which is a good thing, and this experience between us has a really, "good vibe," right now. I really admire your true thoughts from your heart spoken to me. I'm very confident that, if something does develop between us, it's going to only get better, and perhaps, "fall in love," with one another. But at the same token, I want us to get a chance to get to know each other before we meet. And when that day comes, there will nothing be but a great deal of respect, love, kisses and hugs.... Smiley Thus far, I think we already have some respect for each other already. We are communicating very effectively with one another and we are anxious to hear a return email from one another.
And to answer the question, I would LOVE to shower with you in the morning, and everytime. I love the way you talk to me. I hope you are as real as your words are, because am growing in fondness for you, and I dont want to get my hopes high only to have them crushed. I dont mind that your shower is small, we would fit inside.
Bummer news now, honey. About the deal I have been chasing for quite some time now (told you about it, remember?). It came through eventually and I won it! I am so happy right now, and due to the nature of the deal/job, I might be going over to Sud Afrika at morning (6am tomorrow) for a couple of days. I hope you wont forget me, because I can feel something deep happening here. I will try and write you before I leave, because from here on out, things are gonna be moving swiftly. Need to get packed, and round up a report/blueprint for my deal in Afrikaa.
How was your weekend? I really care about you and your my gut freund/schone dame.
With Love,
J