Hello my dear friend, ijijijijij
I again with pleasure read your new letter!
All that you write very interesting to me and I read your letter many times=
! It seems to me, that our ideas in many respects are similar.
My friend, how there is your day? Today I had many affairs on work, but I a=
lmost have executed all, therefore it is possible a little rest.)))
I am very glad to read all your ideas.
Your ideas very much like me!))))))))
I really respect with you as serious man and is very glad, that I learn you=
more and more!
In a life I often observe relations of other people. It is possible to see =
it in the street or among friends. I am assured, that in a life of each per=
son there are bad and good examples! It not necessarily should happen to us=
, but we become witnesses of this. I have no in view of the relation for on=
e night or fleeting novels! I never was interested in it!
Unfortunately we see people, which are not happy, are annoyed or simply glo=
omy. There is that a man and the woman together, but they constantly quarre=
l, because of any trifle. They can go together, but there is an impression,=
that him absolutely to spit against each other. When earlier all was anoth=
er. They have been inspired and admired the friend with the friend! Their e=
ach day has been filled by pleasure. Probably it proceeded not long and gra=
dually fire between them began to burn poorly.=20
I always asked to myself a question. Why so happens?
Why people, which more recently were are unseparable, now can to become ang=
ry, insult, against each other or even hatred.
The most important seems to me, that in relations fidelity, honesty, trust,=
care and support. Probably, when people break one of these components all =
breaks.
Some people look really happy! They go keeping for a hand or embraces. They=
constantly cheerful also have interesting conversation. They realy are hap=
py and love each other. They do not notice anybody around and it seems, tha=
t they live in the small world and any problems or bad weather cannot distu=
rb their happy world!
It is really pleasant to look at such people!
Often in lives, financial, difficulties of a problem on work, alcohol are t=
he beginning for destruction of the relation. It sounds sadly, but it is va=
lid so. But if people really wish to be together and value all that they ha=
ve created, then they never will leave each other in a trouble and together=
to overcome all difficulties!
Once I have heard that falls in love and love it variously. When we fall in=
love that us fill emotions, pleasure, happiness, fire. Probably that it go=
es through our brain. We admire beauty, kindness, good character, good educ=
ation and other qualities. It arrives unexpectedly or gradually. Often it e=
nd, these feelings pass and fire inside cools down. Fortunately so happens =
not always!
It is necessary to grow up love! The real love demands from us time, forces=
, patience, respect, support and care!
When you love really, then you care first of all of the beloved. Not becaus=
e he or she beautiful or still something, that is why because person to bec=
ome a particle you. You completely forget about the egoism and transfer it =
to other person.
For the real love the reason is not necessary, will be necessary only which=
to concern the good person to you.
The real love exists, when the person loves other person simply so without =
the reason, simply loves. Loves just as mother loves the child. When the ch=
ild was not born yet, mother starts to develop the love to him till his bi=
rth!=20
It seems to me, that it is really true love!!!
When people understand it and try to develop the relations, but not simply =
to use each other, then they receive the true happiness and love which the=
y are worthy.
Certainly I understand, that we live not in the ideal world and good days a=
re replaced bad, but at this time it is necessary to support especially and=
care about each other as about itself.
I do not know you have understood me or not, that I wished to tell, but I r=
eally tried to explain my ideas!
This all of what I dream and I wish to spend my life for this purpose!
I with impatience would like to learn your ideas too?
Have a good day!
Yours friend,
Anna.