Und dann kam das am 17.09.2009:
"Hello,
Sorry that i couldn't get back to you earlier, i am not in a good shape and i am trying to get myself back.. I received a call from Malaysia about my mother's health and was told that she was rushed down to the hospital but i don't know what's wrong so it spoilt my day and i am trying to be happy. I had already taken leave from work for a week which i will be traveling to Malaysia on Thursday morning because i had also booked for my flight ticket and my flight will be 11:25am for the departure time."
Das scheint schon mal spätestens dann ein Scam zu sein, als sie vorgibt, nach Malaysia fliegen zu müssen und offensichtlich per der ersten E-Mail sich noch nie in Deutschland befand... Dann kam noch das:
Never did I imagine that I would ever meet you, especially not in the form of a chat friend. A year later I am leading my life with you as your fiance which I could never thought of this very time last year. I opened the pictures, you looking great and also showed my mom your pictures she also can't wait to meet you as her wishes.
God has got his own reasons for us to meet and come this far. But I hope our love will flourish beyond what it is right now. Distance maybe just a part of the reason why sometimes we think we can't handle this whole relationship, but I am sure our love for each other is way far stronger then any oceans can come across.
I am writing you this letter to tell you that my love for you is so real that I can't find any words to describe my feelings for you. At the same time I would like to thank you for all your patience while our relationship had to go through high waves and hard rocks. My love for you has grown so strong that I can never imagine a life without you now.
I will always be yours no matter what the world turns out to be. My heart will always yearning for your love and care forever.I know we don't get to talk much. But being in Malaysia doesn't change the way I feel about you in my heart. Sure I'm lonely, and sometimes I'm overwhelmed with this emptiness in my chest. But baby, I love you, in love with, and everything.
Being apart from you again is feeling death in slow motion. I think of how things could have been if only we had gotten married. But, what can we do now? Pray for things to come through? I'm lost without you, and I can't think of anything else, but of what our destiny might be. Suddenly, I close my eyes and I imagine your hands caressing my face, fearing that you'll feel the tears running through my cheeks. I know you're hurting as much as I am, but I don't want you to feel sorry for me.
I love you and I'm not sorry for loving you, you've giving me so much happiness, and I know you're loving me in your own great way. I miss you soo much and the fear of losing you is making me mad. Don't let our love die through the distance, nor let the faith fall away... I'm thinking about the day that i will be in your arms, and make the sun shine once again on these stormy times.
The medications for her health is working, and i am so glad when i saw the new X-ray so it's improving and i am so happy about that, i have spent lot of money here on her health and i am so proud of my mother and wish i can do anything and everything for her to make her happy and for her to know that she has a loving daughter behind her. I would like to tell you something but i don't know they way you'll feel in your heart, but to me no matter how you feel it won't change anything in my heart and instead your love will keep growing longer and longer in my heart till eternity. The doc's prescriptions tells that mom need another medications and that'll helps to make it dissolve in her stomach and it will be the last medications for her and i am so happy when i heard that and also she's happy because i promised her GRAND-CHILD one day and soon, i just can't wait to make her happy.
I need you seek something from you, whatever you feels in your heart, i am sorry if i made you upset and i never did and asked for this kind of assistance from anybody or man in my life and i want you to understand what i am going through now because my mother's life is more important than anything in this world and when my mother is happy, i am totally happy too.
The medications is 800 euros, i need you to assist me for that and i can't wait to pay you back when i am back and i promise i will and hope you can trust me about that and it'll make me happy and also be my happiest day because you are saving my mother's life.
I will be expecting your next letter, but i would be going back to the hospital soon, mom also sent her regards to you and also willing to meet you oneday and be part of the family. Tell me about your day, what are you doing and what did you do? I can't wait to be in your arms, you mean lot to me.
Wishing you a loving night, sweetdreams.