Hier noch ein Chat Protokoll: [15:47] chris: hello my dear...i am here now
[15:47] XXXXXX: yes I see
[15:48] chris: yes and i am glad to meet you here now
[15:49] chris: i like your photo and its soo nice..you are very beautiful and i want to stay with you and know you more ok...
[15:50] XXXXXX: I like your picture too. And maybe you can tell me something more about you and your daughter.
[15:51] chris: yes and i am happy to meet you as well...so what do you want to know about me now....ask and i will be honest with you my dear...
[15:53] XXXXXX: I'd like to learn everything about you. How you live, how your days look like....
[15:54] chris: well,i have been living all alone with my daughter for some years now and its has not been easy with me because i do everything and i make sure all goes on well with her until now that i want to meet someone great in my life...life has not been fair with me since i lost my wife
[15:55] XXXXXX: How did you loose your wife? Did she die?
[15:57] chris: she had a car accident on her way back home from work and its been about 6years now since she died and i really want to meet someone who can make me happy and start a new family with me once again and i know joanna will be soo much happy about it my dear...
[15:58] XXXXXX: O I'm so sorry for you and for your little girl. This must have been a terrible time for you.
[15:59] chris: oh yes but i am now happy because i know soon i will meet someone who can make me happy and my daughter as well for us to start a new family again...so tell me for how long were you married and why are you no more???
[16:02] XXXXXX: I was married for about xx years from xxxx to xxxx. We got divorced in xxxx. My husband married another time. But then he got divorced again and then died in xxxx.
[16:03] XXXXXX: I was alone with my sons since beginning of xxxx, but they don' live with me any more. One lives in xxxxxx and earns his own money. The other has gone to xxxxxxxx for studies.
[16:06] chris: yes i do understand what you mean and i am soo much happy to hear about you sons and i think they are good kids as well..i love children soo much and i always want the best for them...
[16:06] chris: so are you parents still alive???
[16:07] XXXXXX: My mother is still alive. She lives in xxxxxxx. That' s about 200 km away from me.
[16:07] chris: thats soo nice to hear and what of your dad?
[16:08] XXXXXX: He' s died 10 years ago.
[16:09] XXXXXX: My brother still lives with my mother. And I've also got a sister. She lives with her family in xxxxxxx about 20 km away from me.
[16:10] chris: aww i am soo sorry to hear that and i also lost my two parents some years back.i was born alone and i my grandmother was from china and i also lived and school in china for some years...
[16:11] XXXXXX: really? You don't look like a chinese
[16:12] XXXXXX: You mean you have no sisters and brothers?
[16:12] chris: yes because i look like my father and she was a british...my mother went to china to look after her mother thats my grandmother and i went there to stay with her and i stayed in china,beijing for a very long time and i came back to my father when i lost my mother and in uk i lost my father as well...
[16:13] chris: yes i have no brother or sister and i was born alone by my parents...
[16:13] XXXXXX: Yes I see, life was very hard to you.
[16:14] XXXXXX: Do you speak Chinese?
[16:15] chris: yes but not much...
[16:15] chris: so how come you were able to learn and speak english as well???
[16:16] XXXXXX: I learned it at school.
[16:17] chris: thats soo nice to hear and i think you are really good in speaking and i love that soo much..i am happy to meet you and i really want to get to know you more...
[16:17] XXXXXX: Every child in Germany learns Englisch for at least 5 years.
[16:18] XXXXXX: I'm quite good in writing.
[16:18] XXXXXX: But I don't know whether my pronounciation and intonation is quite good.
[16:19] XXXXXX: I've been to England for three times.
[16:19] XXXXXX: I have an aunt living in London.
[16:23] chris: yes i do understand what you mean and i think you are very intelligent woman and i really want to get to know you more...so tell me what kind of man are you looking for???
[16:26] XXXXXX: O that is a difficult question. Important for me is sense of humour and calmless.
[16:28] XXXXXX: I can't cope with aggressiveness or hysteria.
[16:28] chris: yes i do understand what you mean and i am also looking for someone who can make me happy,someone who can spend time with me..i want to meet someone who will spend all his life with me and start a new family...also i want to meet someone i can share my interest with and also let her know how important she is to me and i hope you do understand what i mean???
[16:29] XXXXXX: yes I understand.
[16:30] XXXXXX: What are your interests?
[16:31] chris: i love to watch televison,i enjoy walking and swimming...i also love reading and also going to the cinema and also travelling..i love to be at the beach also and i will also to enjoy more good things with my partner and i hope you do understand what i mean and what about you?
[16:34] XXXXXX: I also love television and swimming, walking in the mountains and travelling. And I love very much to work in my garden.
[16:34] chris: yes thats soo nice to hear and do you live in your own house or you do rent an apartment my dear???
[16:35] XXXXXX: I've rented an appartment.
[16:35] XXXXXX: My garden is a 'Schreber'garten. It is in xxxxxxxx, 20 km away from me.
[16:37] XXXXXX: I also love to spend time with children. But i have to committ that I won't have further children as I'm 48 years old yet.
[16:38] chris: yes i do understand what you mean and i am glad you love children and i also dont want to give birth again because i am ok with joanna and i just need someone who can start a new family with me and i hope you do understand what i mean?
[16:38] XXXXXX: yes I understand.
[16:39] chris: so tell me for how long have you been living alone my dear??
[16:41] XXXXXX: for about eight years without husband and for about three I'm alone in my appartement.
[16:42] XXXXXX: But I meet my children regularly. My elder son visits me every few weeks. And I go to xxxxxxxxx once in a month.
[16:42] chris: yes i do understand what you mean and how has life been with you without a husband my dear???
[16:43] XXXXXX: In the beginning it was not easy.
[16:45] XXXXXX: but I have nice friends. And I have no problems to be alone. Though it would be nice there was someone to share my thoughts and experiences with
[16:46] chris: i am soo sorry to hear that and i feel soo sad to hear this news and how is life with you now???
[16:47] XXXXXX: O I'm getting on.
[16:48] chris: yes thats soo nice and can i know some of your plans when you meet the right man of your life???
[16:50] chris: (F)
[16:51] XXXXXX: I haven't any plans yet.
[16:51] XXXXXX: I will see when time comes...
[16:52] chris: ok thats good with me...so tell me for how long have you been working and can you explain to me well for me to understand you
[16:53] XXXXXX: I've worked in my current job for the last nine years.
[16:56] chris: (F)
[16:56] XXXXXX: I work withxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
[16:59] chris: oh ok..and for how long have you been doing this kind of business...i have been working for about 18 years now and i love my business soo much...
[17:00] XXXXXX: I have been doing that for nine years and I always like it.
[17:01] chris: thats soo nice to hear and i think you are a very hard working woman and i love that soo much of you and i also think you are going to be a good person and i want to stay with you and get to know you more because i am much interested in you and i want to know you more and do you understand me my dear???
[17:02] XXXXXX: Yes I understand.
[17:03] XXXXXX: So maybe we can see us some day.
[17:04] chris: oh yes and i will be soo much glad to know you more and know what the future holds for us because i am soo much happy now to meet you and i want to stay with you always and get to know you more...so what are some of the things you dislike when you are in a relatinship???
[17:05] XXXXXX: I don't like lies and I don't like not to talk about problems when there are any.
[17:07] XXXXXX: But I also don't like harsh words.
[17:08] XXXXXX: And I don't like disorder
[17:12] chris: yes i do understand what you mean and i always want my partner to tell me the truth always and i always want peace in a relationship.i also hate hash words and i always want things to be in the rightful way...
[17:12] chris: so tell me did you had any experience here online???
[17:13] XXXXXX: I hadn't. I only chatted with my sons on ICQ before we changed to facebook.
[17:14] XXXXXX: On facebook I'm only friend with people I know from real life.
[17:17] chris: yes i do understand what you mean...so what are your plans for the rest for the day???
[17:18] XXXXXX: Now Its getting dark and I planned to go to the little christmas market in my village.
[17:19] chris: oh really....thats soo nice and i love going to market with my darling to make her happy always..
[17:19] XXXXXX: Its really very small, but you can drink some Glühwein and eat a Bratwurst
[17:21] XXXXXX: When I'm back, I think I'm watching TV or something.
[17:22] chris: yes thats a nice shedule and i will also watch televison and wait for you online...can we meet again online when you are back this evening my dear?
[17:22] XXXXXX: yes of course.
[17:23] XXXXXX: Then let's meet again later and best wishes for your daughter.
[17:24] chris: ok so what time do you want me to meet you???
[17:24] chris: its 4 22 now here
[17:25] XXXXXX: Here it;s 17:24.
[17:25] XXXXXX: I think I'll be back at 20:00.
[17:25] chris: ok so i will be here 20 00 your time to wait for you ok...
[17:26] chris: have a wonderful day and take care of your self nicely
[17:26] chris: it was nice meeting you and i am soo much happy and i know i will think of you my dear
[17:26] XXXXXX: Thank you, same to you
[17:26] chris: (K)(F)
[17:26] chris: byeee
[17:27] XXXXXX: bye
Samstag, November, 27, 2010 19:59:50
[19:59] XXXXXX: Hi, you are here again
[20:00] chris: yes and i just sign in to chat with you again...i am glad that you are here with me now
[20:00] chris: how are you doing this evening my dear???
[20:01] XXXXXX: I was just looking at your picture. You are a really beautiful man.
[20:01] XXXXXX: I'm fine.
[20:02] chris: thats soo nice and i am also happy to meet you here once again because i was really having you in mind and i couldnt wait to meet you here again...so how did everything go my dear???
[20:07] XXXXXX: O I went to the Christmas market. It was really small, just 4 or 5 huts where you can buy candles and cookies and postcards etc. I bought a flowerpot with a candle and some fir branch and a little angel. And then I drank some hot wine and ate a Bratwurst.
[20:08] XXXXXX: I did stay a little while and listened to the music. A teenage band played christmas carols.
[20:09] XXXXXX: But it was very cold outside, so I went home.
[20:09] XXXXXX: What did you do this evening?
[20:14] chris: i am soo much happy to hear this sweet thinhs from you and i guess you had fun soo much and i wish i was there with you so we could have great fun together but i know someday everything will be alright and i will be soo much happy once again...i also did some cooking because i love cooking and also watched televison for a while and now i am here to chat with you
[20:16] XXXXXX: I too think it would be nice you could sit here and we could look at each other and talk. Writing is much more strenuous.

What did you cook?
[20:19] chris: well,i cooked pasta and salad this evening and i love it soo much my dear...do you enjoy cooking and have you eaten something this evening???
[20:22] XXXXXX: Yes I enjoy cooking very much. But this evening I didn't cook anything because of the bratwurst.
[20:23] XXXXXX: Now I'm drinking some mineral water.
[20:25] chris: yes i do understand what you mean and i also enjoy cooking with my partner and what kind of food do you enjoy cooking my dear?
[20:28] XXXXXX: I love most to cook when my children are with me. Then I often cook their favourites. My elder son loves Kässpätzle. My younger son Bratkartoffeln (potatoes fried in a pan) and mushrooms and steak. When I am alone I often make soup or stew.
[20:29] XXXXXX: I also like to make cakes. But mostly one cake is too much for me.
[20:32] chris: yes i do understand what you mean and i love potatoes and cakes as well...joanna also enjoy that soo much...so tell me whats your favourite food and colour ???
[20:36] XXXXXX: O difficult. I have a lot of favourite food. I love pasta as well and in winter fried pork with dumplings (Schweinsbraten mit Knödel

). And I like everything which is orange like oranges and apricots and of course blue fruit like blueberries and plums.
[20:39] chris: yes i do understand that soo much and i am happy to hear this from you...so what are some of the quality things you are missing and you will love to enjoy or share with your partner???
[20:40] XXXXXX: What do you mean 'quality things'?
[20:40] XXXXXX: Give me an example, please.
[20:42] chris: i mean some of the good things you will love to share with your partner
[20:46] XXXXXX: When my husband left me the things I mist mostly were things of everyday life: daily phone calls, reading newspaper together and talk about it. meet friends together, eating a yoghurt before going to bed, planning the weekend etc.
[20:46] XXXXXX: What did you have in mind when you were looking for a partner?
[20:49] chris: i wanted to meet someone who will understand me and enjoy my interest wit me...i also want to share much good time with her and make her happy always and let her also know how important she is to me and i will do everything to let her know how much i do love her and how she do mean to me as well...
[20:49] XXXXXX: And tell me why are you looking for a partner in a German forum? Wouldn't it be more comfortable to find somebody in England?
[20:52] chris: well,i also do believe i can meet the right woman of my life any where in the world but what really matter is how to meet her and i know i can relocate when i meet her and stay with her and start a new family with her as i dont have any family here i bristol and also my daughter is in support of me finding a new mother for her...
[20:53] chris: do you understand what i mean my dear???
[20:53] XXXXXX: Yes I understand.
[20:54] chris: thats soo nice...
[20:55] XXXXXX: What does your daughter think? Does she want a new mother at all?
[20:55] XXXXXX: Perhaps she is happy to have you all for her own?
[20:56] chris: yes because she is still young and she need a good parental guide and thats why i am doing all my best to meet the right woman of my life who can make her happy and also make our new family the best and i will be soo much happy again in life because i have been a lone for a very long time and i think this is the best time for me to meet her in my life...
[20:57] XXXXXX: Okay
[20:57] chris: (F)
[20:57] XXXXXX: What does this (F) mean?
[20:58] chris: just to put a smile on your face my dear...
[20:58] XXXXXX: you used it before and I didn't understand
[20:58] XXXXXX: Okay
[20:58] XXXXXX: And what does (K) mean?
[20:59] chris: smile....just to give you a kiss...
[20:59] chris:

;)
[21:00] XXXXXX: now I understand better.
[21:00] chris: thats soo nice...i am soo much happy with you and do you feel the same as me my dear???
[21:01] XXXXXX: yes I do.
[21:01] chris: wow...you make me soo much happy and i love that soo much of you my dear..
[21:03] XXXXXX: So I'm happy to make you happy
[21:04] chris: oh yes my dear..
[21:06] XXXXXX: Let's stay in contact and let the relations grow.
[21:07] chris: oh yes and i will be soo much happy because i think you are very good and i want to stay with you and get to know you more and know what the future has for us my dear...you are being soo good to me and i really dont want to loose you my dear...
[21:14] XXXXXX: Maybe you could send me a picture of your daughter, Not now but next time somewhen.
[21:16] chris: oh yes and i will look for one and send to you soon ok...she is very nice and i know you will love her soo much
[21:16] XXXXXX: Now i'm a bit tired and would like to relax a little bit. Maybe when can meet here sometime in the next days?
[21:17] chris: yes and i will be glad if we meet most time in the evening here and chat and know how everything is moving on with us ok..can we meet tomorrow if you are free to chat with me???
[21:19] XXXXXX: I'm here tomorrow in the morning. I'm starting work tomorrow at 13:30 and have to leave at 13:00 and I stay there over night. I'll be back on monday at 22:30.
[21:20] chris: yes i do understand what you mean and can we chat tomorrow morning before you go to work my dear???
[21:20] XXXXXX: I mostly work in the evenings from 17:00 to 22:00. Every fourth day I stay over night.
[21:20] chris: oh ok...
[21:20] chris: so can we chat tomorrow morning before you leave for work?
[21:21] XXXXXX: Yes, my PC starts at 10:00.
[21:21] chris: so do you want me to come online 10am your time to chat with you?
[21:21] XXXXXX: If you want to sleep longer I'm waiting for you here, okay?
[21:22] chris: i will be here to chat with you exactly 10am ok...
[21:22] chris: i want you to take care of your self nicely for me and hope to meet you tomorrow
[21:23] XXXXXX: So I wish you an nice time and sleep well
[21:23] chris: yes you too
[21:23] chris: byeee
[21:23] chris: (K)(F)
[21:23] XXXXXX: bye
[21:23] XXXXXX:
Auch davon gibt es noch massenweise. Ich werde in den nächsten Tagen noch mehr Auszüge einstellen. Einige Punkte sind wahrscheinlich bekannt. Man kann jedoch erkennen, dass die 'Biographie' immer ausgefeilter wird.