Hello. I have received yours e-mail on a dating site "datemeeasy".

I wish to destroy the loneliness and to find the good person whom, as well as I, will want to divide with me pleasure of a joint life and a happy family.

My name is Elena, me 34 years. I live in Russia in the city of Ekaterinburg. I the widow also have one child, the boy of 6 years, his name is Nikita. 

I such what I am. In the person the main thing - individuality. Everyone should be individuality and then he achieves something in a life.

I always would like something big, than is, and I aspire to it. I can spend evening, having fun in a circle of friends, and I can to stay all the evening long with the book in hands, but also that and another I do with ease and pleasure. The person should be beautiful internally and then he becomes outwardly more beautiful, without internal beauty appearance anything. What do I wait from the man? A complicated question. Most of all, probably, a cosiness, heat and reliability. When and than I was engaged, together or separately, brings sincere satisfaction and calmness, that he is, that he nearby. I like to live in comfortable conditions, I am able and I love is tasty to prepare, but never I do a cult of meal, cleaning or a campaign on shops. To be oneself in eyes of the man a difficult problem. The man wishes to see in us the ideal. But that such an ideal and what he him sees, anybody cannot explain. The best exit from a situation that you perceived such what you are. For mutual understanding it is not necessary to be similar. It is necessary to supplement each other. Happy pairs aspire to mutual understanding and partnership: they do not try to establish, who is right, who is guilty. They are ready to make a compromise for the sake of the world and calmness. Their quarrels never leave from under the general control and do not generate insults. Everyone knows how to finish another to madness, but never applies this forbidden trick. The main thing in relations normal dialogue. For this purpose there are three factors: ability to listen to another, a correctness during disputes and absence of negative consequences at disagreement. They should not suppress each other, not force, not specify - they should agree, because are able to listen each other.

I do not search for the prince on a white horse, but, probably, reliability, mutual understanding, each woman wishes to find in the man respect and decency.

If you liked that I have told to you, and it wanted to you to get acquainted with me more close, simply write to me, and, probably, I will appear that which you so long searched. My email: tolmaelva@yandex.ru

I will look forward your letter.

Sincerely, Elena.

Hello xxxxx!

In the yesterday's message I have decided not to write to you about myself in detail, having considered, that it will be a little inappropriate for the first letter. But now I see that you have become interested in my modest person and I will dare to tell a little about myself and the life. But if my story to you is uninteresting, write to me about it without any constraint. I perfectly will understand you!

My name Elena, but my native and friends name me Lena. If want, too can me so to name, after all, I hope that we will soon make friends!

I was born on September, 25th, 1975, now to me of 34 years. As well as each person in my life has enough both good and bad memoirs. In following letters I will tell to you about them if it, of course, interests you.

As I spoke earlier, I three years the widow. My husband was lost on work, he worked as the fireman. I will write to you in following letters on it if it is interesting to you. So has developed that married I was not. But it not because guys do not pay to me attention. Simply I yet have not met that only thing which completely would understand me. And to live together with the person who is not dividing your sights and especially to have from it children, I consider wrong.

I will reveal to you secret - on the eve of the most favourite holiday, Christmas, I have thought of desire meeting at last the man whom I could grow fond and marry him really. By the Russian traditions of the girl often guess this evening on narrowed, and can sometimes see it in the dream. And in your country there are any traditions connected with Christmas?

Yes, has forgotten to tell to you, I live in the big city of Ekaterinburg. But in the Soviet power its name was another - Sverdlovsk. He is the fourth by quantity of the population a city in Russia and concedes only to Moscow, St.-Petersburg and Novosibirsk. Our city is the large metallurgical centre formed still in 1723 so very soon we will celebrate it 300 years anniversary.

I live together with parents and my son. At us not so big, but cosy apartment. Parents at me simply remarkable, therefore and a family amicable. Every evening we gather behind a table, we have supper and we share with each other the pleasures and grieves. My mum perfectly prepares also us with sisters too has learnt to different culinary knowledge. I very much am proud of it, because I consider, that the present woman should understand kitchen perfectly.

And still I have cat Sima. She very beautiful, tender and perfectly feels my mood. When to me happens especially sadly and alone, she lays down to me on knees, I start her to iron and I notice, that the grief gradually leaves me.
  
Very much it would be desirable to learn about your family and about that as you live, as spend a free time that like to do by evenings. Will tell?

In the childhood I as many girls, the steel the figure skater or the ballerina dreamt. But, unfortunately, not all children's dreams come true... Having matured, I have understood, that my present calling is an education of children. After leaving school I have arrived in pedagogical institute which is in our city. And now I work as the tutor in a kindergarten. I very much love the work and kiddies whom I bring up. And even I am upset that I do not have own child a little. But I feel, that shortly my private life will be adjusted.

I write this letter to you from cosy Internet cafe which is near to my house. The computer at me, unfortunately, is not present. I very seldom use it, therefore I quite accept such variant. Agree, it would be unreasonable to buy for my part expensive technics that she simply stood in inactivity. I consider, that it is necessary to spend money with mind and to get only that is really necessary.

Know, I very much worried, when started to write to you. Was afraid, that at me it will not turn out to make the connected story about itself. But in cafe so it is cosy, and fine romantic music sounds, that words by itself have started to develop in lines. I very much like melodious songs, they help me to relax and restore forces. And sometimes easier to dream. Here, as now, for example. Still I love R&B. To me like, both Russian, and foreign compositions. I do not wish to seem immodest, but I and itself very well sing. Interestingly, and what music is loved by you? Whether often you listen to her?

Still it would be desirable to ask: how you prefer to have a rest? I, for example, very much love rest on the nature. In vicinities Ekaterinburg the surprising nature - centuries-old woods, beautiful mountains, the deep rivers. I am very frequent together with friends I leave for a city on the target. Sometimes we stop on one of numerous tourist bases, and sometimes - simply we pitch tents in wood and we arrange picnic. Impressions - remarkable! Fresh wood air dements me! In a city, of course, such there is that too many the industrial enterprises, no cars and smokers. I do not understand, how people can smoke, voluntary poisoning themselves? I in general very negatively concern smoking and alcohol. I can drink, of course, a glass of good wine if there is an occasion, but no more that.

On the nature I very sociable and open person. But, probably, it is not always good. Also there are people who simply use trustfulness of others. In my life there was one bitter experience, but I will tell about it to you in the following letter if you, of course, want it.

And now, I will cease to tyre you and I will say goodbye. I hope that our acquaintance will proceed. With impatience I will wait for your letter. Yours faithfully, Elena.